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Humiliation Hall of Fame - 12/31/2008 5:42:01 PM   
MsFlutter


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I've read the archives til my eyes went crossed - all the discussions of the different flavors of humiliation.
 
Set aside physical humiliation' (e.g. making fun of cock size, etc.) and focus on mental humiliation. Here is my question:
 
What has been said to you during a scene/playtime that just really dialed straight into the middle of your brain and lit you up (in a good way)?  What did the Domme say that will live in your head forever and give you a stiffy whenever you think about it?
 

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 12/31/2008 11:52:09 PM   
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When he placed his large hands along side my face, leaned forward, looking just at me, and he said simply..."Mine."  No humiliation involved, none needed...

I'll never forget that at one point in my life there was someone i loved and he actually loved me back.  It still gives me good bumps to think of those days with a smile.

Sweet dreams and Happy New Year's ya'll.

jiminie

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 12:27:39 AM   
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He said, 'Cum like the whore I know you are.'  That did it for me in such a delicious way ... fairly simple, yet timing and tone of voice can be everything.

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 1:11:36 PM   
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After a "let's count the lashes" beating (where I miscounted), where I was begging for him to reward me, he asked me why I thought I deserved it. I'd told him, rather indignantly, that I'd counted like he asked me to.

He leaned over me, putting his mouth right on my ear and said -"You counted badly." I could hear the amusement in his voice, that smug little smile playing on his lips. Knowing right then and there that he wasn't going to let me get away with the miscounting like he often does was so incredibly hot, that he was actually and truly paying attention to all of the ways I was messing up.

And there were several more during a webcam session with another couple and my husband topping me, but I'm getting fuzzy after ringing in the new year properly and will have to come back to this post....

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 1:12:38 PM   
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Does "Take it, bitch" ever work?

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 1:42:44 PM   
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"Good girl." 


*swoon*


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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 1:48:01 PM   
T1981


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Good girl is a good one. :)

During the webcam session, the couple helping top me said "Bad girl" after I'd failed a task. It was simple, but I'd never been told that before. Made me flush straight to my toes.

Another one was something I didn't get a chance to see till after the session - I was going over the IM conversation that the couple and my husband had during the session, and they had said, right before they put me through some pretty intense cock-choking, that they were "gonna make her choke on it." It's been a few weeks and I still get fluttery when I read that.

It's amazing how some of the simple things tend to stick with you - once, during a completely normal chat between my husband and I, when I was pestering him about something, he simply said "Silence, whore." I could not believe how immediate and involuntary the reaction was. Instant hot, sticky, and deliciously conflicting humuliation. Those are ones that just make me all gooey.

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/1/2009 1:48:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Does "Take it, bitch" ever work?



mmmm.... 'Take it for me, bitch' works quite well ... 


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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/3/2009 4:35:23 AM   
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Give me milk now--cow........(i do lactate)

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/3/2009 4:48:50 AM   
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"My Angel"

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/3/2009 7:00:29 AM   
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I have to say "good girl" sent me spiralling...too bad He was a badddd Dom in the end...

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/4/2009 7:31:01 AM   
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You did use the word humiliation here, which is my big turn on, so hearing a dominate instruct me to oink, squeal, grunt or root like the pig I am really gets me going.  Also them making me tell them what I am and how I deserve to be treated this way is a huge turn on.

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/4/2009 1:07:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JonieDoesU

You did use the word humiliation here, which is my big turn on, so hearing a dominate instruct me to oink, squeal, grunt or root like the pig I am really gets me going.  Also them making me tell them what I am and how I deserve to be treated this way is a huge turn on.


That sounds hot!  lol, yeah I really don't have one specific incident that is burned into my brain forever, but I had an ex-gf who introduced me to BDSM and it evolved into humiliation (because I dug it) from there and that post reminds me of her.  She would constantly reinforce "you deserve this" because she knew it hit my button in the right way. 

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/4/2009 1:22:52 PM   
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"You are just a hole for me and anyone else i choose, to make use of.  A toy to be used, that is all you are."  Something along those lines does it for me every time!  i love being told i am a good girl/slave/whore aswell, but can't really include that as it is not humilation to me.  Of course my absolute favourite, beyond anything else is hearing Him say "My gabrielle..." definite puddles everywhere...

hugs

gabrielle x  (who is now totally horny but not seeing Sir til tomorrow ARGGHHHH!)

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/4/2009 4:48:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoodFeathers
"Good girl." 
*swoon*


I think I may quite possibly be the only sub on the planet who dislikes "good girl"... I can't really explain why; I've stopped trying to figure it out and it's fortunately not part of our dynamic anyway. 

OTOH...

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Does "Take it, bitch" ever work?


Yes.


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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/7/2009 9:01:44 AM   
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Ms. Flutter,

i think for me it was a very honest thing that was said after a session with a Mistress who was using me as an oral slave.  She and i became good friends and trusted each other and after a session we were just talking and She mentioned that i had a very small penis.  She did not say so to humiliate me as part of a session....but sort of a matter-of-fact statement between friends.  this really stuck with me because it was not said for my benefit or as part of a fetish scene..She really felt that way.   of course it was a big turn on for me and has been ever since....i hope that makes sense.
tony

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/7/2009 11:12:22 AM   
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I become the 'stereotypical catty gay man' when someone tries to humiliate me in traditional methods... it's a very delicate subject :)

However, being told that I'm no better than a toy or something similar is fair game... but making fun of my physical qualities I get all pissed and mean and bitchy... to say the least!

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/9/2009 2:12:50 PM   
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"STRIP , GET ON YOUR KNEES , HEAD BACK,  TONGUE OUT"
talk about feeling like a whore but instantly hard

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/9/2009 6:39:15 PM   
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ickle


works for me

my ickle slave :D



*melts*

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RE: Humiliation Hall of Fame - 1/9/2009 9:54:30 PM   
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Not humiliation but "kiss me now princess" will make me weak... Once Master wrote a word at a time invisibly on my back. I had to do what he said from "reading" the letters. It was sooo hot... He wrote I want you to kiss me. Took almost 5 or 10 min. to write... all the while, I was getting sooooo hot... wow...

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