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LadyPact -> A month of kink (12/18/2008 8:00:51 AM)
Well, folks....... For those of you who have been following the story....... Hubby is officially back in the States!!!! In about an hour, I'll be picking him up at the airport to have him home for just about a month. After which, he will return to Korea to finish his deployment. No wife, no lifestyle friends, no kink. In other words, he gets to play one month out of his entire year. (I'm sure there are kinky folks in Korea, but they are hard to find when you don't speak the language. So, I thought this might be a fun little question. If you could only participate in wiitwd for one month out of your entire year, what would you want to do? Would it be bondage, pain, service, lifeftyle gatherings? What would you want if you only had one month. There are some rules for this little game. 1. Everybody keep in mind that I'm not a sub. Thanks. 2. It has to be something reasonable. No renting an island in the Pacific filled with beautiful slaves. 3. No impossible fantasies. I have a lot of pull in certain circles, but not the type to make Angelina Jolie to submit to him for a month. The only month you get of kink during a year. What would your poison be?

agirl -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 9:48:02 AM)
Hard to say as I'm not really as into kink as I am into the 'man'......lol If I had a month and had to pick........I'd like to be flogged, while listening to Thomas Tallis until I'm 'outta-here' as that's my new thing.......I'd like to kiss, lick, suck and fuck for as long as the days lasted and see what pervery arose during..lol agirl

persephonee -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 9:55:05 AM)
At the risk of going all vanilla and shit....i simply cant imagine doing anything but holding him right to your body for the entire time....like, rent some sort of gurney or something and have some subbie boys push the two of you all over the place.... im so happy youre having your time with him.... Thankyou both for the sacrifices that you make every day.

utopicus -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 9:56:35 AM)
Hello Firstly, much more importantly than anything else, you haven't seen your husband for such a long time - surely there are things to catch up with. What about a candle-lit dinner, champagne - to start with? It's important to reconnect intimately first. Thereafter, would you be able to let your hunger guide you? There's nothing more fascinating than "improvisation": no plans, no schedules, nothing pre-established... Just go with the flow - surely you know better what you could both indulge in - but, however try to reconnect before anything else. Regards,

mc1234 -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 10:00:37 AM)
Yeah, I'm with perse ... how about turning off every phone, tv, radio, etc. for at least a few days and just breathing one another in? I can't imagine having just one month together ... I'm so glad he's back and you will both have this time together. No clothes; no chores; order some good food in; get some great massage oils and other pampering-type things you might both enjoy and have fun!!! Turn the world off for a while and let it just be you two. :)

oceanwynds -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 10:24:57 AM)
I am so happy for you and your hubby to get to spend time together. Since you both been physically apart, from my own experience, I know how ackward it is when first together. Sir usually has a reacquainted time, in the beginning. This might be something to consider for you two. oceanwynds

SteelofUtah -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 12:39:42 PM)
Wouldn't Matter to me. It would be more about who I was doing it with that what I was doing would not matter. If Hubby is subby then I am sure no matter what you do all will be wonderful. If Hubby is NOT subby then I would suggest that even if you aren't submissive you can make the month be more about him than you may be used to. DO the things you know he likes. If I was away from the ones I loved for 11 months out of the year BDSM would be the furthest thing from my mind. However Tying my wife up and giving her a pounding like never before would be on the very top of my TO DO list. Enjoy your Month. Good on ya Steel

ResidentSadist -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 12:59:05 PM)
720 hours in a month 240 hours for sleep 480 hours left to play There are 106 paraphillas, that is 4.5 hours per paraphilla…. I think I would do them all!!! Have fun!!!

bratnwranglers -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 1:04:05 PM)
Thank both of You guys so much for Your service and sacrifice!! It's more appreciated then You could ever imagine, and i agree with the turn off the phones, tv, computer idea, no interruptions...just the two of You :) have fun

Gleegal67 -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 2:07:19 PM)
I'm with many who have stated previous...just disappear from the world and just be together...lots of touching and massaging for each of you...amazing how healing and renewing the human touch can be...then let passion rule you both...just let it all flow... If you start to run out of ideas....fill up a jar with lots of 'actions' and he can dip into it at anytime...since you're filling out the 'actions' you know what you're willing to do for him! ;) For instant...'Must kiss every inch of his body...followed by 'insert action here' [sm=hearts.gif]

persephonee -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 2:14:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist 720 hours in a month 240 hours for sleep 480 hours left to play There are 106 paraphillas, that is 4.5 hours per paraphilla…. I think I would do them all!!! Have fun!!! [sm=writing.gif]Okay....RS is ....poly, majorly phukkn sadistic, mathematician, owns a cage, everhope seemed to live thru it.... Dear Santa perse has been such a good girl this year....

