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TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 10:52:07 PM)

I will never understand how anyone has the time or patience to sit down and write all that on a frickin BDSM board. Am I the only one who types at a rate of about one word a minute?

That is not even including all the time it takes to put it in order, fix the grammar, spell check, etc., etc... jeez.



SimplyIsaac -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:10:44 PM)

Ok, first: You need an editor. Seriously.

Second: You said a lot of stuff in this rant, but are you basically saying stop getting caught up in all the crazy ideas and just live and love?



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:20:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheVoiceofOne

I will never understand how anyone has the time or patience to sit down and write all that on a frickin BDSM board. Am I the only one who types at a rate of about one word a minute?

That is not even including all the time it takes to put it in order, fix the grammar, spell check, etc., etc... jeez.


Not everyone has limitations when it comes to typing, grammar and spelling.  Some can type something like that up in no time at all.  So rather than point and say jeez as if someone has done something silly... consider that maybe you should be amazed that someone can skillfully do something you cannot and that other's might value it.  Just a thought...



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:26:47 PM)

What exactly and specifially is there to be amazed at? If you value it, good for you... It holds no value to me. So, instead of trying to help me see the error of my ways, why don't you coment on the valuable OP.



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:30:47 PM)

LOL... That was a good try there buddy!  Your comment was about as much worth as mine to the op.  You come in sarcastic... I call you on it and you come sarcastic again... so be it... I don't mind small worlds.. as long as it isn't mine.  You enjoy yourself...

Edited to add... nice edit job there!



SimplyIsaac -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:31:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheVoiceofOne

What exactly and specifially is there to be amazed at? If you value it, good for you... It holds no value to me. So, instead of trying to help me see the error of my ways, why don't you coment on the valuable OP.


Exactly.

I'm still trying to figure out what was even said in the OP. I'm retarded. [:(]



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:36:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL... That was a good try there buddy!  Your comment was about as much worth as mine to the op.  You come in sarcastic... I call you on it and you come sarcastic again... so be it... I don't mind small worlds.. as long as it isn't mine.  You enjoy yourself...

Edited to add... nice edit job there!


Are you from Pittsburgh? Only guys from Pittsburgh call me buddy... Your world only gets smaller as you try your best to make me feel... something... anything.

I told you I don't enjoy typing, so should I feel shame for editing? I needed to add the bit about being amazed... It was such wisdom after all.



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:42:46 PM)

Damn... I am so busted!  I am a guy and I am from Pa... god help the state!



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:44:17 PM)

Could you, at the very least try to be funny... once. Pretty please?!?



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:46:04 PM)

ROFL...



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:55:27 PM)

Dear Lockit,

I feel as though we have grown apart and now find ourselves on different wavelengths, and although our time has been filled with great passion and friendship... I must bid you adieu.

Do not fret, Mon Cherie... You will find love again.

TVoO



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/21/2008 11:57:24 PM)

LOL... I think you are starting to understand the op!



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:04:12 AM)

Who ever said that I didn't understand her? I just think it should be illegal for anyone to write more than one paragraph on any site on the internet... Just my asshole... errr... opinion.



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:07:20 AM)

ROFL.... then please... don't read my profile... you would freak out!



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:13:27 AM)

Too late M'lady... I am still reeling... Where's the advil.

In my kingdom, profiles would be exempt from above law... But sadly, only for submissive females and Dominant males... So sorry.



Lockit -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:14:57 AM)

ROFL!!!!!  Thank you!



TheVoiceofOne -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:17:53 AM)

Hey, who doesn't need a good chuckle at 0317hrs... Be well.



bluefireeyez -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 12:18:05 AM)

When I first read the OP, I was thinking far more about family relationships then romantic ones. There are certain people in my life that I will forever call family, although there is no blood relation. On the opposite side of the coin, there are people who share my blood and yet I can't think of them as anything other than another person.

Catdemedici, I understand completely what you mean about people trying to make you happy by their standards. In the recent months I've learned that living by another's idea of what a family is will never make me happy.

To the OP, to me relationships are about people. D/s is about people and the interaction you have with someone. I know some people will partake in BDSM activities just to get their needs/desires met, but I believe (at least for me) that the acts themselves are meaningless unless you take the person into consideration.



colouredin -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 4:48:49 AM)

I totally agree with you stella. You know I have been reading a book with a deeply cliche title so i wont say what it is however it has taught me a lot about my kind of relationships.

Im a fixer, i need to change and help and fix people and this is something that has been the case all the way through my life. I am never happy when I am in a relationship, that may seem like a strange thing to say but its true i feel ore of a complete person when in a relationship but not happy.

I dont feel worth while unless im fixing, and this in turn means that I spend no time actually sorting out my own problems, i shove them into something else.

I think we put too much stock in relationships, saying you need them to be a whole person is a pile of crap, you can love people without being in a rleationship, you can have company without being in a relationship. If you need to be in a relationship to feel whole then you need to be in therapy.

A close friend of mine honestly believes she needs to be with someone, doesnt matter who just someone, she adores them fawns over them changes to become what they want, and why? because she has no self esteem she believes her appearance is all she can offer people but that to be a proper person she has to be in a relationship.

We are taught from day one of happy endings and all that malarchy and we believe it, we assimilate it and then we strive for it. Everything else suffers.

Now maybe im being cynical because i am just coming out of another relationship that was just the same as the last one and indeed the one before that. But I think not, I think actually its honest.

We should not strive for a relationship we should strive for happiness and those two words may not actually be synonyms.



IronBear -> RE: F*ck relationships. I've had enough. Relationships suck. (12/22/2008 5:32:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL:

What exactly and specifially is there to be amazed at? If you value it, good for you... It holds no value to me. So, instead of trying to help me see the error of my ways, why don't you coment on the valuable OP.


I can't believe I'm seeing this load of self centered blather including berating the OP for posting something perhaps she needed to get of her chest, followed by a good old fashion winge about the time it took to type a post and check spelling and grammar etc.... If I posted whet i thought when I read this crap, I have little doubt that Mod11 would have my arse in a sling and my head on a pike.


Simple solution chum (TheVoiceofOne), you see something which you don't like, pisses you off or a post by someone you can't stand, why bother to spend your precious time (better to spend it in preening your feathers) and block the thread or the OP (or anyone else for that matter).





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