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RE: Is it resonable to demand a slave to move when ... - 1/1/2009 2:25:32 PM

celticlord2112

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1) "it" has fully committed to you in discussions AND
2) "it" has indicated his living situation is not ideal AND
3) "it" has begun to show signs of flaunting his "equipment" in public

I have been in discussions with him since October; and he knows just now angry I am at him.

#1 and #3 are contradictory. If "he" were in truth "fully committed", said "flaunting" would not occur. Just because "he" says he's committed does not automatically make it so.

Also, you're angry, so your solution is for him to move in with you.....eh? My anger towards a slave takes more the form of "go away....go far FAR away."

If you're wanting him to move in because you want him close for your pleasure and enjoyment, that is well and good. Such a desire, however, does not comport well with a statement of being angry. If you're wanting him to move in because you want to watch him closely, that, while your choice, is, I suspect, likely to poison the relationship (lack of trust tends to do that).

Bottom line: You're pissed because he's stepping out on you. Either forgive him and figure out how best to move forward, or condemn him and cast him out of your life. Any other approach only perpetuates your own ill humor.

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RE: Is it resonable to demand a slave to move when ... - 1/2/2009 1:31:42 AM

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No I don't think it's reasonable because the relationship is clearly having problems. Fix those before you go through the hassle of moving him in just to move him out later. I don't think moving him in is going to fix anything.

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RE: Is it resonable to demand a slave to move when ... - 1/2/2009 7:00:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: MstrPBK

1) "it" has fully committed to you in discussions AND
2) "it" has indicated his living situation is not ideal AND
3) "it" has begun to show signs of flaunting his "equipment" in public

I have been in discussions with him since October; and he knows just now angry I am at him.

MstrPBK
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As a thought... I would wonder if it is Reasonable for the Master to want to demand this from this slave. I am thinking it might not be so wise or reasonable.

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RE: Is it resonable to demand a slave to move when ... - 1/2/2009 9:58:57 AM

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If i were angry with someone why in god's name would i want them living with me? Makes absolutely no damn sense....

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