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When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 6:46:02 AM   
MistressYlwa


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Loved reading ProtagonistLily's post. Would love to hear about how others came to their relationships.

My late husband and I met on the internet. We did not meet to join, but to be friends. He was a switch and I do not tolerate a bossy boy well. lol So it seemed the only thing we would have between us was friendship. But as is usually the case, it became more.

We "dated" for quite some time. One day he took my daughter and I to lunch. Back at his home, we talked then said goodbye. I leaned over to kiss him (our first kiss). I literally fell backward. He knocked me off my feet. My daughter caught me before I hit the ground. Needless to say, there was no way I would let him go after that. It has been a long time since he died. But after all these years, I still miss him.

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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 7:07:15 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Well I met my ex-owner online and the first time we met he came to my apartment, caned my breasts and THEN gave me a dozen roses.

The first time I met my Boston partner he was on his way to Leather Retreat, I was told by my owner that he would be coming over and we had a very fun night of sex together.

I actually met my boyfriend through collarme. We emailed a bit, then I met him for lunch and then we started dating.

I met my local partner though Black Rose 04 and then started seeing him at the NOVA Firefly Meetups and we began dating from that.

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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 7:22:29 AM   
MasterLon


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I met my slave in phoenia arizona where I was being mentored in 1960, she wanted a punishment scene, after a few sessions we talked...got together, we had a ceremony called the collar of submission, we moved to calif when my mentorship was over and after a year we had the wedding collaring ceremony and lived together for a total of 29 years....God in his wisdom decided that I should walk the rest of my path alone for a while...Now I seek a slave that does not exist, an old school type of slave, not a submissive that role plays as a slave once in a while and certainly not a vanilla with kink, oh well...take care folks...
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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 9:07:47 AM   
thetammyjo


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I was in a college/comminity BDSM organization but I had German in the evenings and wasn't attending many meetings for the full meeting one semester. I had one slave and was currently training a submissive so I wasn't looking for anyone else.

My friends in the group told me that there was a new student who came to a munch very early in the semester and that I should meet him. "He knows so much about bondage," they said, "he's a wonderful top. He'll be a great asset to the group; you should meet him."

The next meeting was in the same building as my class so I went to it halfway through trying to be quiet and unobserved (that doesn't happen with me *shrug*). My slave was leading the workshop on creating your own toys and so I participated in it where I could given my late arrival. After the workshop, my slave introduced me to this new student. We shook hands and knew my friends were so wrong in their assessment -- this boy wasn't a top, certainly not a dominant, he was a submissive. But he was serious and he was intelligent.

The next munch was on a Saturday so I was able to attend the full time. I sat across from the new boy and watched/listened to him. It all confirmed what I felt but then when everyone left I asked him "need a ride back to campus?" and he did. So we gave him one. I also took the opportunity to ask him which BDSM role he prefered; no hestitation, submissive.

I used my position in the organization (I was education coordinator so even if I couldn't attend workshops I did make sure we had them) to get his email address and wrote to him welcoming him to the group. He wrote back with the following signature:

"Fox Wolfe
A wolf who can walk by his owner's side without a lease, by what would be the fun in that."

I replied: "So, do you, have an owner then?"

And thus we began over six years ago.


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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 7:52:57 PM   
OscarHargraves


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I met my current Sub on Alt.com about three years ago. She was having real problems adjusting to life alone (her 'significant other' had just started a 7 to 10 year jail spell for bouncing rubber checks and false use of a credit card). She had decided that this was a good time to start exploring her submissive side since she had always had to take control in her previous relationships.

We e-mailed several times and decided to meet for lunch one day. We sat and talked for almost two hours and found that we really liked each other. After several phone calls and e-mails we set a date to meet at her apartment. Turns out she lived less than 10 minutes from me.

The first thing I liked about Kari was her attitude. She hadn't tried a lot of things and was pretty nervous about doing them the first time but she wanted to try because she knew it would please me. She has grown and learned a great deal in three years and she has also taught me things about myself I didn't realize. (She has a degree in psychology and a lot of real life experience to back it up.)

