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Phoenixpower -> Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 3:56:20 PM)
After seven months intensive involvement with Tpower38 we finally dare the step to move on and continue our journey in real life. We have many future plans lieing ahead as we get on incredible well so far and to start off we will be spending 4 lovely weeks together from 19th December onwards[:)] Lovely...but surely tough as well [8\|]...as piercings are going to happen Monday afternoon bibber/sob [&o] and tattooing is also on the agenday during this year scream...[:o] I would be greatful about any advice, tips, ideas, suggestions you would like to share for my upcoming journey as a prospective slave... As I am still fairly new in this life style, particular on the intensive level which seems to be expecting me with his TPE level, I am happy for every advice others would consider as being "important" or "good to know"... ...time for me now...to get my bags ready...[&:]

GreedyTop -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 3:58:18 PM)
hugs ya only advice I have is have fun :)

scifi1133 -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 4:02:46 PM)
I agree with the above statement.

thornhappy -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 4:04:17 PM)
One bit of advice I have (just a bit) is to go really slow on the piercing and especially tattoing. Another tiny bit (I lied the first time) is to go slow on the TPE. You're just starting the "meat life" with this Master. It'll probably take some time to know someone well enough to enter a TPE relationship. You may find that TPE isn't for you. thornhappy

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 4:04:25 PM)
Thanks...am sure we won't be short of that one [:D] (will let you know anyway GT [;)]) but am bloody nervous about the piercings [&:]

thornhappy -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 4:47:06 PM)
I hear deep breathing helps, and squeezing the snot out of your Master's hand!

beargonewild -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 5:10:46 PM)
Wishing you all the best on your next step on this journey! Having experienced a 24/7 TPE, I can say that is is quite intense and very exciting. Just take one step at a time and trust in yourself and trust HIM! The main thing is not to worry so much, enjoy the time you spend together and enjoy the fact that he wants you and you want him! If all else fails, bring him a package of jamjams! eta: I hope you have a great time here in Canada and hope the weather isn't too bad and you get to see some of the beautiful sights on the East Coast! The food is great and the people are very friendly and warm hearted!

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 5:11:03 PM)
quote: I hear deep breathing helps, and squeezing the snot out of your Master's hand! thanks...wil try that one...though not sure how his response will be when we are back home when I queeze his hand like that [8\|] Forgot to mention that the piercings are done through my nipples...which are bloody sensitive already...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 6:40:35 PM)
Have FUN!! And, I would reeeeeely take a step back on the tats, if not the piercings. If you hate a piercing, you can take it out, but ink is forever!! (you are going to HEAL a piercing starting at the beginning of the trip? So there will be NO NIPPLE CONTACT the whole time?? hmmm.....)

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:13:26 PM)
quote: (you are going to HEAL a piercing starting at the beginning of the trip? So there will be NO NIPPLE CONTACT the whole time?? hmmm.....) lol we had quite a lot discussions about that issue, but he knows that I won't wear nipple piercings when i fly back (and I don't care how many might tell me on here that they won't beep at security checks...I am talented to get embarrassed at the airport all the time for new reasons...so I just take precaution) and so to be able to take them out on my trip back i should have them since quite a while to be able to take them out for my few hours trip back and thats why we decided binnen the first two weeks, and he then decided right at the start...despite that if we get on as well in person as we do online an on the phone now since such a long time, then he will come over to here in march for two weeks, to have maybe some more "nipple contact"...[;)]) regarding tattoo I understand your concern, but we managed to find a compromise, that I will accept one part of the tattoo, and the other one we will do at a later stage. I tried to get him of the 2nd part of the tattoo, but failed to achieve that. Nevertheless he accepted then to leave that for until I would be permanent with him, if we get that far... And the one I agreed to wouldn't be something I would be annoyed about..."only" [&:] nervous to get it done [8\|]

DesFIP -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:16:08 PM)
You've never met him before? So what happens if you get there and discover you have zero chemistry? Still going to commit to a TPE for a month? Still going to get pierced and his name on a tat if you're planning to break it off once you get home?

KatyLied -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:17:15 PM)
Wow. Tat and pierce for some guy you've not yet met in real time?

DarkSteven -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:21:36 PM)
May I assume that it is not my name that will be getting tattooed on you?[:D]

kristileigh -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:26:09 PM)
Have fun and don't do anything that you are uncomfortable doing. Don't let your craving for a TPE relationship push into anything you are not comfortable with. Enjoy a Safe, Sane, and Consenual relationship.

trappedinamuseum -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:29:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Wow. Tat and pierce for some guy you've not yet met in real time? Exactly. How long have you been speaking with this guy? Are you planning on meeting in a vanilla setting at least at first? Do you have an "out" or a back-up plan? I'm all for trying new things and experimenting, but I wonder if you have let your excitement get the better of you here.

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:36:07 PM)
quote: So what happens if you get there and discover you have zero chemistry? pretty confident that this is not going to happen as it is a very long time ago indeed, that there was as much chemistry with someone as it is with him. But in general I do know what you mean...and I don't know what the concern is about the name, as I didn't say his name would be tattooed on me [:D] quote: Still going to commit to a TPE for a month? It was my choice to come for a month as thankfully my Uni-placement agreed to rearrange my placement days that I am able to stay longer. We are in intensive contact since May now, which is also possible without meeting in person, and I mean intensive (with good days and not so good days lol). And yes DarkSteven, it won't be your name to end up on my body [;)] ...what a shame...

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:44:41 PM)
quote: Exactly. How long have you been speaking with this guy? Are you planning on meeting in a vanilla setting at least at first? Do you have an "out" or a back-up plan? I'm all for trying new things and experimenting, but I wonder if you have let your excitement get the better of you here. As stated above we are in good contact since May. We planned originally to meet in September for a week, but then I wasn't able to make it. And regarding "out" plan, i would rearrange my flight back and return to UK, that's not an issue. Regarding excitement letting get the better of me, nope, for that one we are pretty straight forward with each other with our expectations and after waiting now since 7 months it is not "that exciting" anymore and more tiring instead. I am glad to meet finally as in my opinion he is a great guy, and if not, then I know where I stand, travel back home and move on.

trappedinamuseum -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:46:04 PM)
Cool. If you've thought this through all the way, then I hope the very best for you!

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 7:57:26 PM)
quote: Cool. If you've thought this through all the way, then I hope the very best for you! Thank you [:)] So far he has proven consistency with his approach, was always upfront about what he wants and what I can expect and also helped me a lot when he could help. He doesn't have mood swings and manage my moods instead well lol From the guys I was in touch with so far on here (I mean the ones which were a prospective meeting) he was the best for me. Regarding quote: Don't let your craving for a TPE relationship push into anything you are not comfortable with. I don't have craving for TPE. TPE is a level I am not too familiar with in real life...I am fairly sure to become fine with it (at least I think so) and have enough reasons to think WHY I will manage to adapt to it, but that is a challenge which will get tested in practice...but I am confident that he would be one where I could learn well to walk on that path...

Phoenixpower -> RE: Journey to prospective Master (12/17/2008 8:00:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild Wishing you all the best on your next step on this journey! Having experienced a 24/7 TPE, I can say that is is quite intense and very exciting. Just take one step at a time and trust in yourself and trust HIM! The main thing is not to worry so much, enjoy the time you spend together and enjoy the fact that he wants you and you want him! thanks bear [:)] and yes...I got the point that TPE is quite intense...but I think it would suit me well...hope....

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