sexisubi -> RE: How to cope with being physically uncomfortable (12/16/2008 9:47:11 PM)
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hey i hear that i am a wuss!! i hate pain, oooh yes i try and tolerate it but when i am actually getting pain, cane spankings, crops, mega nipple clamps... OUCH!!! when i did it by myself its nost too bad the nipple clamps that is or when i have clit stimultation during it. anyway off topic back to you sorry!! =) there are other ways D/s can inflict pain without it being so rawr in your face, i personally love the whole care for thing and that is what my Dom loves, i cook, clean, do laundry, make the bed, sit in uncomfortable positions for long periods of time. you dont need to be a masocist you can try the pleasing thing see if that works, or start out slow and steady make sure you are nice and ready before you do anything tough and rough... ease the pain you do if it is something that you really want. i personally used to use hair clips on my nipples when i masterbated and i loved this... but everyone is different and you have to find what works for you... also know what what you do alone is not going to always feel the same when a partner or Dom/me is involved. good luck Lavinia =)
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