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BondageBarbieX -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (12/29/2008 12:03:15 AM)
If after just one meeting he is talking to you with such disrespect and making you cry in pain from a spanking to till you are begging to stop he is not a good Dominant but is acting abusive. The fact that you are not even under consideration or in training by this so called Dominant and he is giving you ultimatums is wrong.Your common sense is right...put your safety first....run and do not look back.

ResidentSadist -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (12/29/2008 2:50:48 PM)
-fr hmmm... training = sadomasichism? If you want to "feed" the sadist then go. If you want D/s training, then find someone with mutual interests.

bamagirl4u -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (1/2/2009 6:16:56 PM)
I hope that by the time Monday arrives you will have dumped the deadbeat! Never put your desires above your safety. Safe, sane, and consensual....I too have done some stupid things in my journey~~I have been lucky. If not for good friends in the lifestyle, my luck would have ran out a long time ago. Find One that seeks the same things you do. I have posted a few threads on here, very helpful, but to this question, You already know the answer...don't go! Best of luck to you...

Musicmystery -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (1/2/2009 8:40:35 PM)
Two men are walking their dogs in the park. When the dogs take off running, one yells "Get your furry ass back here, god damnit!" in an angry voice. The other gives a low whistle and a quick hand gesture (a finger snap and pointing to his feet, perhaps). Which one is the Master? I know I can tell you which dog listens and which dog keeps running.

IronBear -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (1/2/2009 8:54:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery Two men are walking their dogs in the park. When the dogs take off running, one yells "Get your furry ass back here, god damnit!" in an angry voice. The other gives a low whistle and a quick hand gesture (a finger snap and pointing to his feet, perhaps). Which one is the Master? I know I can tell you which dog listens and which dog keeps running. Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sure you haven't been watching Neets and I with the children (male desexed Malamute boy and female desexed Malamute/Husky girl)? Voice and hand commands with a large amount of love works wonders and a huge amount of patience, just like training kids (of all breeds) and slaves in my experience.

RealSub58 -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (1/3/2009 12:50:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: arizonaangel I am very new to this lifestyle. I met a prospective Dom/Master last Friday... He texted me the next day and at one point told me to shut my fucking mouth when I had said something he didn't like... the next day, the first time we had ever actually been out of a meet situationn, he tied my wrists to a board and spanked my ass HARD with a paddle until I couldn't stop crying and begging him to stop... Now he tells me that the onnly way he would consider continuing to train me is if I agree to come to his house on Monday and he will restrain me again , only this time he will whip me with a whip for 30 minutes straight... I feel this is too much too soon...My common sense tells me to put my safety first... and, that I could really wind up hurt.... Did you tell him you were a masochist? A pain slut?If so ~~~ this is a test. But even if it were a test ~~ 1.) I would hide at my ma's (unless you gave him her address)OR2.) If you went to him, tell your ma exactly what time to call the cops3) Get the hell away OR4) My Sir could write a cryptic letter to him, if my Sir knew all the facts. (Sir has done so on the former man for me.) It sort of sinjed. This dude was an abuser in dom drag from the beginning if you ask me.

masmiss -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (4/30/2009 5:49:58 PM)
Go with your gut feeling. This "Dom" sounds scary.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (4/30/2009 5:59:38 PM)
Another thread from last year! Super. The OP is no longer among us... Or has hidden her profile. Hopefully she had enough sense not to see that asshole again.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (4/30/2009 8:24:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: My common sense tells me to put my safety first... and, that I could really wind up hurt.... My common sense tells me you are going to get hurt on Monday..... If you don't want it, don't ask for it, and don't do it. quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz Go with your common sense. I don't mean to be mean, and you certainly aren't the first to exhibit this behavior, but what's with the slave/sub types throwing all logic out the window when meeting a so called 'dominant/master/captain amazing'. A shitty person is a shitty person, no matter what they call themselves What They said. This jerk already hurt you like hell and you're wondering if you should go back for more!?!?

thornhappy -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (5/1/2009 6:36:50 PM)
Thread's quite old and the OP is gone.

marysdream -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (5/2/2009 6:13:34 AM)
as submissive or just woman in relationships we have made bad choices...one rule is predominant..as a single sub you must take care of self! this means not allowing your desire to experience this override your common sense, there are a lot of folks on here that will use this forum to abuse others! just say no...and move on at the first sign of ignorance! take care ree!

LeatherBentOne -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (5/3/2009 8:47:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Do a search here on "red flags" and then take note. You've shared a couple of big ones with us, but I'll bet there are at least a dozen more that you haven't mentioned. And a clarification - flogging is NOT whipping. I have flogged newbies and they enjoyed it. Whips are NOT playthings for anyone who does not know how to use one. We're talking possibilities of permanent damage. [/quote I agree 100%. Red flags all over the place.

sirguym -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (5/4/2009 9:16:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: understeer quote: ORIGINAL: E2Sweet quote: ORIGINAL: Usako Why...why do people check their common sense at the door when they begin their journey into BDSM... I have no clue, but I've been reading this kind of thing a lot this evening... I'm just at a loss at this point... Sadly, I've actually been getting a lot of contact from girls with no experience in the same situation... Several times I've had a girl come to me in such a situation, met me alone, in 'my' space, no safe-call, no prior 'due diligence' on my reputation, etc. Even when I've told them to! One even said, 'because you told me to, I knew I was in good hands, so didn't feel a need.' Fortunately they've never come to harm, but I try to give them something of a lecture about their own safety and a bit of a scare before playing safe ...

soul2share -> RE: flogging a brand new slave (5/4/2009 5:03:48 PM)
nm...just saw Thorny's post...leave it to the nerd! [8\|]

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