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KyttynTheMynx -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:06:40 PM)

Lol just being honest.  Youre a cute woman!  That guy was a butt nugget.  And the guys that poof off on ya are butt nuggets too!  Better they leave now, then after you invest lots of time, money, and heart into something.



Lynnxz -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:10:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Hrm... you might want to put a flame suit on cupcake.

Online isn't my thing, but it seems to work well for many people.

Second, I doubt that many women are attracted to short, aging, socially inept men who's expertise happens to be in card and board games.

You sir, have an unwarranted sense of self importance.

Just sayin.

OP is hawt.



submissvelyhis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:14:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Lol just being honest.  Youre a cute woman!  That guy was a butt nugget.  And the guys that poof off on ya are butt nuggets too!  Better they leave now, then after you invest lots of time, money, and heart into something.


I agree, just kindof hurt lol but now I feel good after talking to you all.



submissvelyhis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:17:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Hrm... you might want to put a flame suit on cupcake.

Online isn't my thing, but it seems to work well for many people.

Second, I doubt that many women are attracted to short, aging, socially inept men who's expertise happens to be in card and board games.

You sir, have an unwarranted sense of self importance.

Just sayin.

OP is hawt.


Thank you !



Aszhrae -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:29:32 PM)

You already have my opinion on what to do with [FLMaster45] but unfortunately typing in the graphic content of my thoughts at the moment would not only be a blatant flame and a possibility of me becoming banned. But if you can imagine a goth in a cemetery with a wheelbarrow full of tools you can just imagine.
With that said, girl agrees, submissvelyhis, you are very cute and the next time someone like [FLMaster45] decides to be a total smeghead, just think how delightful it would be to just space them.

[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]



Aynne88 -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:32:48 PM)

Huh..well, sorry to say this FL, but you and I are the same height and you have me by ohh about 55 pounds.  How would you like it if I said that you are a bit of a chubster yourself? Oh wait, it's all muscle right? [8|] Either way, not  very impressive, that cruel streak you have. 

To the OP, you are lovely, don't let comments like this get you down sweetie.

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.



HalfShyHalfWild -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:41:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submissvelyhis

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Lol just being honest.  Youre a cute woman!  That guy was a butt nugget.  And the guys that poof off on ya are butt nuggets too!  Better they leave now, then after you invest lots of time, money, and heart into something.


I agree, just kindof hurt lol but now I feel good after talking to you all.


Well I wish it hadn't. You are beautiful! And I love the color of your hair. Very complimentary to your skin tone as well. Very beautiful and intelligent from what I have seen [:)]



elegantalexis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 7:55:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Boy, you are sure full of yourself!

I am a BBW, I have a sub who loves my 46DD breasts and a Master and Mistress who see past my flabbiness and see the gem within my soul.  Can anyone state the same about you?  I DON'T THINK SO!

Have fun dealing with the pettiness within your own soul. CIAO!

Shahar

P.S. OP, my sub loves ya!



submissvelyhis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 8:03:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HalfShyHalfWild

quote:

ORIGINAL: submissvelyhis

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Lol just being honest.  Youre a cute woman!  That guy was a butt nugget.  And the guys that poof off on ya are butt nuggets too!  Better they leave now, then after you invest lots of time, money, and heart into something.


I agree, just kindof hurt lol but now I feel good after talking to you all.


Well I wish it hadn't. You are beautiful! And I love the color of your hair. Very complimentary to your skin tone as well. Very beautiful and intelligent from what I have seen [:)]

\

Thank you.



submissvelyhis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 8:07:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: elegantalexis

quote:

ORIGINAL: FLMaster45

What are you looking for?

If you are looking for an "online Dom" - then I guess you got what you wanted.  Forgive me for not being warm and fuzzy, but "online BDSM" is like "Jumbo shrimp" or "Compassionate conservative" or "Military intelligence."  It's an oxymoron.

If you are looking for a real-life Dom, what the hell are you doing having cybersex?

And I'm sorry to say this, but most men aren't intersted in women who weigh 275 pounds.  I'm not saying you lose any worth or dignity as a person because of your appearance, nor that there aren't some men who prefer larger women.  But you cut your odds way down.  And whether it's your "fault" or not, it is what it is.


Boy, you are sure full of yourself!

I am a BBW, I have a sub who loves my 46DD breasts and a Master and Mistress who see past my flabbiness and see the gem within my soul.  Can anyone state the same about you?  I DON'T THINK SO!

Have fun dealing with the pettiness within your own soul. CIAO!

