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Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:06:33 AM

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i am not sure here, but maybe i am going crazy. The past few months i have had many so-called Dommes or Mistresses contacting me that are either living in Africa (usually Ghana or Nigeria) or visiting, although their profile says the USA. Doesn't that strike anyone as rather peculiar? Also, there are plenty of new, very beautiful young women joining as dominant females but asking for a boyfriend. While i chat with them, they don't seem to know anything about bdsm. They always tell you to join a paysite in order for you to be able to see them. Is this site now full of scam artists? Are they true Dommes or simply models pretending to be what they aren't?

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:10:34 AM

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If it smells like bullshit, it probably is.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:12:20 AM

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http://www.datingnmore.com/fraud/scam_database.htm

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:12:44 AM

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oh please.. how long have you been online?

I guess this is why they keep doing it... it does actually work sometimes...

don't send anyone money... and what CatdeMedici said...

if it looks like a duck, its not a zebra...

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:18:36 AM

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If it looks too pretty to be realistic, it is too pretty to be realistic.

To look like the fetish stereotype for dom women is hard and expensive work.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:21:29 AM

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i actually have been online for a very long time, but somewhat new to being active on this site. Actually, some of them live in the USA as well, but always demand i join a site, so that they will get paid. Of course i got wise to it and simply ignore them once i hear either: Western Union or Africa.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:23:29 AM

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Well, say you grab some stolen pics off the web and say you send out thousands of these messages a day, and say ten saps join the dating site at say 30 bucks a head you drummed up 300 smackers for the company.

Since neither Ghana or Nigeria appear on the list of nations who pay workers the highest it's not costing you much more than 50 cents or a dollar in wages to run the con so it makes a nice business model....

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:57:59 AM

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oh wow.. I'm quitting my job... 300 a day would be great! ... right ...? even in the US... *grin*

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Well, say you grab some stolen pics off the web and say you send out thousands of these messages a day, and say ten saps join the dating site at say 30 bucks a head you drummed up 300 smackers for the company.

Since neither Ghana or Nigeria appear on the list of nations who pay workers the highest it's not costing you much more than 50 cents or a dollar in wages to run the con so it makes a nice business model....

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:04:53 AM

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Just becasue a duck might lern to walk straight and not waddle, it doesnt mean it doesnt still quack.
They realize people are wise to the other country scams and they start putting more local venues.
They are smart... and it is obvious they are still making money somewhere.
If you need to pay for the privileged, you get what you pay for... you arent going to be the only one looking at them, you will likely never touch them and you sure as hell wont have them to yourself.
If thats what you want, kudos and go for it. If not, block and ignore. Either way, dont whine.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:07:18 AM

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actually if you worked everyday, that's only $109,500 US--and you'd be in a 40%+ tax bracket so you'd be bringing home about 65,000 give or take--of course they don't pay taxes and that can buy a heck of a lot of beans or rice or "whatever" in their country.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:11:06 AM

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Ok.. but if I do that, I might make more than $300 a day, right? possibly.. *grin* I'm just assuming AT LEAST that much, and since I'm on a roll, I'll scam someone into marrying me and giving me health insurance, and while I'm at it, they can sign over the house.. and pay the bills...

now.. that does sound pretty good -- no?

*grin*

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

actually if you worked everyday, that's only $109,500 US--and you'd be in a 40%+ tax bracket so you'd be bringing home about 65,000 give or take--of course they don't pay taxes and that can buy a heck of a lot of beans or rice or "whatever" in their country.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:12:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Ok.. but if I do that, I might make more than $300 a day, right? possibly.. *grin* I'm just assuming AT LEAST that much, and since I'm on a roll, I'll scam someone into marrying me and giving me health insurance, and while I'm at it, they can sign over the house.. and pay the bills...

now.. that does sound pretty good -- no?

*grin*

By jove! You've got it.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:28:40 AM

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What CatdeMedci says...

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:37:34 AM

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Damn! I thought this thread was about all the beautiful domme's we have around here! Go figure he is talking about another country! There goes my Holiday cheer!

(smile)

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 10:47:07 AM

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Lockit Dear, I've started a thread on Ask a Mistress called "Your Diversity" that is a perfect place to share your beauty--because you have many beautiful facets as we have seen!

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 3:03:37 PM

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If it looks like bull, smells like bull and sounds like bull, its bull shit. But if you have to be sure, run a dna analysis. Or just block them and report them as spam.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 3:16:47 PM

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quote:

ass1 wrote: i am not sure here, but maybe i am going crazy.

It seems you are, yes, though in an easily-curable way.

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The past few months i have had many so-called Dommes or Mistresses contacting me that are either living in Africa (usually Ghana or Nigeria) or visiting, although their profile says the USA. Doesn't that strike anyone as rather peculiar?

No. Receiving obvious scams in one's inbox is an everyday part of life on the internet.
Report them as scams.

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Also, there are plenty of new, very beautiful young women joining as dominant females but asking for a boyfriend. While i chat with them, they don't seem to know anything about bdsm. They always tell you to join a paysite in order for you to be able to see them. Is this site now full of scam artists?

Not `full of', no, but there are lots of them around.

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Are they true Dommes...

No.

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... or simply models pretending to be what they aren't?

Most likely not. If I were a scammer, I wouldn't use my own photo and I doubt that even they are that stupid. Hit the "report profile" button on their profile.

beeble.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 4:37:24 PM

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Welcome to the world of SPAM and SCAM... Press Delete, and treat them with a big Ignore.
Don't answer back.

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:01:49 PM

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You know, I was just discussing something like this with my sister yesterday. We were talking about how many men online seem to only want to talk about sex and ask for nudie pics, instead of acting like a decent human being... So I'm gonna be a scam artist now too

From now on if a guy wants to see a nudie pic of me, he has to deposit money into my paypal account...how much he deposits will determine what kind of pic he gets! What do think? Seems like a good business to me!

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RE: Are They Models or Dommes? - 12/23/2008 9:04:14 PM

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So wait, Bill Gates isn't going to give me five dollars and the Gap isn't giving me free jeans? WTF.

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