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Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:16:07 PM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Sometimes, I am uncertain about how we can do what we need to do to protect ourselves or those we love... not just in terms of 'lifestyle' or 'fetish', but every single day. This was brought home to me at the start of the week in a manner that was both brutal and irrefutable.

On Monday morning, mere minutes after the rest of the household left for work and school, our home was invaded. My daughter was at home, since she works on a different schedule than the rest of the house, and woke to a strange man throwing her onto her stomach and taping her hands behind her back. She was then stabbed, assaulted, and strangled, and left for dead. She is in serious but stable condition, and we're hopeful that she'll be able to move to a regular room before the end of the week. The assailant stabbed her in chest and abdomen, and punctured her lung. We believe that he did not mean for her to live (especially because he did not prevent her from seeing his face), and it is only a twist of fate that allowed her to be found before she bled to death or suffocated from the collapsed lung.

I would ask for all of you to be careful and aware of your surroundings. This man came to our back door, asking for directions. He did the same to several other houses in our neighborhood with young women in the household. We know he was watching us for a period of time to ascertain our family's patterns, because of some of the particulars about timing, etc.. PLEASE be careful, and make sure that your homes are secured and that you are aware of and protect yourself around strangers. This man wasn't "creepy", per se, and didn't look like someone one would be scared of, to see him on the streets. He also wasn't deterred by us being in a locked property, or by us being in an upstairs unit, and he wasn't deterred by an active, aware, busy middle-class neighborhood. ..so vigilance, etc., is important.

Please take care of yourselves!

Dame Calla


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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:24:40 PM   
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OMG.  I know we've never corresponded directly, but I'm so sorry and my thoughts are with you, your family and especially your daughter. 

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:26:23 PM   
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oh gawd, Calla.. prayers and well wishes for you all... *hug*

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:29:39 PM   
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Calla

That is horrific....i am so sorry that this happened. my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours toward a speedy recovery and some peace of mind.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:36:25 PM   
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I am so so very sorry that this has happened and so very glad to hear that she survived this horrific crime. Please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:37:17 PM   
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i am so sorry for the trauma to your family, both emotionally and physcially.  Hope she heals quickly and is home again soon.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 8:58:05 PM   
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and  your family Calla.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 9:23:11 PM   
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Girl offers my prayers to your daughter, your self and the rest of your household for such to befall you especially this time of year. Girl prays that all are together in good health, come the solstice.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 9:26:04 PM   
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It really sucks that at this time of year, something so horrible has had to happen to your family.  I really hope that in due time your daughter heals very well, and you guys are able to regain a sense of comfort in your own home.  I hope they catch the son of a bitch...

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RE: Being aware. - 12/17/2008 11:14:38 PM   
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 12:22:18 AM   
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I am so sorry to hear about this and send prayers for your daughter.  Thank you for the timely reminder.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 5:08:46 AM   
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Oh Calla. Thats horrific and I'm so sorry.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:03:23 PM   
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OMG... Calla... I am so glad that the outcome wasn't what he intended and I hope that your daughter and household will find your way through this.  It's hard to find words here.  But thank you for sharing this with us and giving us a reminder... but also letting us know what has happened.  If you can, please let us know how your daughter is doing... how you all are doing.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:07:59 PM   
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It sad to see such evilness still exists in the world. Prayers for your daughter and I hope the criminal is caught.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:34:29 PM   
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Calla

Please let me express my shock and horror at what has happened. I wish your daughter a speedy recovery and both peace and comfort for you and your family.

In my thoughts and prayers.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:38:16 PM   
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Calla, I'm so very very sorry to hear about this!  I don't even know what to say, except that your family will be in my thoughts, and that I hope for her to be alright, and to have a speedy recovery.  *HUG*  

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:38:59 PM   
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blessings to you and yours. I am truly sorry about this tragic event in your household.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 2:50:37 PM   
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many hopes and prayers to you... if you donot mind email me your daughters first name and ill put her on a prayer and happy thoughts list at my temple< i am buddhist> i completely believe in the power of thought and it has helped me! hopefully they will catch the person responsible!

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 3:40:53 PM   
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Calla,

Thank you for sharing and providing a great awareness to us all.
I am deeply sorry that it comes from this heinous act done to your daughter and your family.

You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers for a successful healing of body and hearts.

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RE: Being aware. - 12/18/2008 3:53:18 PM   
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Alexis's and mine thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of recovery and healing.

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