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SmokingGoddess -> Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/18/2008 9:06:43 PM)
Hello All I have a new submissive that begs for ways to cum with a cost (Sado-torture cum) Here is his message to Me: "Goddess, I'm really aching in my restriction, which I've dedicated to you (without your asking-hope you aren't offended). Got any ideas how to make cumming for you a double-edge sword? Cruel ones? I do but I'm wondering what you think, or might like." so far I came up with a few options for masturbation, I'm curious what You fine folks would come up with. Options: Cooking oil and a tiny pinch of sand Coarse nylon stockings not silky mummify cock in cotton clothesline shop vac Thanks in advance for Your replies!

SmokingGoddess -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/18/2008 9:15:49 PM)
or maybe... tied down to restrict wriggling clothespin flower petals all around tip (following activities will cause pain from pins flopping around) grip shaft and alternate apple polish/whartenberg stroke shaft slowly tease underside below tip with vibrator zip off clothespins at cumming grip and aggressively alternate stroking/polishing tip for long extended sensation (could become unbearable-that after cum sensitivity after all that preceded cumming) lol ok, I'll stop answering My own damned question.

pixelslave -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/18/2008 9:46:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SmokingGoddess clothespin flower petals all around tip (following activities will cause pain from pins flopping around) - snip - zip off clothespins at cumming One caution about clothespins. Be careful how long you leave them on. Twenty minutes is usually considered the maximum safe limit before the lack of blood flow can begin to cause damage. You don't want to harm your toy now do you? [&:] To answer your OP, I suggest you look into what's called "predicament bondage", where you tie your sub such that he may have to tug on his testicles, causing him pain, in order to reach his penis with his hands in order to stroke it or some such consequence like that. I'm sure you can come up with other devious predicaments for him using this type of thought process. [;)] - pixel

LadyPact -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/18/2008 9:49:37 PM)
As I'm sitting here waiting for hubby to finish his post, I can say this..... I am most comfortable in My Domination revolving around those things that do not rely on the sexual. For Me, that is better saved for much later in the dynamic. It makes the reward of it so much sweeter.

MsStarlett -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 4:07:14 AM)
Masturbate with Icy Hot for 'lube'. Don't mention to him to keep it off his balls. That's a little number that every man should learn for himself... the hard way.

NormalOutside -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 4:12:10 AM)
Yes, and every female as well, on her pussy and nipples.

sirsholly -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 4:14:29 AM)
IcyHot is evil stuff....

NormalOutside -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 4:16:44 AM)
As I'm sure you know, there's worse holly :p

sirsholly -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 4:42:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NormalOutside As I'm sure you know, there's worse holly :p Please do not type it here...hubby often reads the forums!!

NormalOutside -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 5:16:15 AM)
I will nooooot TYpe it he"re do n o t worrY, (the above message contains information about products/substances worse than IcyHot, encoded so only dominant husbands can understand them)

thishereboi -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 8:16:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave One caution about clothespins. Be careful how long you leave them on. Twenty minutes is usually considered the maximum safe limit before the lack of blood flow can begin to cause damage. You don't want to harm your toy now do you? [&:] - pixel That's ok, I am sure the shop vac will get the circulation going again.

christianblue -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 10:24:13 AM)
From a sub male perspective here are some thoughts on the great suggestions so far... There is no doubt that icy hot as a lubricant is definitely a rough; especially if it gets on the, well, more sensitive areas. It burns a great deal which does create a bit of an angry frustrated pleasure. As for predicament bondage, that can be a hands down excellent, and evil, way to create rough scenarios. If you have a ceiling hook and small pulleys (a few dollars at a hardware store), you can always put your sub/slave in situations that will tire them out (i.e. forced to remain standing with a slight bend at the knees in order to receive pleasure/avoid pain - eventually their legs will be spent but they'll be forced to hold it) etc... (this also works great in scenarios with a wooden pony) There's also a wicked little device called a rooster cage (kind of like a chinese finger trap but for the penis). Once slid on (and usually secured at the base) the other end can be tied off to anything which pulls the cage away from the body (i.e. tied up and through a pulley back down to something else, or even just with a bungee cord), then it pulls, making it smaller, and painfully squeezing the penis. Not to mention the cage is difficult, painful, and frustrating to masturbate through. Or... I suppose you could do everything together and drive them crazy. Hope this perspective helps. :)

malloves69 -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 3:44:49 PM)
cumming with a cost ? how about if the dominant woman makes the submissive man lick up the mess he made ? [:)] making a male swallow his own cum i bet most men dont like to do ...but men expect women to swallow ...so if thats the case then she should feed it back to him with a snowball kiss or a creampie [:)] must say my mistresses and my cum do taste rather well mixed together [:)] just a idea ladys [:)] mal

MsStarlett -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 3:51:50 PM)
I'm assuming the OP is not present at the time the sub is trying to 'cum at a cost'. As mentioned above, you can always have him put himself in awkward positions to pleasure himself. I like 'sitting on the wall'. A favorite punishment doled out by my high school music teacher. Have him stand about 18 inches from the wall, lean back and scoot down the wall until his knees are bent 45 degrees. He should look like he's sitting in a chair but he is actually pressing himself against the wall with his legs. Now he can stay there until he finishes. If he's quick, it won't hurt to bad. The longer he stays there, the more it hurts. Personally, I have my boys drawing stars on the heads of their penises with a blue ball point pen.

Aszhrae -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/19/2008 10:56:38 PM)
There are a few martial arts exercises that if you are not use to doing can hurt to the point that your limbs feel like they are about to fall off. You really do not feel like moving afterwards. There are also a few positions in the Kama Sutra that are provocative but extremely painful for someone that is not adept.

tiemetght -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/20/2008 4:17:20 AM)
Icy Hot is a wicked product, but one that is overlooked at times is Lidocaine 4% cream. Have him apply it all over the shaft and on the penis head, wait 5 minutes, then let him go at himself. He should be so numb that he will probably rub himself a bit raw before he gets to cum.

SimplyIsaac -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/20/2008 7:32:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SmokingGoddess Hello All I have a new submissive that begs for ways to cum with a cost (Sado-torture cum) Here is his message to Me: "Goddess, I'm really aching in my restriction, which I've dedicated to you (without your asking-hope you aren't offended). Got any ideas how to make cumming for you a double-edge sword? Cruel ones? I do but I'm wondering what you think, or might like." so far I came up with a few options for masturbation, I'm curious what You fine folks would come up with. Options: Cooking oil and a tiny pinch of sand Coarse nylon stockings not silky mummify cock in cotton clothesline shop vac Thanks in advance for Your replies! None of the above. Attach a need to seed fee of $200.00. That might make things hurt a little more and encourage chastity. lol

pixelslave -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/20/2008 9:23:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave One caution about clothespins. Be careful how long you leave them on. Twenty minutes is usually considered the maximum safe limit before the lack of blood flow can begin to cause damage. You don't want to harm your toy now do you? [&:] - pixel That's ok, I am sure the shop vac will get the circulation going again. Actually no, extended periods without blood flow to an area of the body can result in permanent nerve damage. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] The same caveat applies to nipple play and the use of clothespins or clamps on other body parts as well. They need to be removed to restore blood flow on a regular basis in order to prevent this type of damage. That's why even first aid turniquets must be released periodically when used in life saving procedures. - pixel

thishereboi -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/20/2008 9:42:46 PM)
That explains so much. thanks [:)]

royalgoodness -> RE: Double Edged Sword... cumming with a cost (12/21/2008 4:11:20 PM)
Mine was bengay not so nice. I was a good boy long time after that.

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