We now 'scene' together regularly or sometimes just get together for a lot of hot kinky sex. She has learned to do everything that pleases me and has found out that she is multi-orgasmic (she had rarely had ONE climax before let alone several) and can turn into a regular nympho at times.


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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 8:04:19 PM   
Rayne58


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Master and I met on the internet too. I joined an erotic story site which also had forums. I was fresh out of a very nilla and emotionally abusive marriage and wanted to explore my sexuality. There's a "How To forum there which I began to read, and my first post was on a blowjob thread. Master was a frequent reader of that thread (wonder why ) and noted my location in my profile and invited me to post to a thread on another forum for Aussies (even though I was a New Zealander)

We became friends over a few months and then the long distance relationship I was in fell through Master emailed me and I replied, and over the next few weeks we became closer. He was organising a meeting of people on that Aussie thread in Sydney and invited me to go to it, He offered me a bed at His flat no strings attached. Between booking my ticket and the time of the meeting there was about 4 months to wait.

That time was spent chatting, emailing and phoning. He told me He was into Master/sub games and I expressed an interest in exploring that even though I'd had absolutely no experience. By the time the 4 months was up I knew this man was something special. He'd told me of all His health problems upfront and prepared me for what I might be getting into. When we finally met at the airport it was overwhelming for both of us. Three days into my visit we decided to make it permanent. I flew back to NZ 3 weeks later and prepared to make my home with Master in Sydney. Six weeks after that I came back, and in just over 3 weeks we will celebrate two years together with many more to come

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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 8:34:20 PM   
MTslave


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Well I shall join the ranks of meeting my rt through the internet. I had been exploring BDSM for numerous years through the online communities and different sites. I had a vast amount of 'book' knowledge but zero real life know how. I had gotten to a point where I was craving to learn more.. to make it......... real.

I had at one time, made a grievious error with someone I had met online and had gone back to the site where I met him to try and find him to apologize. This had been years but he was still registered there. So I dropped into the room he had frequented to ask if anyone there new him. Well I got few responses but there were a couple men in the room talking about the NASCAR race (it was a Sunday night) so being the race nut that I am just jumped right into that conversation. One of them BigDaddyT... evidently took a look at my profile and made mention that we were only two hours apart. We talked a bit more that night and subsequent nights there after. Eventually it led to IM's.. phone calls then he asked one night if I'd like to meet for coffee cause he was comming to town for a race.... Well needless to say..... he never made it to the race.

He was very honorable that night. We did everything by the book. Met in a public place, people knew where I was, I had my cell phone, seperate cars, etc. After coffee he asked if I wanted to go listen to music in his truck and talk away from the noisy crowds. Without hesitation I said yes. Every sense was telling me it was ok... not one red flag.

Let me say here, that as we talked that night, it was all I could do to stay on my own side of the truck. Every nerve ending in my body was screaming, 'this man could make you feel things you never dreamed'. But... I was good, and so was he. Later on though he confessed to wanting to drag me across that center console and taste me right then and there... I'm telling ya... this was stuff that movies were made of.

A week or so later he asked me to join him at the track for a race he was working but not driving. I very happily said yes. I met him the afternoon before at a hotel and that was when I knew what it felt like to be on my knees before one that absolutely had my totaly respect... I knew that this was who I wanted in my life to lead me down this new journey.

I won't bore you with the rest of the details but very appropriately I was collared at a race track at the last race of the season. That was over a year ago... our third season of racing will begin in March and I'm happier then I ever have been.

Master T's slave


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RE: When You Were Joined - 12/30/2005 8:44:16 PM   
Rayne58


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MTslave, Master is into racing too but speedway rather than NASCAR He is on the crash crew at the speedway in Sydney. We are contemplating the idea of having our wedding there one day!

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RE: When You Were Joined - 1/4/2006 8:10:55 PM   
MistressYlwa


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Thank you all for sharing your stories with me.
They were inspirational, to say the least.

Mistress Ylwa


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