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Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:17:43 AM   
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Ok..we have the thread on silly ones, but ALL of us Tops and Bottoms, Masters and Slaves I am sure have some Scary ones as well. Scenes that went horribly awry, missed communications, accidents, you name it, meetings that had you reeling and running. Without naming names ( or change them to protect the guilty) care to share a few of them. We all learn by our mistakes and so do others.

Two from me to get things started.
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Wonderful night at a club in the West Village in NY. I was playing with a Sadist I had played with previously and everything was wonderful. Strapped to a St. Andrews wearing a Vampire Corslet and happy as a clam at High Tide I was waiting for the next torment. I was NOT expecting the next torment to be everyone scattering from in front of me as two patrons of the club got into a fight and started showing knives. (Sharps play was allowed at the club, but not this type) When one blade came to close to my tenderized anatomy I discovered just what adrenaline can do for you in such circumstances as I broke free of the cross and (seemingly) teleported out of range while the bouncers were trying to break things up.

Lesson Learned...Insist on Quick release links I can reach when in a club.

2.
I was visiting a couple in California with  an eye towards them owning me. We were in the living room, playing and they had a clover clamp on my clit and one end of the paired clamps dangling so they could tug on it. They decided they wanted another toy from the other room and I rose from the low stool I was sitting on to go get it. Of course I stepped on the dangling end. Now clover clamps as many already know are designed to tighten when pulled on. The clamp on my clit did what it was supposed to do but was yanked off  (I was soaked) with an audible snap. Sometime about the period I got my head back from orbit of Pluto  I was able to check and see if that precious piece of flesh was still attached. It was..but it is also the only time I have ever seen that area actually BRUISE..It was Black and Blue for a week. I didn't know that it could bruise.

Lesson Learned..if the clamps dangling, hold it when you get up.

So what horrors do you have to share...

Poenkitten....


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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:33:00 AM   
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*slaps a quick hand over her clit*

oh gawd,....lets see....jeezlouise, i cant think of anything worse than the clit story....shiver

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:42:11 AM   
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I was thinking the same thing!!  OUCH!!  I know that I tried waxing myself "down there" once and I pulled too slowly or too fast or something, and ended up with a bruise that looked like someone used my crotch as a target for softball pitching practice.  That was bad enough. I couldn't walk right for 3 days, and it was black of a good 2 weeks... I can't even IMAGINE what that felt like! 

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:44:11 AM   
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See...i need to call someone, because despite my hiding behind the couch....now im just a touch curious.....*slaps herself in the face*..."snap out of it perse, you dont wanna knowwww"

going to lay down now...shivers again.

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:47:23 AM   
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Oh Com'on Ladies...pain is always relative..one girls meat is another girls poison...I actually did get an orgasm out of it..my brain just took flight right afterwards as the pain registered..female equivilent of getting kicked in the nads for a man.

SHARE!!!

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/18/2008 8:51:59 AM   
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ooooh....i have a cloverclamp story...but i cant remember the deets as i about died....wasnt the clit tho, twas the labia...and the clamps were too wet....hey...damn...same story...same outcome...no wonder i find you so familiar.

*needs to make a quick call and double check the participants of that particular nite*

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 1:55:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

*slaps a quick hand over her clit*

oh gawd,....lets see....jeezlouise, i cant think of anything worse than the clit story....shiver


Damn and my girl thinks I am rough on hers... LOL

It takes a hell of a lot to bruise that bit...

Yikes!

Gwyn

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 2:01:09 PM   
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We had one recently.. I love to use clamps and things on my girl.. and she was all glowly and had the wee hurt like a mofo clothes pins on her bits, and nipples.

Well I usually use a riding crop or hands, or what ever to tap ( ok more then a tap) the area that is clamped. Well one of the wee clothespins had bungled on the spring. The wood bit came off, and the spring sides were what was clamping her nipple. I was surprised it didnt pierce her nipple to be honest. It was a nightmare trying to get it off of her without doing more damage.

