YourhandMyAss
Posts: 5516
Joined: 6/25/2006 From: Sacramento Status: offline
|
Not every one is lying when they say their partners not into it, but is OK with outside activities as long as they don't see evidence waved in their face, IT also doesn't make him any less of a bf which is what you seem to be implying. That she's lying. Or he wasn't really a bf. I had an X bf who wasn't into bdsm either, and I was allowed to seek out bdsm and other kinky activities, with the rule that there was to be no sexual contact oral anal or vaginal. Open relationships are quite common. Some open relationships just have restrictions or guidelines on what they want to accept the relationship being open. Hers is no marks, mine was no sex. quote:
ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian quote:
ORIGINAL: spankme1985 I am into this lifestyle but my boyfriend is not. He said I can have a Dom on the side as long as he doesn't have to look at the marks afterwards. So I was curious what could you suggest I do that doesn't leave marks. I am open to anything! Even humiliation, public, pain. Any ideas? My, my. That's a pretty open-minded "boyfriend" you have there. I'll go along with the story and say it's the marks made on your mind he should be more concerned with. For what it's worth, plastic clothespins and 9-volt batteries work well if employed creatively.
|