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snowslave -> Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 12:29:44 PM)
Hello A/all. I've been off this site for a few months. I just came back on and updated my profile. I wanted to get started posting again. On another site I read the phrase anal stretching as a BDSM activity. I asked about it there, but my original question did not get answered. What is anal stretching and how is it practiced? How does it differ from strap on?

utopicus -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 12:44:00 PM)
The process of anal stretching involves slow and increasingly larger play over an extended period of time. Like all good things, it takes time! Done carefully, anal stretching can safely (and without negative side effects) result in rectal circumferences of 15" and more. Done slowly, the process should be pleasurable (and may be a little painful as well). If there is bleeding or excessive pain, you're stretching too fast. Always be sure to use lots of lube. After stretching, it takes three to six hours for the anus to return to normal (it will have large swollen "lips" until then). Other than the ability to engage in heavier anal play, anal stretching will cause no functional change to digestion or defecation.(Source: http://wiki.bmezine.com/index.php/Anal_Stretching) Anal stretching can be practised with strap-ons, on condition they are large enough and grow larger as your sphincter dilates...

snowslave -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 1:11:38 PM)
Okay, how does anal stretching differ from strap on play, or are you saying anal stretching simply occurs as a result of strap on play? In other words, it is not a separate BDSM activity. That's what had me confused.

RichieB -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 2:03:19 PM)
Butt plugs , strapons and fisting are all a form of anal stretching. Diane

snowslave -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 2:12:45 PM)
Okay, now I see. Thank you.

malloves69 -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/13/2008 7:12:34 PM)
love strapon play [:)] geez how many times have i said that before ? [:)] whats even better is once you graduated to the larger strapons ...by larger i mean at least 8-10in range ...if you enjoy that ...like i do [:)] try having you lady fist you [:)] wont probable happen on the first time but by the 5th or 6th time she will have been able to open you up enough to have her fist slide in ...trust me that feeling is amazing once she is inside of you [:)] oh dont forget lots of lube and the enemas before hand ...love being clean inside as well as outside [:)] she has been fisting me now for over 3 years and that first time she enters me that feeling still takes my breath away [:)] and when she finds my prostate im totally at her mercy [:)] love the power exchange and how vulnerable i am to her ...the lady knows my ass and prostate well i must say ...must warn you though fisting can be addicting [:)] love that feeling ..gotta have it at least once a week [:)] she has trained me well [:)] have fun mal ...go slow ...lots of lube and communication ....any sign of pain or bleeding stop .....it can be very enjoyable [:)]

offeredup -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/14/2008 4:14:59 AM)
My owner likes to finger-fuck me with and without milking. She prefers using her fingers to strapon because, she says, she very much enjoys the sensations she gets that way, and especially the control when she tells me to tighten, then release, then repeat, over and over, training her slave-boys anus to respond to her commands and feeling the effects of its obedience. This, also, is the beginning of an anal stretching regimen that she says she will perform on me over a long period. i'm pretty tight back there for starters, so she only gets up to two fingers, but does so pumping me well for a long time -- 30 minutes or more the last time. Eventually, she's working towards fisting me on a regular basis, or getting as far as she can... using plenty of lube, safely the inescapably, relentlessly. That aspect subjugates me in a powerful way, because i must undergo the as a longterm ordeal that i can't ever control. It's wildly erotic, but pushes me through stages of discomfort-then-pleasure-then-discomfort (bordering on pain) over and over as she works me. It's also humiliating to be used and focused in this way while she lets me know that i'm an anal slut for liking it and makes me beg her for more, whether or not i want it... Then it's always ecstasy to submit to her in this way so profoundly. It doesn't matter how quickly and effectively i'm stretched. She says she has all the time in the world to train and open me up and that the process is somethng we enjoy as much at any given stage -- and as always, my owner is so right.

malloves69 -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/14/2008 6:13:33 AM)
hey offered ...good luck in your training ....that moment when she slides in for the first time is priceless indeed [:)] we both laughed about it because it does take a while and a decent amount of training for her to get your ass ready for when she finally cums inside of you [:)] but once she does that feeling is simply amazing [:)] strapon play is awesome indeed but being fisted by her is simply amazing [:)] once she is in then you can see how deep she can go ...our goal was for her elbow to disaapear because we both watched a video together on yuvutu .com where a german mistress does just that and she goes in farther halfway to her shoulder ......wow ...love watching that video ...have fun mal [:)]

thetammyjo -> RE: Anal Stretching (12/14/2008 9:14:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snowslave Okay, how does anal stretching differ from strap on play, or are you saying anal stretching simply occurs as a result of strap on play? In other words, it is not a separate BDSM activity. That's what had me confused. I think that anal stretching, as utopicus said, is a purposeful activity over time that would allow someone to be able to take large objects into the anus. So it's not just play but a program of training that will take time. You should be careful to to keep your muscles strong as well as get them used to large objects -- you strengthen them with exercises you can ask a doctor about in fact.

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