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SteveAndJaz -> RE: How to deep throat? (12/31/2008 7:06:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: akisha

Positions play a part as well.

I find laying on my back with my head tipped back makes your throat into a straight line and Master can go straight down my throat. But if i'm kneeling or facing him so that his natural curve is going up my nose instead of down my throat it's a total no go.

Think of angles. if he's pointing up and your throat is going down it's going to be hard as hell to get the two to go together effectively. Not impossible but a hell of a lot harder.

Laying on the bed on my back with my head tilted over the edge and him standing works great as does 69 with him on top. OR even me laying on my back and him kneeling above my head works great.




I was wondering if someone was going to suggest this! Its the only way I can truly deep throat.

Got to say though, Steve loves me to gag!!




sassyj -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/7/2009 8:45:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: porcelain26
LOL...I didn't realize it was possible to breathe while deep throating. Or maybe I should say that I've just never figured out how hahahaha. But seriously, feeling a cock slide down the back of my throat is one of the most sensual sensations that I know of...I absolutely love it.


It's all about the breathing. You have to open your mouth but close your airway. And then you have to find the rhythm. The trick is to breath out when he thrusts in (keep your mouth open enough to let out air) and then breath in again when he thrusts out. If you're doing it right you can usually hear it. I usually do a thrust in-breath out, trust in-breath out, trust out-breath in, thrust out-breath in. If you can't breath don't panic, just focus on finding the rhythm. Every guy settles on a rhythm eventually.

Just thinking about deep throating gives me a mental orgasm. :P




strapddwn -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/9/2009 8:55:48 PM)

yes... i love deep throat-ing for my Husband... my Dom... yes, there are lots of times when i get the gag urge, but i have learned to relax it and control it since i cannot control the hard fact that his hands have a hold of my head and he is in complete control of how deeply i take him in and for how long... which   means there are times I go quite a long time without breathing. my mouth is, for those moments, only there for his absolute pleasure, this is what drives my abiliy to not gag or puke... add perspective, also, try counting or doing math in your head, it might help... ;)




PrincessEllie -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/10/2009 8:26:26 AM)

It is not as hard as it sounds to deep throat. It is mostly about teaching your gag reflex to not go off. Practice on veggies, and always always breathe through your nose.

Sadly, this does not always work. Sometimes a guy is too big. I cannot deepthroat my Dom because he does not fit into my throat, gag reflex or not. And because he blocks the airways to my nose so I cannot breathe at all.

But, practice! Even if he is big, you can at least get some of it in there...





T1981 -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/10/2009 8:29:28 AM)

I've actually recently found something that is helping me learn how to deep throat - and that is simple cock-choking. He takes me down as deep as I can go (even if it's uncomfertable) and holds me there for a count of however many seconds. We started with 15 seconds, and now I can take over 30 seconds without too much of a problem. (Although I'm finding 40 seconds tends to get me struggling, which is part of the fun, I suppose!)




HisPrincess05 -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 7:06:53 AM)

DEEP THROAT.... something I have learned to do over a period of time.  First things First, you must learn to relax your throat- when you feel the gag just relax.  Making sure when you are with your dom please do not eat before if you expect he will make you deep throat because vomiting up on his cock is not pretty.  My dom is very big (i tease him because he is like a 20oz coke bottle) and not I can take it all down my throat to his balls without vomiting or gagging. 

Good luck!




Petruchio -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 7:42:06 AM)

>He wants me to practice when He is not around too.

I can help you there! (wink)




idroolchicksrule -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 7:44:58 AM)

*kinda off subject, but funny
i had an ex girlfriend in highschool say that deep throating me was more like "deep lipping"




unownedredhead -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 7:57:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu, .........I put it in my mouth as far as I was comfortably able and then just a little further, and held it there for a few minutes......


I held it there for a few minutes?????   LOL and how was death?  Is there not a rule?  3min without air, 3days without water, 3 wks without food?  LOL




DesFIP -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 2:45:15 PM)

Does he say he doesn't want you to gag? Because some guys get off on us gagging and doing it anyway. You might find it easier if you are lying on your back on the bed with your head hanging over the edge. In this position the penis goes straight down the throat.

