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SilverStream0523 -> I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 11:34:26 AM)
My question is this; Can you use a cloth of some sort or a baby wipe or "wet ones" and place it either on a finger or some sort of other round blunt object and slide it into a persons rear to sort of clean them a bit before play or at any other point in time, or is this not safe to do? If no one here knows, can any of you point me in the right direction on where to find this out at? Thank you very much, ~ Silver ~

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 11:37:36 AM)
I'd suggest using just warm water and a towel, or an enema. 7 Threads on Anal Sex

MistressOfGa -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 11:42:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SilverStream0523 My question is this; Can you use a cloth of some sort or a baby wipe or "wet ones" and place it either on a finger or some sort of other round blunt object and slide it into a persons rear to sort of clean them a bit before play or at any other point in time, or is this not safe to do? If no one here knows, can any of you point me in the right direction on where to find this out at? Thank you very much, ~ Silver ~ Hi Silver, I would suggest you use an enema. Good luck to you.

SilverStream0523 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 11:53:37 AM)
But is it possible to do the other instead of an enima?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 12:10:14 PM)
Baby wipes are fine----check the ingredients on whatever kind of wipe you are using, so that you're not using any kind of antibacterial or alcohol that will irritate the tissues.

SilverStream0523 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 12:48:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Baby wipes are fine----check the ingredients on whatever kind of wipe you are using, so that you're not using any kind of antibacterial or alcohol that will irritate the tissues. Thankies! [;)][;)]

windchymes -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 1:15:32 PM)
Ditto that, the wipes are fine, unless you have an unforeseen allergy to something in them, but that could happen with anything. An enema is great if you have advance notice, but sometimes the opportunity for anal play arises unexpectedly. If you weren't prepared that way, then the baby wipe over the finger is a good substitute. chymes

obis -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 2:54:58 PM)
used on the exterior, baby wipes and such would be fine. I'd be wary of pushing them into the anus, just because they might tear and wind up being a hassle. I usually keep tissues and waterless antibacterial hand cleaner by the bed for cleaning up anything (going from anus to vagina is a big health no-no). All that said, if the possibility of getting any "stuff" on yourself totally freaks you out, it's safest just not to play in that area :)

snowgirlsub -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 5:55:37 PM)
You may want to consider using feminine wipes. They are made for sensitive skin and tend to be very gentile. Mystique makes a good one. Snow

DelRey -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 6:10:44 PM)
going to the beach ? gonna play in the sand ???? chances are, your gonna gets some on ya...

MHOO314 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 6:43:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I'd suggest using just warm water and a towel, or an enema. My assumption is this is after initial enema cleaning and I recommend baby wipes as these are made for that area, and yes you can do some slight insertion, but not very far for you could lose it--smiles

MistressOfGa -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/2/2006 11:09:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DelRey going to the beach ? gonna play in the sand ???? chances are, your gonna gets some on ya... LMAO!!! I love it <s>

Wolfie648 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/3/2006 1:28:31 AM)
quote: My question is this; Can you use a cloth of some sort or a baby wipe or "wet ones" and place it either on a finger or some sort of other round blunt object and slide it into a persons rear to sort of clean them a bit before play or at any other point in time, or is this not safe to do? If no one here knows, can any of you point me in the right direction on where to find this out at? Thank you very much, ~ Silver ~ You can edit _use_ (wipes) but I wouldn't recommend it. Enema is the way to go - and if you do I wouldn't recommend it more than once or twice a week unless you are willing to have an enema a day for the rest of your life. Also you want to wait an hour or so after the enema for the bodies' natural mucous membranes to replace the natural lube supplied (not usually nearly sufficient to completely replace additional lubricants). The wipes have chemicals on them, designed for non irritation or not who needs the chemicals? Especially internally. Externally no big deal, wash afterwards. Under normal circumstances, the lower bowel does not contain feces unless it is ready to remove said feces from the lower bowel (there are 3 anal sphincters; 2 at the entrance, and 1 higher up; to close off the lower bowel). That being said, if you are engaging in frequent anal sex, use a lube like KY or Astrogel. Human biology being what it is there may be a small remnant of ermm 'prior movements' but once everything is lubed and smoothed out per se use a kleenex to remove the unpleasant visuals and everything is good from then on. Don't use enemas if diareah (sic) is in the picture - the body is working it's best to recover it's natural biology and and enema will prevent or slow this process significantly. Don't engage in anal sex during. Not a die hard rule but a good general one to follow. Silicone lube is the worst for 'visuals', but some people like it - to each their own. If there seems to be a significant amount of material even if no need for evacuating seems to be required, I would recommend a higher fibre diet, exercise, and if both of those fail a visit to the doctor for professional consultation. I would suggest a thorough cleaning of the vaginal area after anal sex and after doing so, urinating to remove as much internal material as possible. Lube and sex have a way of spreading to cover the most area possible, regardless of position (although some are worse than others), cleaning then urninating (sooner rather than later) afterwards reduce the possibility of bladder infection. D (owner of j).

SilverStream0523 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/3/2006 6:30:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wolfie648 quote: My question is this; Can you use a cloth of some sort or a baby wipe or "wet ones" and place it either on a finger or some sort of other round blunt object and slide it into a persons rear to sort of clean them a bit before play or at any other point in time, or is this not safe to do? If no one here knows, can any of you point me in the right direction on where to find this out at? Thank you very much, ~ Silver ~ You can edit _use_ (wipes) but I wouldn't recommend it. Enema is the way to go - and if you do I wouldn't recommend it more than once or twice a week unless you are willing to have an enema a day for the rest of your life. Also you want to wait an hour or so after the enema for the bodies' natural mucous membranes to replace the natural lube supplied (not usually nearly sufficient to completely replace additional lubricants). The wipes have chemicals on them, designed for non irritation or not who needs the chemicals? Especially internally. Externally no big deal, wash afterwards. Under normal circumstances, the lower bowel does not contain feces unless it is ready to remove said feces from the lower bowel (there are 3 anal sphincters; 2 at the entrance, and 1 higher up; to close off the lower bowel). That being said, if you are engaging in frequent anal sex, use a lube like KY or Astrogel. Human biology being what it is there may be a small remnant of ermm 'prior movements' but once everything is lubed and smoothed out per se use a kleenex to remove the unpleasant visuals and everything is good from then on. Don't use enemas if diareah (sic) is in the picture - the body is working it's best to recover it's natural biology and and enema will prevent or slow this process significantly. Don't engage in anal sex during. Not a die hard rule but a good general one to follow. Silicone lube is the worst for 'visuals', but some people like it - to each their own. If there seems to be a significant amount of material even if no need for evacuating seems to be required, I would recommend a higher fibre diet, exercise, and if both of those fail a visit to the doctor for professional consultation. I would suggest a thorough cleaning of the vaginal area after anal sex and after doing so, urinating to remove as much internal material as possible. Lube and sex have a way of spreading to cover the most area possible, regardless of position (although some are worse than others), cleaning then urninating (sooner rather than later) afterwards reduce the possibility of bladder infection. D (owner of j). Thanks a lot for your very detailed and informative response. It was greatly appriciated. Peace and warmth, ~ Silver ~

Wolfie648 -> RE: I have a question pertaining to anal play. (1/4/2006 10:46:55 AM)
quote: Thanks a lot for your very detailed and informative response. It was greatly appriciated. Peace and warmth, ~ Silver ~ You're welcome :-) D (owner of j)

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