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Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 1:21:39 PM

ghostrider68

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So my girlfriend has me in orgasm denial right now, and I'm approaching one week right now. So far, we've only been doing the normal sex with no cumming and playing with no cumming and such. So I have a question for you all. Since I know orgasm denial is probably a big part of lots of peoples life in this lifestyle, I am looking for advice. Do any of you have anything that you like to do when in orgasm denial? You have suggestions for my girlfriend to use to tease and torture me while in this? All suggestions are welcome, and thank you in advance.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 3:58:55 PM

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Actually orgasm denial is much more a male sub activity than anywhere else. You won't really find it much in the gay community, and fem hetero subs tend to do more on orgasm control and increasing the intensity/frequency of orgasms. Most doms would find themselves subless if they didn't encourage and reinforce orgasming regularly.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 4:06:16 PM

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There was a time orgasm denial appealed to...me...

Long periods of time...well...I became very aggressive...

Have...fun

Oh...and keep your hands in your pockets...

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 4:49:28 PM

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I think I would enjoy thinking up ways of doing grave bodily harm without getting caught, if I were denied orgasms. Everything would go to hell, right down to the morning coffee.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 6:53:12 PM

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Master has me on orgasm denial until my birthday at the end of January.

It's been about 3 weeks so far and at times it's total hell!

He has me masturbate for ten minutes every night without orgasm. Those times it is frustrating and downright aggravating.

I admit though that sometimes it's not that difficult since some days I'm just too tired to even want to anyway.

The times when I do want to orgasm I talk to Master who just makes it worse...apparently I'm a masochist..or I just try to find something to take my mind off of it.

Master gets immense pleasure from this torment and sees it as a form of self discipline.

My only advice I can give you is to be obedient and listen to your girlfriend and don't cum or I'm sure you'll wish you hadn't.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/17/2008 7:37:28 PM

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There is no way I could do that. lol Sweets and I are both cronic masterbaters. If we aren't together, we are thinking about each other. And that whole masterbating for ten minutes without cumming thing.... Yeah..... wouldn't work for me. It takes me usually about 5. lol So yeah. I can have an orgasm with just ten minutes of bewbie playing. lol I wish I COULD do the whole orgasm denial thing. My ex and I kind of tried it once. He would play with me til I was right THERE and then stop. After about 3 times, even if he stopped, I kept going. With no stimulation whatso ever. So it didn't work for me. I ended up having a GREAT orgasm with like no help. And I was out of breath, and was just ready to call it a night. It was weird. lol But good luck with that! HEHEHE!

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/18/2008 12:53:02 PM

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Thanks everyone for the help. I was hoping this would have been a more productive thread but you can't win them all I guess haha. I was just wondering if there were any ways to cope with the denial. Thanks again for the advice and suggestions everyone.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/18/2008 1:39:27 PM

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Orgasm Denial,
is Great I use it on My subs male and female and I let them edge, it depends on My mood on how many times I let them edge a day, to feel what a slut they are for Me My male sub was in denial for 6 months,and ongoing now. he edges every day for Me 4 times a day. My girl is on denial and it depends on when I want to let her cum, but yes girls can do without cum too,its a matter of devotion, and know who you serve, and about learning and growing to go so far, so I hope you'll enjoy this suggestion, and you know what edging means? If not just email Me alright?
I do hope it gave you a bit of insight.

Warm Greetings, and stay safe.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/26/2008 4:42:53 PM

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When i was a 24/7 slave, i had been without an orgasm for a very long time. (i mean years...)
my Owner was milking my prostate from time to time but not so often.
The feeling, the mentan punishment and pain, the corporal discomfort too, were unbelievable at times. It hurts, no doubts.
i could not do anything to get some release so i just did what i was allowed to do: patience...

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/26/2008 5:36:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Actually orgasm denial is much more a male sub activity than anywhere else. You won't really find it much in the gay community, and fem hetero subs tend to do more on orgasm control and increasing the intensity/frequency of orgasms. Most doms would find themselves subless if they didn't encourage and reinforce orgasming regularly.

I completely agree

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/26/2008 5:41:06 PM

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I guess you could try running/exercise but maybe going to a gym where there's women exercising isn't the best idea.

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/27/2008 10:05:41 PM

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Join a full contact Martial Arts gym. it will help you with your aggression. and sometimes any physical contact helps, even if its getting punched in the face : ) plus then you will be so sore and tired you won't have much energy to want to cum

trust me, ive been through it before. . . it saved me!

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RE: Orgasm Denial - 12/28/2008 1:39:32 AM

BondageBarbieX

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I have never been denied orgasm for long periods,just during sex he won't let me cum with out permission.

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