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Play in Public and Private


Do you only play hard in private?
  6% (3)
Do you only play hard in public?
  2% (1)
Do you do play hard and soft in Public?
  17% (8)
Do you play hard and soft in Private
  20% (9)
Do you only play soft in private
  2% (1)
do you only play soft in public
  4% (2)
I only play in private
  20% (9)
I only play in public
  2% (1)
I play in both public and private
  24% (11)


Total Votes : 45
(last vote on : 12/30/2008 9:11:51 AM)
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Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:11:52 PM   
KnightofMists


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What kind of play do you do it public as opposed to private?  Do you play hard in public or do you play only that in private.

Now what is hard play or soft play is not universally defined.  It only matters if you consider it hard or soft whatever that might be.  And it really doesn't matter why you do X in private or Y in public.  Because frankly.. this poll doesn't care about that.  It is only interest in peoples perception of what they do in private as compare to public.

multiple choices are allowed!

< Message edited by KnightofMists -- 12/26/2008 8:14:17 PM >

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:13:26 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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I play hard in public, I play far more intimately and intensely in private. 

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:14:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dont only play hard in private. I play hard in public but it is obviously less intimate.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:14:43 PM   
marie2


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately I can't participate in this thread, as I've never played in public, but I did notice that both of your poll options are identical.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:17:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		The "public" aspect of it doesn't factor into how hard I play.  With the right bottom, I'll play just as intensely in public as I do privately.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:17:22 PM   
NormalOutside


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Status: offline 		I'm afraid with those poll options, you're not going to get anything close to scientific.  I don't even think you'll get any useful data at all, actually.  I could elaborate, but it contains at least 4 glaring problems, and I don't have an hour.

I'll just pick "only hard in private, soft, only hard" or something similar, because that seems to make the least sense.  :p


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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:18:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The "public" aspect of it doesn't factor into how hard I play.  With the right bottom, I'll play just as intensely in public as I do privately.


yes yes yes... but the poll doesn't care about that... there are those that only need to know...

"It is only interest in peoples perception of what they do in private as compare to public."

All the rest of that stuff is just well irrelevant it appears.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:22:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NormalOutside

.  I could elaborate,


oh please don't waste your time elaborating...  I have no doubt that knowing one's preference of playing hard or soft in public or private isn't going to get us any strking knowledge.. but well... maybe someone can draw some silly conclusions from the data anyways.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:26:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Since, apparently elaboration is not needed, wanted, or expected and no one gives a rat's ass, I'll just say that I answered the poll, with multiple choices. 

wee typo

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:32:02 PM   
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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:35:15 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		I'll elaborate on why there needs to be no elaboration. I asked in general bdsm the very same question but without the poll. There was a reason i asked it, but as i said in that thread i'll be fucked if i can remember what it was .
 
KoM didn't like my question and said it was pointless which is fairy snuff, after all many questions asked in cm are pretty pointless except to the person asking them.
 
All i can say about this is KoM i thought higher of you than to behave with such kindergarten mentality.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:35:29 PM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		ahem...Red....Do not forget the wee little waiver you signed to me giving me all video rights.....

psst...Did the fedex man bring you anything today?

Kali

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:41:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Adrian, I'd be happy to tell you my sordid details. 

Kali, as long as I can get you in the video frame, it's a deal. 
(ps.. no on the FedEx man play...  damn... sniffles) 

Misst, I'd be happy to go to your thread and elaborate, sweetie.    Wait, unless, of course, you don't want that, and if that's the case, I'll just go with my first response that I answered with multiple choices.  I'm confused. 

*decides to just walk out, shoulders slumped, since I obviously am impaired and don't know what I know anymore*

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:45:02 PM   
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uhm...We've had this discussion....i can not be held responsible for the blindness of the general population who is forced to look at me in your video.....
Damn Fedex man....When we made the deal He said something about wanting to tie someone up and beat them...Apparently, it was Him who wanted this done to Him. i think His request involved you and DB too.
Kali


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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:52:44 PM   
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I will have to poke you in the eye if you refer to yourself in this manner again.  Do you really want this? 

OK, so you believed the FedEx man was a Dom, looking to have his evil way with me?  In actuality, he was a do-me sub, who has yet to make his way to my place in a timely fashion?  That doesn't bode well for him if he wants his ass beat by me.  And yet somehow, he was also going to serve as the camera man while DB and I had some sordid, illicit scene, that you wanted for wank material?

My goodness, this is truly upsetting.  It smacks of crack-witchery though. 

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 8:57:40 PM   
Kalista07


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i have been duely scolded....i now knows my place.....

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(who will remain in crackwitch land)


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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 9:03:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

All i can say about this is KoM i thought higher of you than to behave with such kindergarten mentality.


I will try not to let your opinion keep me up tonight!

Regardless... I will carry on with my childhood mentality and continue to enjoy my girls and play as we desire be it hard, soft, hot, cold, rough, smooth, pain and pleasure as long as it brings us a smile in the end whatever the reasons might be.. since they are after all irrelevant to anyone else but us.

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 9:16:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

All i can say about this is KoM i thought higher of you than to behave with such kindergarten mentality.


I will try not to let your opinion keep me up tonight!

Regardless... I will carry on with my childhood mentality and continue to enjoy my girls and play as we desire be it hard, soft, hot, cold, rough, smooth, pain and pleasure as long as it brings us a smile in the end whatever the reasons might be.. since they are after all irrelevant to anyone else but us.


Well said, i applaud you.
But may i just add that rather than going so far as to start a thread to belittle someone, you could have just chosen not to respond to their question.
 

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 9:25:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kali, your place could be right here in my lap if you play your cards right, yanno?

*falls out laughing*

I just had to try to say that while trying to channel "Herb Tarleck" from WKRP in Cinncinati.  (Remember him?)  Ewwww.... how sleazy.  hehehe...

*smooches and runs off to bed*

*maybe he'll show tomorrow?  can you track it online?  what are you sending?*

*giggles at the possibilities* 

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RE: Play in Public and Private - 12/26/2008 10:17:55 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

you could have just chosen not to respond to their question.
 


Yes this is true.  But I made a different choice.

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