But don't eat for some hours before, lessens the chance of vomiting.




aravain -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 2:48:32 PM)

~FR~

Don't forget that a 69 position is also a way to make the curve of your throat, and the curve of his cock, work for you.




allthatjaz -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 2:51:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Does he say he doesn't want you to gag? Because some guys get off on us gagging and doing it anyway. You might find it easier if you are lying on your back on the bed with your head hanging over the edge. In this position the penis goes straight down the throat.

But don't eat for some hours before, lessens the chance of vomiting.


Like I said before, S loves me to gag and I kind of get off on that too. He says that gagging feels similar to me having an intense orgasm.




BLGirl -> RE: How to deep throat? (1/27/2009 4:43:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jen182

i am talking to a Dom who says He likes it when a girl can deep throat Him, i have tried in the past but never been able to. He says He will teach me, but He wants me to practice when He is not around too. can Aanyone give me tips/tricks on how to do this?
-jen-


As I have said previously, I have the problem of thickness with Daddy. What I find helpful is taking him as far as I can and then simply move my throat up and down on him in a swallowing motion, it drives him wild. It isn't necessarily about the length of time he is there, it's more about the repetition of the movement.
 
Helpfully,
BLGirl




sabis -> RE: How to deep throat? (2/8/2009 9:10:00 AM)

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Deep throat... my favorite topic. :)

When I decided that it was really, deeply, personally important to learn to deep-throat well, I started practicing on a daily basis. Find a towel, a bowl, a dildo, a kitchen timer, and a blank bit of wall space.  (I kneel on our bed and use the headboard / wall area )  For the dildo, I purchased this:  Model #0271-05: "The Realistic" by Doc Johnson (I can't recommend them strongly enough).  For me, having an object that was truly cock shaped helped - you need to get used to the head itself.  Brace the dildo against the wall, and start working it into your throat. Do so for 5 minutes. (yes, you're going to puke. that's what the towel and the bowl are for. Wipe your mouth and get back to work.) I did that for a week, then gradually increased the time, bit by bit. I do NOT recommend vegetables or food items - far too easy for them to break off and choke you, as another poster mentioned.

When the throat and jaw muscles get tired, they relax down, and the mouth and throat opening closes. So you have to strengthen those muscles, which in general, haven't gotten much of a workout most of your life. It's like learning any new skill: practice, practice, practice.  At this point, i can generally perform deep throat oral service in nearly any physical position for about 30 to 45 minutes before my jaw starts getting sore and weakens. There are also exercises you can do while you're on your morning commute or in the shower. Practice lifting your palate and dropping your tongue - to do so, make the 'aaaah' expression (not the noise, just the movement).

The only negative to extended oral cockworship that i have noticed is that deepthroating for the past 8 years has changed my vocal range. I used to be a high soprano. Now I'm an alto. I can't sing as well as I used to. After I've been training, my voice is much softer and more husky.

Anyone *CAN* get over a gag reflex if it's important enough to them personally to do so.  My gag reflex was *horrible* - I had a hard time swallowing large bites of food or pills. It takes work, and it takes wanting it, and it takes patience. 

In His service,

~sabis
Owned by Cumulus




Sfortzando -> RE: How to deep throat? (2/10/2009 10:15:09 PM)

I'm a lesbian, but my gay husband has mentioned swallowing is key. Not only does it help suppress the gag reflex, but it feels damn good ;)




MrRodgers -> RE: How to deep throat? (2/10/2009 10:27:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jen182

utopicus - solo, He suggested hot dogs...or sausages.....how do i exersize and stop the urge?

Yes, and once 'mastered' test yourself with a banana...peeled of course. Take a good deep breath and hold it then down it goes. He should be telling you this during training.




marysdream -> RE: How to deep throat? (2/24/2009 7:21:24 PM)

please be careful that this may be the only thing he is interested in, and do not do anything you are not comfortable with
you can say no!
always
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MistressGirl23 -> RE: How to deep throat? (2/24/2009 8:29:26 PM)

Relax the back of your throat, where the muscles are.  If you do this there will not be a gag relex...just pretend that the cock is supposed to be in the back of your throat....that way u will not have to fight your gag reflex.  Hope that helps...that's the way I do it...anyhow.




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