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Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 1:54:21 PM   
Notanaddict


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Status: offline 		ok.. lately I have been speaking to a couple of people online.. most of them really nice, and most of them men.. I'm gay and don't plan to play with men, but do not mind talking and sharing experiences.. what i dont get is

After talkin to this Male domme I gave him my msn... and we chatted for a while, maybe 30 minuttes... He then rekoned he owned me and got very aggressive.. what is THAT all about? I ahve also talked to some females and one other male that after talking for a very very short time, and not asking me anything claims i am owned by them that I am their pet, and that I have to change my profile to say that I am owned by them... If they had read my profile they would know I wasn't looking to be owned, and that I am already in a relationship..

Am i saying something wrong, or is these just examples of wierdos that are lurkin on the net?
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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:00:58 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Weirdos lurking on the net, just like in real life.
And very few bother to read profiles. Or they think they can change your mind or they think they can change your orientation.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:01:37 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Notanaddict
Am i saying something wrong, or is these just examples of wierdos that are lurkin on the net?


Welcome to the jungle...

Taggard

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:04:59 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Taggard - you like that song because of the "bring you to your knees" part, right?



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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:11:24 PM   
Tristan


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Status: offline 		Written words on msn provide very little feedback and very little real information. None of the nonverbal information is there. People have to make a lot of assumptions. There are a lot of wierdos online but there is also a lot of confusion and miscommunication especially without the nonverbal communication that occurs subconsciencely in r/l interactions.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:11:47 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Taggard - you like that song because of the "bring you to your knees" part, right?



But of course... That and NIN's Head Like a Hole...

Taggard

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:12:30 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Watch it--its a New Moon, wankers anonymous meets every evening---

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:15:31 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tristan

People have to make a lot of assumptions.



Damn straight. In fact, in just reading this one post, three men have incorrectly assumed they already own Notanaddict, and one very confused transexual has come to the understanding that KatyLied is sending him secret messages telling him to buy a frog.

I kid you not. The internet is a friggen' cesspool.

Taggard

< Message edited by TallDarkAndWitty -- 1/1/2006 2:16:10 PM >

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:27:34 PM   
DungeonSpain


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Status: offline 		Hi there from sunny Spain

We go online professionally (We own a Gothic Dungeon here in Spain) ... You cannot imagine the number of weirdo e-mails we receive ... from all over the world ... we have actually developed a sixth sense now ...even something like 'hi' can give us a clue.

Having said tat, the over whelming majority of people who are real players are lovely people ... so be optimistic but selective !

Regards

Jane and Stewart
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www.bondagedominationspain.com

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:28:51 PM   
Nendarye


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Status: offline 		Has happened to me alot. My best defense is that I tell them Master wants to talk to them...they go scurrying off reall fast...

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:32:21 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Katy! still telling Doms to go buy frogs? I thought we cured that! You bad girl!

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 2:56:21 PM   
Focus50


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From: Newcastle, Australia
Status: offline 		What's wrong is that you're presuming that wankers, trolls and wannabes are as sincere and honest as yourself when you say you just wanna talk and share experiences. Online is about the only place they'd ever dare "dominate" a sub and they don't care that you're gay, only that you're fem/sub; they just want you on your knees, bitch, NOW!

Don't waste your time on time-wasters! Ignore, block, delete etc. Even give 'em a spray yourself, if you've a mind to....

Hmmm, you're fem/sub, tall and just down the road.... But you're gay? Good onya! lol

Focus.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 3:07:58 PM   
justheather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Notanaddict


Am i saying something wrong, or is these just examples of wierdos that are lurkin on the net?


You got it, sister.
Tell us what she's won, Katy...

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 3:30:49 PM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		Don't be put off by the weirdos. Just like in the Vanilla world they are everywhere. Not all of us guys are that way and a lot of us enjoy talking to a lady so please don't be discouraged.

You might actually learn to enjoy getting some of those e-mails. They could be fun to play with if you feel evil........... After all you could practice your mind fuck techniques and then 'block' them from replying. No. Belay that. Then they would be on here complaining about YOU. Just block them and go on.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 4:19:09 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: justheather

Tell us what she's won, Katy...


A frog?


Taggard

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My slave: Kat (RainaVerene on the other side) and her website: RainaVerene.com

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 4:21:07 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		welcome to the internet world of wankers.... lots to go around... VENT about when it gets to you and just have to scream about it... but at the end... just dump them in the trash where they belong and move on to find what you really are looking for.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 4:49:23 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		I have come to love the word "wanker". It seems so befitting of the ones that the name fits. They are all over the place, kinky or vanilla.. Just put them on ignore and move on..I ahve gotten a few interesting ones myself..I am sure we all have stories.

Your prize is behind either, door #1, door #2, or door #3...

Respectfully,
sultry


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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 7:30:56 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Heather:
quote:

Tell us what she's won, Katy...


Well it sure ain't a tiara!
And don't be hating on the frog prince! Because I have one, made of terra cotta, he beams up at me from my coffee table.

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 8:42:53 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		You're meeting the internet TROLLS looking for cyber sex or hoping to have controll over you just to boost there egos. Others may speak with this aggressive behavior because they are taking a gamble that it will be a turn on or that's how you like being talked to. Regardless of what turns you on, it usually works after the two of you meet or know more of each other. Just learn to ignore the bull shit, delete and block as needed, and continue to move on. A right and good domme is out there for you to meet and have a little fun with.

What I laugh about the most is the idea of the "Cyber Collar." What in tarnations is a cyber collar? I'm guessing it's a concept that a so called Dom came up with because he/she didn't have the money to visit and place one on you. I've even heard of instances where the Dom ordered the sub they where only chatting with to go out and buy a collar and wear it so symbolize the Doms ownership of that sub. These "Cheap Doms" are not doms at all but just people full of shit.

< Message edited by FangsNfeet -- 1/1/2006 8:44:27 PM >

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RE: Whats up with this? - 1/1/2006 9:13:05 PM   
denika


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hmmmm wanker? are you adopting some of my terms?? *ss* Sod off is a good one as well as bint.. but that's a rather nasty term. Knackers in a knot sounds prettier than CBT *G*

denika

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