There is one clip that got tossed let me tell ya.

Damn I need to find more of those... I keep on magically lose more and more of them each time we play.. Hmm...


Gwyn 

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 4:13:42 PM   
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Ask Cleo where they went dear..She LIKES Jean...

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 4:16:49 PM   
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Shit I didnt think about that!

Oh Cleo..... *Grins*

Gwyn

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 4:22:31 PM   
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i was hoping for a chainsaw story....a lil bird told me not to bring that up so close to my impending visit....(still hoping to hit the lottery or something by Jan6)

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 4:30:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

i was hoping for a chainsaw story....a lil bird told me not to bring that up so close to my impending visit....(still hoping to hit the lottery or something by Jan6)


*chuckles* I posted that on the other thread dear...

and besides there was no mishap there.. I did everything very deliberately.. Him being unable to talk for so long afterwards was an unfortunate side effect.

Hehehe I think she is some times happy that I have other people to take my sadism out on. *Chuckles*

Gwyn

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 4:38:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

*slaps a quick hand over her clit*

oh gawd,....lets see....jeezlouise, i cant think of anything worse than the clit story....shiver


I'm just gonna have to agree with you on this one...I think I need to go and have a lie down...lol   owie

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 5:03:15 PM   
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I was in a relationship with a Dominant man he was living in NY and I was going to school in Michigan it had been months since we had seen each other last. He drove to Michigan on my Spring break to come get me and take me back to NY for the rest of the week. He gets there and it's hot and heavy and we are ripping each other's clothes off on the living room floor and going at it. We get done and he looks down and he goes you didn't tell me you were going to start your period. I said I didn't I finished two weeks ago he goes where is this blood coming from. It had gotten so rough that some skin had ripped in a very sensitive area. Thankfully it wasn't anything too serious and didn't require any medical attention, but I was hurting for quite awhile after that.

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 5:41:42 PM   
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The mods would delete my stories and ban me if I told them in plain English.  In my youth, I grew up in the 70s Detroit gay leather extremist underground.  The very same type of crowd that inspired David Stein to write SSC for GMSMA in 1984. 
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There once was a young man who was still exploring BDSM.  He was a switch.  He went to a private club with a bunch of big butch gay leathermen to watch <insert tos act here>.  He got really excited by the display before his eyes and drank far too much in the rapture of it all.  After all, he was young fresh meat and he could feel every old fag in the place drooling over him.  That is a lot of attention and quite a bit of rapture. 

Well, be it in his old age as a seasoned sadistic dominant or as a younger person exploring masochism and bottoming, he always delivered when called on stage.  And when he got drunk, that is exactly what his friends did.  They got him to go on stage.  He let them put him in a frame, for this big buck < insert racial tos here>.  Even though he saw what they did to the other guy… he was so drunk and very naive it didn’t dawn on him that it might not be smart to lay his fresh meat on the dinner table before so many extremists! 

Anyway, there was no negotiation, no safeword, no set up or mental preparation.  He was sitting at a table one minute, 3 minutes later he was getting beaten by this older guy who probably had sadistic personality disorder.  He didn’t cry out and he barely flinched with the pain.  He was a little numb from the booze and he was trained in Zen so he processed pain differently than most people.  He wasn’t being a SAM, he just wasn’t being hurt. 

The black Top was shouting out a variety of humiliating and racially oriented degradations at his young white ass.  He didn’t know if he was supposed to act like a tortured soul and the Top got mad or the lack of reaction made the Top think he was a very heavy player. Whatever the case may be, it stepped up several notches.  The Top stopped whipping his back and started whipping his chest so violently he started bleeding rather badly.  It was the first time he saw whip spray.  He could see his blood spraying off the wet whip in slow motion as it hit the wall. 

