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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 12:42:22 PM   
SomethingCatchy


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Status: offline 		I've had multiple dominant men, usually in their 40's and 50's, email me asking if I'd be interested in them submitting to me. When I ask why they're interested in me, the usual reply is "Because it would be easy to submit to a younger woman." No.... that's not insulting at all.

I've had a few dominant men, usually in their 40's and 50's, email me asking why I think I'm dominant, and have tried insisting that I'm too young to know what I want and that I need to experience life... under their thumb with their collar on. Preferably done in the ass and with the ultimate question "Do you spit or swallow" thrown in.

My usual response is something equally insulting like "You're wasting my time, here's the link to some free porn."

I'd be interested in finding out why men in this age category appear to be so inferior to younger men. I've had better success talking to men in the 20-30 age group in a reasonable, human, decent way with lots of humor and a few good friendships coming out of it. Most 40-50 year olds seem to think building a friendship is just red tape and they don't have time for it.



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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 12:50:52 PM   
Lockit


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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 12:55:03 PM   
MistressTaboo


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I have had this in person...I normally get it at least once when we move to a new location. It  has to do with being little and blonde I think.

My particular favorite was a gentle man who right after we were introduced held on to my hand and leaned in and told me I was a submissive and I just hadn't met the right Dom. My two subs BOTH took a step back and looked like they wanted to hide....Still holding onto his hand I leaned in and said

I'll get up on the cross right after you get down for me. BTW I specialize in CBT and I'm PMSing...Shall we?

He had a look of terror. I've found most male Dom's can't handle the idea of CBT. He also told everyone at the party I was a bitch. Which I thought was hysterical since more than half the party witnessed his little play and told everyone else. Seems he does this to all new Dommes. I was just new to the area...not being a Domme.




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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 1:01:39 PM   
MistressRouge


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There's always the great reply of, "why would I submit to someone who's dick is smaller than My strap on?"


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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 1:16:30 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There's always the great reply of, "why would I submit to someone who's dick is smaller than My strap on?"


Pmsl

Oh, heck no.  As a couple of the others have said, I find this kind of thing amusing from time to time.  My invention of one liners goes with one of My permanent rules.

Mistress has a sense of humor.  Laugh at the jokes, whether you think they are funny or not.


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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 1:19:57 PM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

What do you ladies do when approached by another dominant, I will assume male, who gives you the whole: “Do you have the courage to submit to me?”, “You haven’t met the right dom, get on your knees.” bullshit.  Do you just ignore them or do you have a good come back?


IF I reply it is to point out that they need to go back to school to learn how to read a profile on the most basic level.

What I don't get are the guys who have labeled themselves bottom/sub/slave here and then send the same sort of email... that's not even slightly logical.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 1:23:10 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		When the profile says dominant or submissive and they come on to you in email as the other... I always get a prideful smile when I call it... they aren't from an English speaking area and I don't really think it is a language barrier thing.  They just want 'something'.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 3:24:07 PM   
RichieB


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Status: offline 		I just reply with " put the crack pipe down"



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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 4:10:40 PM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		I got one!!! I got one!! Just a little while ago!!! It says....
 
"Bow own and presnt your self to your future master"!!!!
 
Wooo hoooo!!!
 
I'm guessing the "own" is meant to be "down", he's from Belgium.
 
I feel soooooooooo special!!!
 
And I did reply, I said "Yeah..... right.... "
 
Jewel

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 4:19:58 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Congrats, Jewel.  See, they are good for a laugh, aren't they?

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 5:36:57 PM   
BindSwitchBitch


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Status: offline 		It happens to me alot actually.

It is usually a vanilla guy who doesn't know a single thing about s/m offering to tie me up and "beat the shit" out of me, because he figures that's what I'm "into" and he will get to have sex with me because of it. I don't like it when people assume that I'm a bottom just because I'm female. I also don't like the underlying assumption that topping for bdsm activities takes no skill, equipment or practice; and I should be grateful someone male is willing to "beat" me, etc. If I meet someone and they don't have skills or know much about BDSM they are definitely bottoming to me and not vice versa.

