DesFIP
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Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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None at all unless you're trying to end the relationship. Assuming you're talking corporal punishment. However if you think she doesn't understand an issue, then telling her to research it and write you about it can be efficacious. In general, keeping a LDR thriving is enough of a struggle that when you add "you screwed up and need to be punished" to it is a good way of making the sub decide it's more trouble than it's worth. Besides, what punishment will you accept when you are the one who screws up, mishears, misunderstands, doesn't pay attention?
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