He could feel being whipped bloody, especially when the top started hitting his genitals, but it didn’t make him cry out.  He was pretty lost to the endorphins by then.  You could have cut parts off of him and he wouldn’t have felt pain.  So it stepped up yet another notch and the racial humiliation evolved into a gang rape, his front end being beaten bloody while his ass end was being raped bloody by a string of guys.  The scent of sex and blood was so strong it cut through the stench of stale beer and cigarettes that was the normal perfume for this little club.

It took a few days until he could walk straight or wear a shirt without it getting stuck to his wounds.  He didn’t think of it as being a victim in anyway.  He was just young, dumb and drunk.  He learned the meaning of “look before you leap” and having volunteered unconditionally to that crowd could be considered a little scary... the racial tension felt pretty genuine.

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 10:06:09 PM   
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I have seen similar things RS...one with an idiot tourist at the Hellfire club in NY when I was there for my birthday..after he managed to vex me to no end and insult half the Domina there..he got what he THOUGHT he wanted...One of the top sadistic fisters there was a gentleman who had lost his hand...but did a lot of lifting and had muscles to make Hercules think twice. He was a very unhappy tourist when he was removed from the premises..but oddly enough..his wife whom he had treated like crap all night was grinning like a chesire cat.

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/19/2008 11:25:38 PM   
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Quick one....lesson learned FAST.....Dom drinking, drunk, passes out in my bed, finally wakes up, I want him to leave, and he refuses!!!!!  And while he's drunk, he's talking about suicide and different ways to do it.....OMFG!!!!!  I was actually happy when he passed out...I let him sleep it off, and when he comes to, I tell him it's time for him to go, that there was no way I'd want to pursue anything further with him.  He refuses to get up and out of my bed.....totally pissed me off....however, once I reach full Bitch mode, I am hell on earth.....it took about 6 seconds to go from sub to Bitch.....he left in a freaking hurry......rule #1...NO ONE drinks....period!!!!!! 

To add insult to injury, he kept telling me it was all MY fault!  Yeah, riiiiiight........but for a bit, I was really afraid that I'd never get him out of my apartment.  I have cop friends on speed dial, and was thisclose to calling them to unass his stupid self.

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RE: Scary Lifestyle Stories - 12/20/2008 7:34:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx
I have seen similar things RS...one with an idiot tourist at the Hellfire club in NY when I was there for my birthday..after he managed to vex me to no end and insult half the Domina there..he got what he THOUGHT he wanted...One of the top sadistic fisters there was a gentleman who had lost his hand...but did a lot of lifting and had muscles to make Hercules think twice. He was a very unhappy tourist when he was removed from the premises..but oddly enough..his wife whom he had treated like crap all night was grinning like a chesire cat.

poenkitten

LOL, nice story.  I haven’t been to Hellfire since 2003 (?).  It was still pretty raunchy and you had to rope off your station to hold the wankers back far enough so they didn’t squirt on you while you were playing.  They still had all the trimmings including tranny hookers in the back.  A few years ago I heard Lenny lost his lease and was looking for a new place. 

I had occasion to visit Hellfire NY a few times in the 70/80s and later on when Lenny took over and it was moved.  With the mix of BDSM stations and sex stalls/booths, that place is awespome.   How can you not love a club that is loaded with bi, gay and straight people all in their roles as sex sluts, pain sluts, sissies, macho Marlboro men, tranny hookers, Tops, bottoms and glory hole whores. . .  A lot of edge players up in that club.  Even after the Aids scare it was a free sex environment that stressed safe sex. 

The group I talked about in my story from Detroit in the 70s had their ‘club’ in a very small theater in Highland park behind an adult book store.  During the day, male hookers would dance (masturbate actually) on stage and then go in back to service the businessmen clients on their lunch hour.  It was ultra low class and sleazy.  The place made you feel dirty just to walk into it . . .  which was hot in its own way.  Some of that gang from that 70s club went on to hang out at Detroit's own Hellfire West in the 80s.  Detroit’s Hellfire was patterned along the same lines as many gay (leather sex) bars but held the same bi/gay/straight welcome policy as the NY Hellfire club.

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