beargonewild -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 3:09:41 PM)
I'm thinking just mix it up as much as possible Lady Pact. A night here and there which is solely geared to romance (candlelight dinners, walks at the park, etc) Some days/nights geared towards indulging in kinky fantasies you both haven't fulfilled yet or even revisit a few that were forgotten. Explore any BDSM play which he wants to explore and the ones which you want to explore. guess now I can breath a bit easier! hehehehe

Lynnxz -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 3:38:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee At the risk of going all vanilla and shit....i simply cant imagine doing anything but holding him right to your body for the entire time....like, rent some sort of gurney or something and have some subbie boys push the two of you all over the place.... Ooh! I've got the gurney! [:D] I'd think lots of sleep and cuddlefucks would be in my agenda if it were me. I'd set up a room in my house to be just a playroom for that month, I'd throw play parties, and generally just be a perv.... Have fun!

LadyPact -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 5:52:15 PM)
All good ideas folks. Keep 'em coming! Oh. If you're wondering what I'm doing here, he slept on the plane and I'm supposed to be taking a nap. For those of you who were going to vote 1) Take wrong turn going to the airport and 2) Have airline lose the luggage, well you'd have been right on target. Seriously though, since I was up for about 26 hours, he wanted Me to get some sleep so he could go out and get My Christmas present. I keep telling him that they don't sell a perfectly matched set of dragon ears at the mall, but I think he went after something with just a hint of sparkle. One kink related thing that I think we are putting on the agenda is hitting our favorite BDSM club in Atlanta for New Year's Eve. SteelofUtah, Hubby is not subby (though he did promise to bottom once during his trip home) and neither am I. He has mentioned that he has missed Topping while being gone, so getting him the chance to do that is on the list. Also, we have a lot of friends here and in the surrounding areas that are kink minded folks, so he'd like to see some of them. I love the ideas and opinions, so feel free to add more input.

elegantalexis -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 9:00:38 PM)
Disconnect the phone and keep the tv and computer off for at least 3 days. Invest in rubber sheets due to the amount of massaging oils that will be used. Do at least 2 play parties. While being locked up in your home, order Chinese delivery, preferably shrimp with lobster sauce (my fave). Shower together between sessions... Have fun topping him! Korea is a cold bitch this time of year (personal experience) Shahar

MisterP61 -> RE: A month of kink (12/18/2008 10:25:59 PM)
elagantalexis..... why are you being so nice to that bitch (Korea)??????? [sm=axe.gif]

persephonee -> RE: A month of kink (12/19/2008 2:49:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee At the risk of going all vanilla and shit....i simply cant imagine doing anything but holding him right to your body for the entire time....like, rent some sort of gurney or something and have some subbie boys push the two of you all over the place.... Ooh! I've got the gurney! [:D] I'd think lots of sleep and cuddlefucks would be in my agenda if it were me. I'd set up a room in my house to be just a playroom for that month, I'd throw play parties, and generally just be a perv.... Have fun! i knew i had a crush on you for a reason....wheel that bitch over here wouldja??

ResidentSadist -> RE: A month of kink (12/19/2008 6:49:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist 720 hours in a month 240 hours for sleep 480 hours left to play There are 106 paraphillas, that is 4.5 hours per paraphilla…. I think I would do them all!!! Have fun!!! [sm=writing.gif]Okay....RS is ....poly, majorly phukkn sadistic, mathematician, owns a cage, everhope seemed to live thru it.... Dear Santa perse has been such a good girl this year.... (For give the hijack, it will be brief.) Actually, everhope never made her plane, she is still here caged against her will. I took her account info to post on collarme in her name so everyone would think all was well so I could lure more unsuspecting victims into my dungeon. ….careful what you wish for.

LadyPact -> RE: A month of kink (12/19/2008 6:59:47 PM)
No need to apologize for the hijack. We have got to visit Florida. Edited because I missed an "o". (I'm waiting for the first one of you to say that I should be catching more "o's" now that hubby's home.)

mc1234 -> RE: A month of kink (12/19/2008 8:29:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact (I'm waiting for the first one of you to say that I should be catching more "o's" now that hubby's home.) LOL! I thought that would be a given. [;)]

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