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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 3:04:05 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Well, I always knew I was exceptional.  

As for the pic thing, that's Me, right there on the left.


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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 3:31:10 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I do not webcam, I'd rather hear a voice on the end of the phone and then meet in person after some time. So no not all Dommes do this, but those who do I am sure are doing it for their safety as they want to make sure that the sub is the gender(person) that they claim to be.

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 6:16:58 AM   
stella41b


Posts: 4258
Joined: 10/16/2007
From: SW London (UK)
Status: offline 		On Collarme found a domme
Up in Chicago
Where I once drank champagne
But I'm now sat drinking cola
C-O-L-A cola
I sent off a line and she gave me a chance
I asked her her name and in her message back
She wrote Lola
L-O-L-A Lola,
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola

Well I'm not the world's most demanding guy
But I checked all her photos trying to look for signs
Oh my Lola,
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Well I'm not dumb but I can't understand
Why she writes she a woman but doesn't have webcam
Oh my Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola

Well we exchanged messages and chatted all night
Passing photos back and forth till the morning light
She said she's spent six years with a profile on Collarme
And said subbie boy won't you come and serve me
Well I'm not the world's most perverted guy
But when I saw her list of kinks well I almost fell for my Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola

She said webcam no way
I went to the boards
And with thoughts in my head
I started a thread on my knees
To warn all the folks on Collarme

Lola's a fake now I know today
And know Lola will always be that way
Such is Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Boys will be girls and all girls are boys
And my take is that Collarme is full of fakes
For example Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola

Well I've had a Collarme profile since 2004
But I've never ever met a domme before
But Lola wrote and said she'd understand
And that she just wanted a decent submissive man
But I'm not the world's intelligent man
But I know what I am and I know I'm a man
And so's Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
Lo-lo-lo-lo-Lola
(repeat ad nauseum)


original song by The Kinks

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 6:32:02 AM   
justgemmie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Well, I always knew I was exceptional.  

As for the pic thing, that's Me, right there on the left.



and if i might add (although You don't know me from adam)  a beautiful woman You are  :)

gemmie

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 9:51:25 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		I would tell you that I barely know you and have no obligation to do what you ask of me. That since we're just starting to get to know each other, It is absolutely ok for me to refuse requests, or orders from you untill I know you better and have decided I want to explore the possibilities of the beginnings of a power authority dynamic. Untill I know you  well enough  and we've talked long enough to decide I want to submit to your authority, you have none over me.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact



Oh, and while I'm at it, yes, if I tell a sub to show themselves, that's what I expect.  I will listen if they feel they have an appropriate reason and decide if it is acceptable.  If not, I expect them to obey. 

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:05:19 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: justgemmie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Well, I always knew I was exceptional.  

As for the pic thing, that's Me, right there on the left


and if i might add (although You don't know me from adam)  a beautiful woman You are  :)

gemmie



Thank you very much.  I appreciate the compliment.

As for this.....
quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

I would tell you that I barely know you and have no obligation to do what you ask of me. That since we're just starting to get to know each other, It is absolutely ok for me to refuse requests, or orders from you untill I know you better and have decided I want to explore the possibilities of the beginnings of a power authority dynamic. Untill I know you  well enough  and we've talked long enough to decide I want to submit to your authority, you have none over me.



Which would be fine, but I would still stand by My assertion that it would imply that you would not be the type of submissive that I was looking for.  Please remember that I never said that I request that all submissives appear on cam for Me.  It is only something that comes about *after* that submissive has gotten to know Me and *wants* to accept orders from Me. 



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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:33:55 PM   
GreedyTop


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From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		Once again, brilliant, Stella!!

LadyP.. wanna cam? I wanna  make sure you're a chick!!

*ducks and runs while laughing like a maniac*

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:39:56 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh, and while I'm at it, yes, if I tell a sub to show themselves, that's what I expect.  I will listen if they feel they have an appropriate reason and decide if it is acceptable.  If not, I expect them to obey.  See, if I wanted equality, I'd be on eharmony or some other type of site, rather than CM.  If someone can't understand that they aren't always going to get what they want, and submit to what I do want on a small matter like this, I highly doubt they are going to submit on bigger issues.



I, personally, feel that no dominant has the right to expect me to obey till we've *both* agreed that I'm theirs.

I won't go on cam unless the person is willing to as well so I know they aren't a wanker who snagged someone's pictures from a google image search. All anyone gets for "free" is hearing my voice over the mic to show them that yes, I am female. Given the pitch of *my* voice, it'd be hard for a guy to fake it. If I turn on my cam and the other person suddenly has a lot of issues turning theirs on, I turn my off.

It's not about equality or getting what I want. It's about making sure I'm not being taken for a ride. Once I know, then I wouldn't care if theirs is on or not.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 12/22/2008 7:41:20 PM >

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:42:34 PM   
GreedyTop


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From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		I'm thinking that LadyP is talking more about someone who has already been vetted to a certain degree, and is at least partially interesting enough to her that she MIGHT consider taking a next step, not just some random sub who she's just begun talking to.  That was my take on it anyway...

but I could be wrong.

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:50:06 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I'm thinking that LadyP is talking more about someone who has already been vetted to a certain degree, and is at least partially interesting enough to her that she MIGHT consider taking a next step, not just some random sub who she's just begun talking to.  That was my take on it anyway...

but I could be wrong.


I got that from a previous post.

But my take is the OP wasn't so I took her intial response in that context.

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 7:54:41 PM   
GreedyTop


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From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		gotcha :)   (how ya doin, sexy?  love to you both!)

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 8:08:33 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

gotcha :)   (how ya doin, sexy?  love to you both!)


Pretty good. Hit my 25 pound mark at WW today so I'm feeling really good about that and bought some new clothes.

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 8:09:19 PM   
GreedyTop


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Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		YAY!! Go you!   *hugs*

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 8:30:46 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		Well that is different then:)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I'm thinking that LadyP is talking more about someone who has already been vetted to a certain degree, and is at least partially interesting enough to her that she MIGHT consider taking a next step, not just some random sub who she's just begun talking to.  That was my take on it anyway...

but I could be wrong.

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RE: cameras - 12/22/2008 8:34:06 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		Ok:) Yeah that would be different, and actually I love being on cam with friends, I can show you all the crafts I've been doing, and you can see how I've set up my room and my toys and all the great things in here, And it really gives you a sense of closeness and friendship, with far far away friends, I remember one time I had my webcam on and I fell asleep with my webcam on and a friend said it was positivly so cute I fell asleep with it left on.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Please remember that I never said that I request that all submissives appear on cam for Me.  It is only something that comes about *after* that submissive has gotten to know Me and *wants* to accept orders from Me. 



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