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Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 7:43:33 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		Do you generally play in your house, your partners house, hotel, professional dungeon, BDSM club? Just curious.
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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 7:48:20 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		As far as scenes go, we play at my house. I have a lot of room and all of my toys are here. I also have a bowflex exercise machine that comes in handy for bondage. Of course there are many things that can be done outside of the house, known only to us.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 7:54:31 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		I was collared for eight years to a Domme who has one of the best play spaces in the country. So mainly we played in her space. I have also played in a hotel & one other professional dungeon.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 8:23:53 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Any where I roam, where I wear my belt is home. Discipline time is 24/7 after all. But as for our play and kink enjoyment, most of our stuff is done at home. After all, we aren't into BDSM to show off but to satisfy our own needs and disieres. They are met just fine at home without having to travel off somewheres else. The good thing about visting the public scene and BDSM clubs is that you may learn new things and better safety techniques. Also, visiting the public now and then also helps in making friends who understand your lifestyle and can aide in counsel if and when needed. Another good thing about doing your scenes in the public is that you have more people around to help if an accident occured that required first aid or emergency care. Other than that, there's no reason why I should have to drive my sub just to tie up, blind fold, and flog her. However, sometimes the public is good to have around when you may want to publicly humiliate your sub.



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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 8:40:44 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: talmar

Do you generally play in your house, your partners house, hotel, professional dungeon, BDSM club? Just curious.


MY house or his house...for some reason, I just cant do public play in any way...and as for hotels....well, if I don't trust him enough to bring him to my house...I sure as hell will not trust him in a hotel :)

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 9:28:56 PM   
Rayne58


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From: Sydney Australia
Status: offline 		Mostly at home, though I have played once at a party and once at a friend's house.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 9:47:35 PM   
Sunshine119


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Status: offline 		We play at home. We are private people and knowledge of our D/s lifestyle is limited to a small number. Our "tools" are home. Neither of us are "joiners" and being highly monogamous, so we don't particularly like to see each other playing with others either.

The only reason we have for venturing out of our home to a play space is to watch and get new ideas and see them performed safely.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 9:59:59 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		At home mostly. Or at very small parties. There really is no reason for us to go to a dungeon since we aren't seeking more people to add to our relationship. They seem much like a meat market at times.
Yet, we still host a party every other month at a dungeon as well.

Just don't play there ourselves.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 10:20:22 PM   
Misstoyou


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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 10:55:33 PM   
passionfirenmo


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Status: offline 		My home works just fine,,,,
I have this great aspen pine log canopy bed,,,,ummm just use your imagination with this,,,,(sweet wicked smile)

Have fun Stay well,
passion

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/1/2006 11:56:26 PM   
peppermint379


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Status: offline 		We play at my home, his home, a friend's home, and public dungeons. However, the most wonderful place we played was outdoors during an event called In the Woods.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 12:04:01 AM   
Morgaine289


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Status: offline 		We are together most of the time and a lot of our interactions happens at home. But when we are outside there is also a lot happening, but as a rule unbeknownst to outsiders. I am not one for Parties. I come from a family with a very private attitude, because all of my family are in public occupations. I was out since it was a topic concerning being bisexual and bdsmler, but i had never fun concerning public display of sexuality. If we are together with friends in a private surrounding, it is another situation.

My love Michael tends toward the public scene, he has over 30 years in the lifestyle behind him and he played a lot in public.

We find our way with this situation, because unluckily he is strictly monogamous and all my ideas concerning doing something public with somebody else do not strike a chord with him. We will see what the future will bring.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 6:24:49 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: talmar
Do you generally play in your house, your partners house, hotel, professional dungeon, BDSM club? Just curious.

All of the above, sometimes all in one day :)

I like private, semi private and public play. I take the good elements of all of them and ignore the bad ones as best I can.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 6:43:59 AM   
MizSuz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: talmar

Do you generally play in your house, your partners house, hotel, professional dungeon, BDSM club? Just curious.



I haven't gone out to play in some time, although I usually enjoy it when I do. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, so an enthusiastic crowd can be a plus for me. I have my own dungeon and as soon as I'm done renovating it (I just moved into this new place) I'll probably start networking with the locals some.

In recent years I've been more private than anything else, but that could change with the wind.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 6:46:01 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		At his place or a hotel.
Eventually, when the right match for me comes along, we will include my place. M

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 6:48:03 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Do you generally play in your house, hotel, professional dungeon, BDSM club?


Yes!
Also in the car, on the beach, in elevators, outside, at the mall, in airplanes, on boats; wait we'll get some more coffee and think of some more places...


< Message edited by Mercnbeth -- 1/2/2006 7:24:38 AM >

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 9:14:28 AM   
HoosierScorpio


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Status: offline 		I have so many toys I can travel and still have enough to play at home. I have two bags I will take with me some times. I will got to play parties, to my house, to their house and dungeons I always have enough extra toys so one can be use for home and the portables taken with me.

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 10:53:15 AM   
DungeonSpain


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From: Benidorm, Spain
Status: offline 		Hi there

We run lots of group parties here in Spain, and cater for many singles and couples who play alongside us.

The strange thing is that in the four years or so that we have owned the dungeon, we have never played in it alone ...only in the bedroom, aren't folks strange ?

Regards from sunny Spain

Jane and Stewart
www.bondagedominationspain.com

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 12:55:28 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		well I play alot in my dungeon as well as my bedroom at home. Also played a in a variety of public venues and occassionaly at others peoples homes. and yes a hotel was a few times here and there... got to love the road trips *G* especially when heading to florida

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RE: Where do you play? - 1/2/2006 1:27:28 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

Yes!
Also in the car, on the beach, in elevators, outside, at the mall, in airplanes, on boats; wait we'll get some more coffee and think of some more places...
There's a word in the hood for you two, but I don't think I can call you that here, lol.
Glad you're having so much fun. M

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