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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

It's funny, in the last two years or so that I've been on this site, I've looked at a million profiles. At least half of them have had something to the effect of 'NO ONE LINERS (as if they would listen!!)OR FORM LETTERS OR THIS OR THAT,' referring to the plethora of goofball male submissives who apparently just cut and paste Dommes in an attempt to email every single Dominant woman in a 3000 mile radius.

Even if this wasn't explicitly stated in a woman's profile, common sense dictates that if you'd like to connect with someone on some level, it's good to make it a point to stand out and hopefully touch upon something that makes them want to get to know you better.

I know, I'm onto some Nobel Prize winning research here.(goodluck with that laddie)

So In these two years, I've written probably a dozen women who I felt it would be worth investing some time and effort to get to know. I'm very selective in who I write and am looking for something special, not trying to machine gun out a bunch of crap in the hopes that someone will respond and then touch my ding ding.(so you arent into form letters smirks )

I try and tailor each correspondence to what they had written in their profile, to show where we might be compatible, or where we seem similar in a non D/s sense.

Rarely do I even discuss the BDSM component in my introduction, as I feel it will be something that will develop if the chemistry is right.

So of the dozen to 15 introductory letters tat I've written in my two years, I've gotten a response to one of them.(that 50%)

Not fell madly in love, dated and broken up with one.(am sorry to hear that)


I wrote this about a year or so ago and since then my percentages have improved, but not by much. One thing I've gotten a bit of negative feedback from was my calling professionals the scourge of the Earth, that's not my opinion, just an exageration of what I seem to see on these message boards and sites. I like professional Dommes, my dream would be to marry one so when we filed income taxes we could write off sex toys and leather outfits. How cool is that?(Again I hope your dream cums true)

Hello SlaveBlutarsky,

Ive seen you on the forum,
and always enjoyed your contribution.
I know it's not easy to find someone,
but I'm amazed at your experiance.

There are Real once out there,
with a good set of brains blutarsky.

I wish you enough.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`