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RE: LOVE ? - 12/13/2008 3:27:57 PM   
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This thread has me thinking of the various Greek words for love as we studied in class years ago.  The feelings I have a youngster or family member or friend or pet or lover are all a bit different.  What may start out as one form of love may over time change into another, such as going from philia to eros or vice versa. 
 
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Eros (ἔρως érōs) is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Modern Greek word "erotas" means "(romantic) love". However, eros does not have to be sexual in nature. Eros can be interpreted as a love for someone whom you love more than the philia love of friendship. It can also apply to dating relationships as well as marriage. Plato refined his own definition. Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself. It should be noted Plato does not talk of physical attraction as a necessary part of love, hence the use of the word platonic to mean, "without physical attraction". Plato also said eros helps the soul recall knowledge of beauty, and contributes to an understanding of spiritual truth.
 
 
Philia (φιλία philía), which means friendship in modern Greek, a dispassionate virtuous love, was a concept developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality and familiarity. In ancient texts, philia denoted a general type of love, used for love between family, between friends, a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well as between lovers.
 
Agapē (ἀγάπη agápē) means "love" in modern day Greek, such as in the term s'agapo (Σ'αγαπώ), which means"I love you". In Ancient Greek it often refers to a general affection rather than the attraction suggested by "eros"; agape is used in ancient texts to denote feelings for a good meal, one's children, and the feelings for a spouse. It can be described as the feeling of being content or holding one in high regard.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_words_for_love

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RE: LOVE ? - 12/13/2008 3:45:13 PM   
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Love is both wonderful and woeful, how many other human feelings can evoke such absolute opposites? Some people say there are different types of love just as they say they can love someone at first sight, I always thought that was lust though.

Easy to fall in love so hard to fall out of it.

If we were sure we could describe it we wouldn't need to use convoluted visual art, poetry or music comparing love to actual experiences. I guess no one is going to definitively describe it anytime soon  and when they do does the convoluted poetry stop? To understand what love is, is to not be affected by it anymore.

 

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RE: LOVE ? - 12/13/2008 4:25:14 PM   
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Love is as is clear here different to everyone. People put conditions on it people say you have to be a certain way to truely feel it but in reality only you yourself can ever know what it means because all that matters is what it means to you. There isnt a test to say its real, there isnt a measuring stick you just are, you know when you feel happy, you know when you feel angry and you know when you feel love, it really is that simple in my view.

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