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LadyPact -> RE: CBT Techniques (12/30/2008 3:23:21 AM)
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This is very much what a few of us have been saying all along. It would be My opinion that a good Dominant does make these investments. Yes, that does include time, effort, and sometimes travel. I'd hope that nobody thinks that those of us who have spent literally years at our crafts, did so because everything was handed to us. Believe it or not, there was some actual work involved.
No one here has said that we wouldn't be willing to help anyone the same way as we've been helped, but none of us did it by sitting on our duffs. Maybe those days have changed since the net came along. I really don't think they have. That's why people are still doing demos and having events. It could be that the old fashioned way, is still a pretty good way of doing things.
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ORIGINAL: Usako
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Usako, if this thread makes you so sad, why didn't *you* offer any advice?
I don't have any, I'm a novice.
Okay, Usako, that's fair enough. I'll make you a deal: When you've spent thousands of dollars, like I have, on toys, books, and classes, and taken dozens of hours of your personal time to become the very best domina you know how, like I have, we will look forward to seeing you post lengthy replies on these boards, detailing every bit of information that new submissive male posters come on the boards asking for. The emails will probably take you an hour or so each to write, but since you think it's a pity that people posting can't get the information they want simply because they are demanding it, I'm sure you'll be willing to do the subs this service.
A few folks have asked in the course of this thread what are these forums for if not to learn. Well, they are, but they're not the only place. For some things, it's not even the best place. Though people haven't liked it much, I still say for certain subjects, it might not even be the safest place.
Usako, that doesn't mean don't ask questions. It means sometimes, you might get your answers on the other side. If they happen to come from Me, they probably aren't going to come in the form of links to websites. It's just not the way I do things.
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