Shahar

P.S. OP, my sub loves ya!


awww tell ( him ? or her ? lol) I said thank you



elegantalexis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 8:33:51 PM)

Alexis is MtF.



parakeet89 -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 8:37:18 PM)

Everybody else has already said what I wanted to say, but who cares, I'll say it anyway! OP, you're gorgeous and seem like a total sweetie, so don't let people bring you down. You'll find the right person for you someday, you'll see. Just go on and live your life and it'll happen.



LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 10:28:15 PM)

I've read this whole thread & I love how everyone got behind this sweet young thang here.  I'm always amazed at the people who continue to say that "most men" don't want us fat girls.  Honey, if that were true, I guess I've met all the rest.  Not only are there tons of guys who want fluffy girls, but old ladies even.  How odd is that, huh?  I've been a big girl for the last 15 years & when I first gained the weight from taking a medication, I thought that nobody would ever want me again.  Oh, man was I ever wrong!!!  I've had more fun & better relationships in the last decade or so than ever before in my life.  So let's hear it from all the fat girls:

SAY IT LOUD!!  I'M FAT & I'M PROUD!!!

F**k the idjits who try to pull us down to their miserable level!



Aszhrae -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 10:37:37 PM)

Face it, guys just do not like gals that are bigger than they are. Be they fat or tall. Really have no idea why that is?
You are right though 'Linnaea', some guys and even gals can see beneath the skin at the value within. If they only want what they see in appearance. Then they should just keep their mouths shut before they start in on someone as pretty as the OP.
Wonder if  FL will even apologize, probably not.



elegantalexis -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 10:44:07 PM)

With all the Dommes and subs backing the OP up, he is probably back home with his tail between his legs.

BBW all the way!!!!

Shahar



susie -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 10:45:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aszhrae

Face it, guys just do not like gals that are bigger than they are. Be they fat or tall. Really have no idea why that is?



Sorry but I really can't agree with this. I am much heavier than Master following years of steroid treatment. I have always weighed more than him and last time I looked he still fancied me.

Think before you make sweeping statements. Everyone is different.



Aszhrae -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/12/2008 11:03:30 PM)

Girl did think and my reply was intended for you, only have to read my post to know who it was intended for :P

But if you feel so inclined to get your self in a bind over my comment, then girl apologize to you. Feel better now? :P
Really *shakes head walking away*

Say one thing offend another, say another thing and offend someone else. Bah!

Hope FL is hiding in his closet.



susie -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/13/2008 1:58:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aszhrae

Girl did think and my reply was intended for you, only have to read my post to know who it was intended for :P

But if you feel so inclined to get your self in a bind over my comment, then girl apologize to you. Feel better now? :P
Really *shakes head walking away*

Say one thing offend another, say another thing and offend someone else. Bah!

Hope FL is hiding in his closet.



I am not in a "bind" over your comment, I am just saying that you are wrong in your statement that "guys just do not like gals that are bigger than they are". Some do and some don't.

If you want to continue to make sweeping statements not based on fact be prepared to be called on them.



FLMaster45 -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/13/2008 4:52:08 AM)

I was taken to task by someone for my post.  I replied with the letter below, and that person suggested I post it as a reply to my own post.  I'm not sure that there aren't some elements of it that aren't just as unkind as the original, but it is what I wrote.  So here it is:

_____________________________

Oh that.  That is my first post ever on the forums here.

Obviously some would call me grumpy, some arrogant, some cynical, and I would of course call myself realistic.

I am not good at warm and fuzzy.  It's always been a failing of mine.  When the girl talks about "Getting off" I assume it was not in-person sex.  Now yes, it's sad.  I have a slight weight problem, unfortunately I have my father's body shape, and the only way I can lose weight is to get horribly depressed and stop eating.  Fortunately for me, women tend to be more attracted to education, class, power, and money.

But she weighs 275 pounds.  Clearly she is living in a fantasy world, and I think that deep inside she knows it.  I am not angry and cynical, I am not one of these right-wingers who believes that people who are miserable deserve it, because if they were morally worthy they wouldn't be miserable.  But she obviously knows that she's morbidly obese and cannot have a real-life relationship because of it.  So she hopes for an online relationship, and then is disappointed when that's what she finds.  What does she expect?  A LONG-TERM online relationship?  Or that some guy will fall so hopelessly in love with her from online contact that he'll overlook her appearance?

I'm sorry, I'm not a mean person.  I guess you're right, there was no need for what I wrote.  Is there a way to delete it?  As I said, I am not a regular on the forums at all.



agentlespirit -> RE: This is a vent, What do you think ? *UPDATED* (12/13/2008 4:57:41 AM)

i agree...there was no need for what you wrote....either time



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