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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/26/2008 7:53:14 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		They are just words!  It's the context that they are put in that will motivate positive thoughts and feelings as compared to negative. 

Those words in the context of the concentration camps of WWII is not something that will give me a warm fuzzy feeling all over.

But yet those same words in the context of my girls stripped naked laying bloody on the floor of my dungeon... well if I smoked.. I would of lite one up and sigh with satisfaction.

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 4:48:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		There is no argument from me that words create feelings and they don’t necessarily create feelings related with the definition. Sometimes we liberate words from our endless definition debates. Every porn book uses certain words…scintillating, palpitating, voluptuous, velvet like and so on. Words can be movie-like.

Now whether I find BDSM to be twisted and evil is another question. Personally, I don’t. It can be sparkling, open and in the bright lights of an intimate and compassionate relationship. It can be apple pie and ice cream. ( Francesinha for Bita in Portugal :)

A girl I know told me she used to drive home from BDSM play feeling nothing but remorse with tears running down her face, but now she feels only happiness, pride and contentment. She is in the right situation for her. It is not twisted and evil even though the pain and torture may be there.  

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 5:39:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Having been drawn to the edge of this thread by the scent of blood, now circling in the shadows the hunter silently waits knowing the bait he smells will draw a juicy, wet and excited sweet thing within range soon. 


her slow dance in the darkness is seduced into the clearing by the scent of raw blood passion. her cunt pulses to the  long remembered rhythum of the hunters breath and drips joy onto the stillness of the forest floor. 

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 8:15:38 AM   
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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 8:31:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

They are just words!  It's the context that they are put in that will motivate positive thoughts and feelings as compared to negative. 
 True that.. but whispering the word potato in my ear doesn't do quite the same thing as whispering the word pain.

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Those words in the context of the concentration camps of WWII is not something that will give me a warm fuzzy feeling all over.
 Completely understandable.. as this is a BDSM based board, I tend to stick more with weapons of ass destruction as opposed to mass destruction.  
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But yet those same words in the context of my girls stripped naked laying bloody on the floor of my dungeon... well if I smoked.. I would of lite one up and sigh with satisfaction.
 Exactly the scenario I was thinking of when I posted the OP. Inspiration for lusty, bawdy, hot/wet sex.. or flying into subspace during intense play .. or even an energy connection that feeds nothing less than our inner selves - or there doesn't have to be any goal at all involved - just spending time being and letting the actions and their created energy take us where they will. As one poster said, there's drama enough in life, but there is good drama and bad drama. The OP was meant to be the good kind.. that creates rather than tears down. Living a life which is relatively drama free leaves me lots of time to bring a differing atmosphere to the relationship that Himself and I share .. on occasion.. when he allows it or when he allows me to push the envelope. S'all good.  

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:02:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
True that.. but whispering the word potato in my ear doesn't do quite the same thing as whispering the word pain.



LOL!!  Get on Skype, baby, I'll give all new meaning to "potato". 

Those words you mentioned used to have a similar affect on me.  Now they cause me to turn away.  The memories and emotions they conjure are not what I'd call pleasant at this time. 

But potatoes...well, that's another story...


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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:05:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

They are just words!  It's the context that they are put in that will motivate positive thoughts and feelings as compared to negative. 
 True that.. but whispering the word potato in my ear doesn't do quite the same thing as whispering the word pain.


I'm thinking that a potato could become a pretty nasty weapon.  Stick it in a sock and just beat the fuck out of someone with it.  Brings a whole new meaning to the word potato.  *g*

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:16:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

hehe.. I had an amazing day with Himself. Light and fluffy, fun and silly and being a Pisces.. I need some balance to counter-act all that sweetness!


And thus the magic of bdsm, that amazing duality of dangling someone over the dark edge, threatening to plunge them into the depths of degredation, stripped of all humanity but knowing that if the lights were on, that dark abyss is only two inches deep.  That the pain is pleasure, the humiliation is desire, that the depravity is countered with care and concern.  And that duality runs the other way to, being in the midst of innocence and with a look reveal the darkness within, holding your little "girl's " hand walking through the circus and smiling, not because she is eating cotton candy but because you know you just shaved her cunt naked and are going to violate her later.

< Message edited by SimplyMichael -- 12/27/2008 9:17:38 AM >

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:20:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

They are just words!  It's the context that they are put in that will motivate positive thoughts and feelings as compared to negative. 
 True that.. but whispering the word potato in my ear doesn't do quite the same thing as whispering the word pain.


I'm thinking that a potato could become a pretty nasty weapon.  Stick it in a sock and just beat the fuck out of someone with it.  Brings a whole new meaning to the word potato.  *g*

Knight's Kyra
Okay, KOM is right - the first thing I thought of was a baked potato and how it would get pretty mushy if you put it in a sock and used it for a weapon. In that instance, context certainly matters!  edited to add: Great new pic, Kyra!

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:32:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
Okay, KOM is right - the first thing I thought of was a baked potato and how it would get pretty mushy if you put it in a sock and used it for a weapon. In that instance, context certainly matters!  edited to add: Great new pic, Kyra!


LOL   I bet using a baked potato might squick LA though.

Thank you, we took a few new pictures on Christmas Eve.  I hope you and Himself are enjoying Portugal and that you had a Merry Christmas.

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 9:35:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kyra!  I love the new pic!
 
Beating someone with a potato...hmmm, sounds like a thuddy toy!

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 11:28:23 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Kyra!  I love the new pic!
 
Beating someone with a potato...hmmm, sounds like a thuddy toy!



Yes she does look beautiful doesn't she... I took some new pics of her and alandra for their profiles and will be doing some more either today or tomorrow as well.

Now as far as the potato... I think Kyra is going to regret it.  BTW  in case someone is considering doing it.  I would suggest you put the potato into a small plastic bag before putting it into the sock.  and remember... potato's come in many different sizes. mmmmmmm I think we are going to have some fun with thuddy!!!!

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 12:52:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
You always see people insisting they are dark


*coughs*
 
the.dark.

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 12:53:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lots of talk of transmuting darkness to light as I scan through the posts; perhaps it is our inherent striving for balance....
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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/27/2008 2:16:53 PM   
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   Each of those words inspires in me some interestingly delicious thoughts  ...

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RE: Twisted, Evil, Pain, Tortured, Dark .... - 12/28/2008 12:35:19 AM   
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