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azropedntied -> RE: Handling Subdrop alone (12/13/2008 7:25:12 PM)
To the OP , what you have done here is just about what i was going to suggest you do .And no i am not talking about just the comfort food .Journal your thoughts and feelings for further communications with your Top later if not available for a time post exchange .This also can allow you to reflect and learn what and why you may have dropped .Personally i always follow up on either side , meaning if i Top i shall either call or email to check in or have them call or check in with me post exchange for this very reason .Same on the other side , i can not say it enough communication is huge .

slavejali -> RE: Handling Subdrop alone (12/13/2008 9:48:07 PM)
Ummmm, sometimes people ask questions here for input from AND engagement with "real people" as opposed to only reading articles. I'm like that, I hate reading articles, would much prefer interaction, it seems more "alive" to me and I will take in more, we are all different hey. On another angle to that, Master used to try to get me to write essays, I'd go blank most of the time, yet if we got on a chat and we conversed like that I could blabber on for ages. (Maser is deaf, chat is a better way for us to communicate than talking). Anyways the gist is the same, i work much better through interaction. To the op: I havent experienced sub-drop in a long time. I remember once though, Master had gone to work and I felt like I was going to be overwhelmed with all the feelings and thoughts that were rushing through me. I think I typed on the forums a lot to keep my mind focused on something, so I guess thats my solution for you, find something to focus on to distract yourself. and remember "this too shall pass.." [:D]

swan70 -> RE: Handling Subdrop alone (12/14/2008 2:28:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sklavinxandria Just an after thought. I am a masochist, so why is it that I can go, get my ass/back/ pick a part..beaten black blue purple yellow and have welts and blood drawn and walk away from it all normal and NO subdrop, hell I got a great beating 2 weeks ago and didn't even need aftercare..I was fine on my own. But the emotional erotic/sexual trip pushes it over the edge. Not that I don't respect like the Dom that gave me the beating, just don't have a connection to him. OH ME TOO!!!!!!! Except--i have my sessions with the same person.....if W/we have a physically hard session...Master is very, very good about aftercare. Makes sure that my physical body does not drop too hard. In the process of caring for my body--He cares for me emotionally! But--when it was an emotional visit for me....my sub drop is SOO HARD! Tends to last for days. In my case--i think it is because i don't connect emotionally very easily. i've discovered that it is a wonderful thing to be that open with someone. Makes the absence of it that much more profound.

MissEnchanted -> RE: Handling Subdrop alone (12/16/2008 10:32:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Roselaure You're halfway there I think in that you recognize what it is. Pamper yourself a bit, chocolate helps, do somethingyou like to do and talk it over with your Dom when you can. Perhaps next time you play so intensely, you can arrange to be with him, or for him to call and check in. Deep breath. You'll get through it! Aftercare is part of their job, but they cannot do anything unless they know. How about an email a text, an instant message, a phone message to let him now you are dropping pretty hard?

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