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mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 12:41:11 PM   
KnightofMists


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Sex is indeed an important aspect of intimate relationships, thou the degree of importance varies from person to person. For example... I have a very intense sex drive... and the sex is also very rough and um painful for those that wanna slip under the covers with me *G*.... alandra is not so driven... we have both found that she only needs this time of interaction with me about once every two weeks... while kyra has a very high drive like mine (which makes it extremely difficult considering how often we are able to be together... good think we are not rabbits, I don't think I could afford to feed the little ones as result)...... Anyways.... do how much is sex incorporated in your life and relationships... would you consider it a sensual sexual experience alot of times... or are you more like myself and it is a rough and tumble lets feel the pain kinda of thing. anyways... TEll us about your Sex Life lol?? sluts wanna know *G*

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 12:50:25 PM   
KatyLied


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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 12:50:51 PM   
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ok time for a fun post to beat around


Sex is indeed an important aspect of intimate relationships, thou the degree of importance varies from person to person. For example... I have a very intense sex drive... and the sex is also very rough and um painful for those that wanna slip under the covers with me *G*.... alandra is not so driven... we have both found that she only needs this time of interaction with me about once every two weeks... while kyra has a very high drive like mine (which makes it extremely difficult considering how often we are able to be together... good think we are not rabbits, I don't think I could afford to feed the little ones as result)...... Anyways.... do how much is sex incorporated in your life and relationships... would you consider it a sensual sexual experience alot of times... or are you more like myself and it is a rough and tumble lets feel the pain kinda of thing. anyways... TEll us about your Sex Life lol?? sluts wanna know *G*



I have an extremely high sex drive..I would screw 10 times a day or more. That is not my primary or secondary purpose here so he doesn't use me that much..it is ALWAYS rough and painful when he does):):):)Luckily he has no issues with me masterbating..which I do A LOT!

Great topic !

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 12:53:35 PM   
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do how much is sex incorporated in your life and relationships...

I have no idea how to answer this. Sex is a very integral and ingrained part of who I am. Sexual interaction is a key point of interaction in most of my intimate relationships.

But then so is laughter.

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would you consider it a sensual sexual experience alot of times... or are you more like myself and it is a rough and tumble lets feel the pain kinda of thing. anyways... TEll us about your Sex Life lol?? sluts wanna know *G*

Oh it really depends. If you can think about it, chances are I incorporate it into my sex life in some measure or another.

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 1:13:27 PM   
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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 1:20:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


ok time for a fun post to beat around


Sex is indeed an important aspect of intimate relationships, thou the degree of importance varies from person to person. For example... I have a very intense sex drive... and the sex is also very rough and um painful for those that wanna slip under the covers with me *G*.... alandra is not so driven... we have both found that she only needs this time of interaction with me about once every two weeks... while kyra has a very high drive like mine (which makes it extremely difficult considering how often we are able to be together... good think we are not rabbits, I don't think I could afford to feed the little ones as result)...... Anyways.... do how much is sex incorporated in your life and relationships... would you consider it a sensual sexual experience alot of times... or are you more like myself and it is a rough and tumble lets feel the pain kinda of thing. anyways... TEll us about your Sex Life lol?? sluts wanna know *G*


For us, sex (as well as particular sexual acts and intimacy) are earned privileges. I have a very high sex drive and these days (rough and kinky) sex is a fairly interwoven part of the relationship.

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 1:30:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me actual sex is far less important than many of the other sexual charged exploits per se. I'd say that quite often I get a far greater sense of satisfaction from a single look of a partner than I ever have from any sexual activity. Sex is fun and the foreplay so much more so, but I derive alot of my pleasure from other means than penetration and friction.

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 1:30:46 PM   
SelkiePet1


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Status: offline 		extremely important - to both of us (thank god!) - every day and sometimes more, sometimes life gets in the way and less than that - but what makes me happy everything from rough and hard to gentle and loving - and the whole gamut in between.

