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RE: Where, why and how do you choose to play? - 12/28/2008 6:41:08 PM

spinninsweetness

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I dont know, honestly, why I play in clubs. I love it... perhaps it is slightly exhibitionist on my part, but only slightly because I dont get naked or even partly undressed. I dont even spend that much time watching others, well not too focussed as I take my glasses off at clubs and I cant see too well! I do love it though, and I have coughed up the cash to join a London club, and soon will be trying another down in Bournemouth, work permitting. This one is more interesting as it has private rooms, or areas, I dont know yet how private but from the website looks good.

To be honest I do more socialising on here and other sites than at the clubs, I usually go with one person or a group so perhaps I'm not approachable but still I dont seem to ever chat. But then I have only ever been to the bigger london clubs, loads of people there.

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RE: Where, why and how do you choose to play? - 12/28/2008 7:49:40 PM

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Mostly if a club has decent parking, decent lighting, decent air control for heating and ac, decent prices and decent equipment, I have no gripes with it. You can really get into a great scene with some pretty basic pieces of equipment. We can all wish for our perfect dungeon, but unless you're bankrolling it yourself or putting in real work to make it happen for all, shut up.

Mostly I want to change what the PEOPLE do- I wish they'd respect the quiet/aftercare areas more, I wish they'd respect the sound around a scene more (ie don't start cracking your whip in the middle of the floor for ten minutes when people are already well into their scenes), I wish heteros would stop griping about masturbating/sex/alcohol/ickiness at clubs while still pretending to be "edgy," and I wish they'd volunteer rather than griping in general.

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RE: Where, why and how do you choose to play? - 12/29/2008 8:37:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: marie2
That's some racket he's got going on.

I like to consider it more like an employee incentive program.

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