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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 12/30/2005 9:35:01 PM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		my responsibility is to please and obey Him, and to take care of Us both.

that would cover communicating in a appropriate manner, anything that hinders/helps our relationship. Be that my or His behaviour/beliefs/thoughts.

To be willing to learn

To do all of this, within our agreed limits





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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/4/2006 1:12:54 AM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: LadyKim

What do you believe a submissive's responsibilies are?

A submissive is responsible for their own behavior, their actions, and the consequences of those actions. They owe that responsibility to their dominant, who will in turn punish them for inappropriate behavior and actions, provide guidance and correction as necessary; praise and reward where it is deserved and needed within the context of their relationship.

Being submissive doesn't make someone any less responsible for themselves, what they do, or who they are... it does change who they are chiefly responsible too. That is, you may or may not answer to society, to police, the laws of physics, etc. for your actions... but you will answer to your dominant for them.

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/4/2006 4:39:36 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		Yes, along the thoughts of Padriag, the best indication of a good submissive is her behavior when I'm not there. The best shackles are not iron.

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/4/2006 5:13:58 AM   
Jasmyn


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and I do not feel the impact of an impliment to the same degree the submissive does receiving it.


lol my flatmate hit me on the thigh during a play fight over Christmas with one of my canes and it hurt! True to form I cracked up laughing and thought, god I'm a bitch when I remembered the butt I'd caned only a few days prior... 'cause man if that hurt, I can only imagine how this sub felt ...lol though I know he loved all that I do and that is why I love what it is we do ;) our next session is to go out into the woods for a picnic and have him gather together his own bundle of birch for a birching. Perhaps I might have to make him make two, so I can come back and birch the flatmate lol...




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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/4/2006 1:09:57 PM   
Vajray3333


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Status: offline 		What a fantastic question! I believe in knowing what His need and wants are is first and foremost and developing trust so you may carry them out is anouther. It is definately more than just a sex act, and continues on even when you are not together.

It truely depends on the dynamics of the relationship and knowing your owner maybe even better than they know themselves...

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/10/2006 3:37:27 PM   
EriaeMelody


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What do you believe a submissive's responsibilies are?


Well, my first responsibility is obviously to myself. If I can't take care of that, then how could I possibly be responsible for another ( in terms of pleasing )

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/10/2006 4:19:40 PM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		think it would be interesting to get people's opinions on the responsibilites of a submissive in a D/s relationship.
What do you believe a submissive's responsibilies are?
MzKim
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sub/slave...whichever.....
responsiblities...
"I" am "responsible" for everything here...from wall to wall...floor to floor..."I" keep this place running as smooth as I possibly am able to do so. ANY dirty job that comes up,..is mine.
rain gutters, to each interior wall...each floor, each stick of furniture..each dish/cup/silverware...bedding..the computer maintenance..fluid levels on the cars...
mail...newspaper...delivery & service people coming/going..
laundry, bathrooms, dogs fed and cared for, whatever you can think of...

these are MY responsibilities...I do it ALL...and I do it alone.
7 days a week,,,18 hrs a day,...i am on-call on-duty.
I take care of Her dinners, for work, Her coffee for work, Her medication, ...

I take care of MY meds, MY laundry, MY bedding, MY dinners, MY van maintenance, ....
snow removal, gardening, weeding,...boat dock, garage, exterior of house, ...
should I keep going??????

there is very little that ever gets past me.
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has this helped?

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/10/2006 6:01:09 PM   
Oberonrex


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Status: offline 		First, I want them to know themselves, for unless they do that in an honest manner they can't be true to themselves or to me. Beyond that, their responsibility is to give their best to everything they do -- for in the process they will give me the best service and the best of their heart, mind, soul, and body. With those, there are no limits to exploration of world, mind, and spirit.

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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/11/2006 5:30:27 AM   
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RE: What are a submissive's responsibilities? - 1/11/2006 6:12:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fldrkhorse

Listen, learn, understand, and anticipate.

Some doms HATE anticipation from their slaves.

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