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 1:34:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like the rough, tumble, let's feel the pain kind of thing <g> LOL, the rougher the better is my thinking. And the more often it happens, the happier everyone is

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:14:19 PM   
denika


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Status: offline 		well this slut *s* used to have a fairly low sex drive until we discovered that vanilla just doesn't do it for me *G* I like rough, bruiseing, grabbing, panting, sweating, dear god the neighbors have called the police-again- sex. I know some have lifestyle relationships with no sexual contact involved but for me I don't think that would work very well. One of my favorite quotes is from Justine written by the Marque De Sade "Sex without fear and pain would be like food without taste" mmmm I like how he thinks , reminds me of someone I know *w*


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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:20:52 PM   
IrishMist


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SEX ???!!!!

Mmmmmmmm lets see......tie me up, use me, abuse me, make me beg, cry and plead for more....pain, more pain, and more pain....it all becomes one after a while

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:36:33 PM   
physcsdrk


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Status: offline 		I don't function well if I don't get laid at least once a week. But I like to have sex about twice a day. I think rough and kinky is great but not every time. I like variety most of all.

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:40:16 PM   
KnightofMists


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someone sounds very horny!



Always *G* mmmmmmmmmm well maybe not when I am sleeping mmmmmmmmmmmm well yeah maybe then too..... but definitely not when I am on the throne *EG*

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:41:37 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		I have an extremely high sex drive, but I am only able to share that with someone that I care about. I have never been one to enjoy casual sex. There have been times that I wished I could enjoy it, but it is just not the way I am wired.

I enjoy sex in all its varieties, from soft and sensual to so rough and hard that it leaves you bloody and bruised. I will never forget after that first night with my Lord, getting out of bed the next morning and the first words out of his mouth, “Holy shit you should see your back!” and then looking down at the sheets at the blood stains. That was a very nice stingy shower that morning and I still carry some of those marks all these months later. It was comforting to know that I had finally found someone who matched me in this area since all my previous partners were decidedly uncomfortable with the amount of pain I like with my sex.

My preference is definitely the rough and tumble sex and the kind that sparks a little fear. However, when you can contrast the two... a little soft and sensual and then a lot of pain, that really gets me off. The more the better as far as I am concerned… *checks calendar to see how long I have to wait


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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:46:45 PM   
KatyLied


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well maybe not when I am sleeping mmmmmmmmmmmm well yeah maybe then too.....


I will ask your girls about that!



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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:50:57 PM   
kyraofMists


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well maybe not when I am sleeping mmmmmmmmmmmm well yeah maybe then too.....


I will ask your girls about that!





Most definitely when he is sleeping... it is not uncommon to be awoken in the middle of the night to please him *ss*

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:52:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't have sex with submissives. The more submissive the person is, the less useful they are to me sexually.

Actually, I have been celibate for years, through my own choice. I had a strong sex drive at one time, and I love rough sex, but it's amazingly easy to do without it. Now if I had to give up coffee, or red meat, we would have a *problem*!

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 3:54:41 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		ohhhhhh giving up chocolate would kill me.... mmmmmmmm but gosh if I had to choose between that and sex... well.... I think I would be in an endless decision loop with not decision... god - I shake just thinking about that choice..

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 4:12:53 PM   
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Anyways.... do how much is sex incorporated in your life and relationships... would you consider it a sensual sexual experience alot of times... or are you more like myself and it is a rough and tumble lets feel the pain kinda of thing. anyways... TEll us about your Sex Life lol?? sluts wanna know *G*



Sex in all it's varieties-- from slow and sensual, to grunting biting clawing animalism-- are the spice of life IMO. I find that no matter how slowly it starts, it usually escalates into a more aggresive finish. The most enjoyable experiences for me are more a 'roller coaster' encounter---slow and sensual building in intensity to rough and dominant, then sliding back to slow and sensual again, then escalating again--varying the duration of each cycle until the final explosive release. Now that's a ride!

My two centavos,

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RE: mmmmmmmm SEX anyone?? *G* - 12/29/2005 4:16:43 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Knight of Mists, have you tried the fancy hot chocolate at Starbuck's? It really gives sex a run for its money!

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