< Message edited by BindSwitchBitch -- 12/9/2008 5:39:46 PM >

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 5:38:58 PM   
lilmissdefiant


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Status: offline 		I always get the ones from Doms wanting to" fuck my ass until it rips open"
I usually reply

ok Here's what we are going to do. First I'm going to mold your cock. Secondly make a cast out of it then shove it up your ass, if you like it then you can do it to me.


I usually don't get a reply back from that.


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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 5:55:06 PM   
ShaktiSama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

What do you ladies do when approached by another dominant, I will assume male, who gives you the whole: “Do you have the courage to submit to me?”, “You haven’t met the right dom, get on your knees.” bullshit.  Do you just ignore them or do you have a good come back?


This nonsense comes in various flavors--sometimes it is actually romantic or innocently intended, i.e., "I would like to explore my submissive side with you" or whatever. I always just ignore it regardless of the tone, though, if it comes from a stranger. I am not interested in intimate BDSM acts with any stranger, regardless of whether I would be topping or bottoming! Friends first, serious whips and chains second, folks. ALWAYS.

In general, though, I *do* find it pretty hilarious when people assume that I would define myself as dominant because I've never tried any form of submission or masochism myself, though. Puh-lease--as if I could see all my bottoms having all that fun and never be even curious whether I could experience the same pleasure if I tried it? No way, Jose. And I have the bondage photos to prove it.

It's not that I was never curious, it just didn't work for me.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 6:42:55 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		If I had a submissive CELL in my body, believe me, I would have used it already pouncing on a Certain Someone.   But the very fact that I said POUNCE kind of gives the game away, doesn't it?   Dang subspacey endorphin producers!! I never got any of that.    

I chuckle and delete the emails, ususally. 

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 6:46:24 PM   
kolekorin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

I find calling them 'Cupcake' will make them foam at the mouth. 


Frickin' awesome.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/9/2008 8:19:04 PM   
MistressDaraine


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Status: offline 		Let's see - I've had one dom looking to start a slave farm with me - I told him I wasn't into collecting slaves for him to hold as a personal bunny ranch.  "Business" indeed.
Another wanted to have dinner with me.  He's in Mass. and I'm in Texas.  I responded with "That would be a little difficult, considering how far away we are, don't you think?'
No response - and I left it open to see what he would say, too.  So sad.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/10/2008 1:19:51 AM   
MissAnimus


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Status: offline 		I usually say something like "OK dear, you win. Why don't you hold your breath until it happens?"

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/10/2008 2:45:30 AM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		In person I will raise an eyebrow and ask in an icy voice, "And you are _______?"  For e-mails it might be a block or a snarky response like, "Time to move out of your parent's basement and stop masturbating with motor oil."



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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/10/2008 3:31:15 AM   
beeble


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quote:

lilmissdefiant wrote: I always get the ones from Doms wanting to" fuck my ass until it rips open"
I usually reply

ok Here's what we are going to do. First I'm going to mold your cock. Secondly make a cast out of it then shove it up your ass, if you like it then you can do it to me.

Obviously, the guy's out of line and it doesn't really matter how you say `no'.

But this `test' doesn't make sense: many genuine dominants wouldn't enjoy most of the things they do to their subs, if done to them.  Conversely, the fact that somebody enjoys having something done to them doesn't mean it would be reasonable for them to do it to others.

Also, now you mention it, the idea of a sub being taken with a cast of his own cock is quite delightfully wicked.

beeble.

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RE: Submit to me, bitch! - 12/10/2008 4:00:47 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I'm starting to feel so left out.  Haven't heard from any Doms in a long time.  And most of them wanted to submit.  One even changed his profile from Dom to Switch for me... until his WIFE found out he was playing on the computer and his profile went *Poof*.  Fakers and Wannabes are everywhere.  

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