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RE: Breath Control - 12/24/2008 5:21:00 PM

JRiddle

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For me, breath play is similar to walking up to the edge of a cliff. How close is still safe? Either way, I stay well away from the edge.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/25/2008 1:34:03 PM

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I recently had an experience that went slightly wrong and left me convulsing. Fortunately Stephen is trained in first aid and was able to deal with the situation without having to call an ambulance. Has that put me off breathplay? not at all, though it has made me understand how easily this kind of play can go wrong.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/25/2008 8:27:42 PM

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Greetings A/all

out of an other topic ( physical control ) IronBear ''reminded'' me that breath control is one of my kinks. It really do turn me on. Whenever i have the chance to practice this kink, i just feel great after it and it is a way to put all my trust in the hands of my Dom.

However i don't practice it with the first comer. It has to be safely done and with a well trained person. i have been trained to apply it and receive it, so i know when it is safe or not and when i am about to go to sleep. i am also aware that this can result into some medical issues.

What do you think about Breath control ? Does it turn you on/off ? Did you ever tried it ?

Dom/Domme/Master/submissive/slave , i want to know what it does to you.....

I love it, in as much as it involves daddy with his hands wrapped tightly around my throat as he is above me slamming into me harder and faster. I cum so hard this way!

Mmmmm,
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RE: Breath Control - 12/25/2008 8:50:16 PM

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While I enjoy the sensation of his hand wrapped around my throat, I panic very quickly if deprived of air flow, so I've avoided this type of play. It just plain scares me.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/26/2008 4:51:50 AM

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I love a rather lame form of breathplay which is simply a hand covering my mouth.I also don't mind having my nose pinched off either as long as it is only for a couple of seconds.But choking is out as is bagging.Clamp a hand across my mouth and i am in instant subspace.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/26/2008 6:35:32 AM

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RE: Breath Control - 12/26/2008 8:30:53 AM

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I love Breath Control....I find it very very exciting....I also like the hand over mouth method
some other ways are fun too....I had one boy that even build a tube like device, that was fun to play with......I always knew when he had enough, cuz he would stop struggling so much and his cock would be rock hard!!

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RE: Breath Control - 12/26/2008 7:36:33 PM

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I have recently experienced breath control and can't believe the feeling it gives me..it scares me but i trust the person who is doing it completely. Wouldn't dream of letting someone new try it on me though...it is all about the trust.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/26/2008 7:46:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Feliciasub

What do you think about Breath control ? Does it turn you on/off ? Did you ever tried it ?

Dom/Domme/Master/submissive/slave , i want to know what it does to you.....

I've never really done it much besides just holding my breath for someone till he told me to release it. It was fun and kind of intense and gave me a weird combination feeling of relaxed and exhilerated at the same time. And the mental aspect of someone controlling when I get to take my next breath is very hot. It was enough to make me want to go into it on a more serious level, like having my mouth and nose covered with a hand, or having my throat squeezed for a minute or two. Then I did some reading on it. It was a Jay Wiseman (spelling?) piece. After reading that, I will most likely never experiment with it again, on any level.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 12:21:16 AM

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i LOVE breath control play. i have only ever trusted two Masters to do this as they were as fully aware of the risks as i am.

The biggest issue about breath control play is not taking it seriously. Even though play may not get to the point where the sub passes out - there is always the risk of a clot forming anywhere in there body and stopping the heart. Always make sure you play with someone who is fully trained in CPR.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 1:04:09 AM

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I have sessioned with 2 deep sea divers, in the past. With an avid interest in breathplay lol

I facesat them for what seemed an eternity, obviously they did not disclose their little secret until afterwards, I worried when they did not flinch after 2 minutes.

Breathplay, is one of the enjoyable activities, that converted me from SSC to RACK, I love it!

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 8:19:05 AM

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i absolutely adore breath play.. i tend to hold my breath anyway when i orgasm so losing my breath when his hands are around my throat just gets me there faster..

i will say though that i prefer to have the carotid blow flow cut off rather than the air flow.. ive discussed this on several occasions with others and it seems to be about half and half for preference.. for me, losing that blood flow makes me feel light and airy and brings about pure bliss way before unconciousness.. mmmm

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 12:54:54 PM

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I use a mixture of breathplay and the threat of loss of air/blood flow by tightening my fingers around a submissive's throat with my palm pressed more against the artery than across the throat, though it is pressed there. I found with my last two submissives that this alone seemed to heighten the stimulation and their orgasm. With several submissives, I have found it to be particularly effective when I was behind them, pushed deep inside either their cunt or ass and then, press the arm I had against their throat against their throat a bit tighter for a bit when they were close to cumming.

As someone noted, with the right person, it is as much a matter of knowing they could...and might indeed do so...as the act itself. As a healthcare professional, I balk at playing with it as far as I have seen some do and yet, I play it much further than I did with my first submissive. I am aware of the risks and so avoid doing it at a point where it could not be stopped easily and I avoid putting a submissive in a position where she could do it to herself with me unaware of it.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 3:53:29 PM

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Mostly I think..we just cum in time and release the throat....before she sub/slaves sufficates...pure luck ( << a joke)

My previous slave girl..loved it. Didn't need much..and her face turned red. First I thought..I was to rough...but we kept talking (well I..she couldn't) and having eye contact and she signaled it was ok.
It took some time...to learn the limits...ad there was a point..it was ok for me..but she said she could handle more. But we agreed it was enough. HEr health is way more important then anything else.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/27/2008 6:44:15 PM

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I do also enjoy the sensation of having Master's hands on my throat during play. However, holding my breath for any given amount of time makes me panic a LOT. I've had a few bad experiences as well that only serve to make it worse. Sigh. I would like to get over my fear of not breathing but im not sure where to begin.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/28/2008 12:32:55 AM

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I love it and enjoy it often. Autoerotic asphyxia and bagging are big turn ons for me.I have also been drowned by a Dom and that was a wonderful experience as well.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/28/2008 1:41:18 PM

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I personally adore breath play.

We are aware of the risks.. and it still "does it" for us.

Few things are as lovely as having my hands around her neck, watching her struggle, or watching her gasp in air.

I also love to kiss her deeply with sealed lips, and then hold her nose for a few seconds.

The struggling and the sounds that come from her are just music to my ears.

*happy sighs*

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RE: Breath Control - 12/28/2008 2:56:35 PM

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I like breath play, but not all forms of it. I've came close once to passing out and it was very interesting feeling and hearing the changes around me as I was about to slip, but just before I slipped I was allowed to breathe. Sir and I did breath play together for the first time the other week and it was wonderful. His form was different compared to what I had done before and I loved it. Nothing more wonderful than someone covering your mouth and nose and looking into your eyes while they touch and caress your body.

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RE: Breath Control - 12/28/2008 4:20:52 PM

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maybe it is just me but i have to breath oxygen as much as i can and it supports my life

i am on 24/7 liquid oxygen and if i did not have it i freak out and almost black out

but then if those who get off on it then that is totally up to them

i just do not take this one simple thing i have in my life for granted

i guess if one does not have to go through what i am going through on a constant basis they would not have any idea of what i am talking about

also they are wanting to submit me as i have stated in my profile for a double lung transplant and possibly a heart transplant

the heart transplant they will not know till i am opened up

Dear snappykappy
if i were to have more severe breathing problems then i do then i am sure my love for breath play would diminish....i have asthma and this can be quite troublesome under certain weather conditions and when there is high levels of pollutants and or house dust. i use the usual inhalants and then to all intents and purposes i breath normally so breath play is simply that: a kink and play.
good to see you post my friend and send you blessings and thank you for yours.

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