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collars - 12/10/2008 7:23:45 PM   
NazjamRa


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what is the one thing a person could say or do that would either make you either accept or reject a collar? and vice versa?
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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 7:29:03 PM   
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Not really something to be said, But i do know that if there wasn't love and respect there, I never would have accepted mine form Sweets...

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 7:43:16 PM   
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it wouldn't necessarily be something said or not.  it would be lots of time with that person, building trust, love, friendship, etc.  those things speak louder than words.

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 7:50:58 PM   
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To accept a collar, among things that I consider most important:  consistent positive behavior (this covers a wide range of things such as being a stable, secure, functional person),over a period of time, a comfortable period of time spent together in varied situations and circumstances, shared goals, shared beliefs regarding what a relationship between us is and how it should progress.

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 7:58:52 PM   
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What would have me rejecting a collar is knowing a Dom's intent was just to use the collaring as a status symbol to say he has a collared sub.

Not sure what would have me accepting a collar from someone. Much will depend if we both were suited enough for each other and I felt safe enough to want and need to wear his collar.


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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:32:28 PM   
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There has got to be an amount of mutual respect.
Master and i talked alot about plans and goals and what W/we expected from E/each other before i even accepted his collar. i am very glad i did.

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:39:09 PM   
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quote:

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what is the one thing a person could say or do that would either make you either accept or reject a collar? and vice versa?


"If you don't accept this collar I am going to throw this puppy off of this cliff," while standing in front of me, on a cliff, holding a puppy. 

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:44:37 PM   
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And then you'd put the collar on the puppy and push the guy off the cliff?
 
What?  That's what I'd do...

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:45:37 PM   
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And then you'd put the collar on the puppy and push the guy off the cliff?
 
What?  That's what I'd do...


Pretty much.  I never said I would submit. . . I just said that I would accept the collar.  I never said for what. 

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:46:38 PM   
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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 8:48:21 PM   
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for $100 million, I would do ANYTHING YOU WANTED! lol 

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 11:39:47 PM   
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You can be had for less than that.

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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 11:45:37 PM   
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Hey, I might be easy, but I'm sure as HELL not Cheap!!!

Edited to say:  Oh.... Alright.... Maybe for you!  HEHE!

< Message edited by MarksFantasyGirl -- 12/10/2008 11:49:12 PM >


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RE: collars - 12/10/2008 11:52:13 PM   
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oooh, I have a coupon

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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 12:15:48 AM   
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I would take a collar from my Domme (who happens that doesn't exist yet) when I feel I belong to Her fully, entirely and completely. I'm afraid it takes more than a word or deed to get to this point, for the collar is similar to a ring - it's how I see it. It has to be forever, no fulling around.

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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 3:47:15 AM   
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If I felt the woman was worth putting a collar on I would offer her a diamond ring.

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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 4:10:06 AM   
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i would reject a collar if there's no commitment and love behind it between myself and the giver.

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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 4:14:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If I felt the woman was worth putting a collar on I would offer her a diamond ring.


i'm worthy Ray.....lemme see the ring.


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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 4:23:38 AM   
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Hands Holly the telescope. See. Cool is'nt it.

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RE: collars - 12/11/2008 4:25:20 AM   
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Hands Holly the telescope. See. Cool is'nt it.

Ray...ya putz...you said a DIAMOND ring. You are showing me Saturns ring??????????


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