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T1981 -> RE: Finding a teacher (1/3/2009 4:02:09 AM)
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I looked at your profile and it's fairly bare -try expanding your profile using the interests lists that Collarme provides when you edit your profile. While it's not a fool proof way to get responses, it will help others to understand what your interests are and how you'd like to develop and explore your submissiveness. The world of BDSM covers ALOT of ground, and so it's good to try and figure out where you are as a reference point/starting line sort of thing.
If you haven't tried any of what's listed yet, that's okay, just mark down things you are curious about, or things you think you'd like to try - you can always go back and shuffle the list around later if you like. It's good to have lots of interests, but if you are using your profile to try and snag a playmate, the more information you can give them right off the bat (as long as it's safe and not personal such as an address or phone number) the better chance you have at finding what you'd like.
And yes, it's absolutely okay to admit you are a beginner. My husband and I are still fairly new to this whole scene (at least with the branching out aspect of collarme's community) and we've found that talking about it actually provides positive and helpful responses, so don't be afraid to share that! And Bondage Barbie also has a good suggestion - Pro's are certaintly more expensive, but many people have taken their first steps in BDSM with proffesionals as to help ease any nervouseness.
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