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Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 8:35:03 AM   
Whipswich


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Status: offline 		Ok, first i'm really sorry if there has already been a thread on this, however....
Obviously this is the opposite of orgasm control, and certainly in theory possible. I have seen some of it on Insex etc, but i would like to know a few things from those who have given them or recieved them. I have recently discussed it with who i assumed was a female sub, but who aroused (snigger) suspiscion when she said she had been forced to orgasm for 6 hours straight. So.....

a) is that even remotely possible? I can't see any way it is.

b) is it dangerous to attempt it for long periods? I had heard that it is.

Thanks for your help, its something i'd love to try with a sub, but i want to make sure i do it correctly and safely.
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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 8:45:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Six hours straight seems a bit unlikely. I've always read women on here say you'd have to be in the right emotional state of mind for that which kind of goes against the whole forced orgasm idea. How does anyone know they truly forced someone to orgasm anyway?. Can you force someone to eat biscuits and how could you tell they didn't want to eat biscuits? People are bound to disagree with me I'm the disagreeable type but I've often found the idea of forced orgasms nonsense, and hard to validate because people want things on a conscious and subconscious level. Also you'll be hard pushed to tell the difference between six hours of orgasm and six hours of torture because six hours of anything seems too much IMO.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 8:50:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with what you say, i don't think the 'forced' in the title necessarily means that they are forced against someones will, as i am of the opinion that its going to be very difficult to make someone sexually excited if they dont want to be. I think it's more in terms of making the orgasms more intense and the mindfuck of her not knowing when they will stop. It also looks damn humiliating as well!

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 9:17:43 AM   
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I think the man on hogtied with the oversized boots said it best "Imagine you've just come and the person won't stop rubbing the head of your dick." It becomes more a case of stimulating something that is over sensitive and so in essence it’s torture, which is fine but that isn't orgasm. Probably different for everyone though I suppose.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 9:37:34 AM   
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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 9:51:48 AM   
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"Imagine you've just come and the person won't stop rubbing the head of your dick." It becomes more a case of stimulating something that is over sensitive and so in essence it’s torture, which is fine but that isn't orgasm.


The good thing about being a woman, though, is that, unlike a man, you can come again right away, so what starts as torture will turn into sexual pleasure. It can lead to orgasm. I'm not sure whether it'd be safe (or possible) to force a woman to orgasm for 6 hours straight...I can't think of any form of stimulation that wouldn't lead to numbness after that amount of time. The typical weapon of choice, the hitachi, can start causing numbness after only a few minutes, so I doubt that anything longer than an hour would do much of anything. Your best gauge for whether it was safe to continue would be your woman, assuming you kept her hydrated and she didn't get a cramp or anything, I don't know why it wouldn't be safe.

  As far as it being "forced", it's about as "forced" as anything else in BDSM: yes, there is some element of force, but it's all consented to, really hot force. However, at some point, it's going to get way too intense, and she'll want it to stop, and if the stimulation is still working, then she'll keep coming, even if she doesn't want to.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:04:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah that's true although some say they can separate out the climax from the orgasm in men and so lead to more than one orgasm but I'm sceptical.
 
That would be like the holy grail.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:11:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Orgasms aren't about excitement necessarily, they can be considered a physical response from specific stimuli.  That's generally what people go for when they mean forced orgasm.

And yes, it's certainly possible.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:18:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am one of those multi people who can orgasm several times over a short period.  But,.. though I have played for several hours in one session, and played in several sessions per 24 hour period, and played in a few week long marathons of sex, with little sleep in between.. I think a 6 hr orgasm would lead to heart failure in my case.
Orgasms are intense.  Your heart races, you body tenses, muscles contract, sweat glands release.  I would probably be suffering from leg cramps at first.  That would lead to dimished arousal, more play would take my mind from the cramps, another orgasm would make it worse.
Nah.. if the intent is to take the joy out of orgasm, I wouldn't care to play.
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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:19:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks ExKat, i think in fairness when i heard it was dangerous i think they may have been talking about penetration for a long period, if the woman dries out it can tear. In terms of vibration it would be ok to go for longer, but i agree 6 hours is pushung it somewhat.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:30:28 AM   
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quote:

The typical weapon of choice, the hitachi
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ORIGINAL: ExKat

I'm with you, a "must have" item.  Love the weapon analogy.


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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:35:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		External stimulation through various means can cause orgasms as a physical response without the emotional one. We have gone too far a few times to the point where it was more uncomfortable than pleasurable, but that is a fine line and you don't necessarily know you are going to cross it on This one.  I can't go past 6-7 by manipulation personally. I would be curious on the person who had the 6 hour experience to see if it was continuous or repeated after the come down on each one. I do believe on the right person it could be done, but i would think that person would be rare.

As for unsafe. From personal experience I can say that pushing too far for me tends to lead to inflamation of the urethra often followed by a UTI. Definately not worth the pleasure to have to deal with that.

As for male orgasm, my partner often has what he calls anal orgasms during fisting. He describes it as all the feeling in an orgasm but with no squirt. He is then able to still have a typical orgasm after that.

All bodies are different and react in different ways. The greatest thing is to find the methods and activities that do it for you!

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 10:59:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		First I think forced orgasms is part of orgasm control. Because if I'm begging him to stop, and he isn't letting me, then he's still in control. Just as he is any time he decides to stimulate me to orgasm.

I don't know about 6 hours straight. And I hope I never have to find out. But by this point he has certain triggers set up which make it much easier for me to orgasm. Now obviously those wouldn't work if I had just had a car accident but under normal conditions he can induce one easily.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 12:08:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		generalization is dangerous.
 
exceptions are just that.
 
actors are actors--its pretty easy for a woman to fake an orgasm for the sake of entertainment.
 


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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 5:03:54 PM   
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quote:


 
Original: CatdeMedici
 
generalization is dangerous.
 
exceptions are just that.
 
actors are actors--its pretty easy for a woman to fake an orgasm for the sake of entertainment.



A woman can fake an orgasm for the sake of a relationship, a man can fake a relationship for the sake of an orgasm

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 5:35:07 PM   
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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 6:04:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Firstly, I agree that "forced" orgasms are simply another form of orgasm control. While not truly forced in a consensual relationship, I can well imagine a sub female begging "No more please Master, i'm exhausted!"
Secondly, a woman can have multiple orgasms, with little or no recovery time, whereas men need a lot more recovery time. I have known men to orgasm from anal stimulation, just as the other poster described, though usually they only cum once that way and need a bit of recovery to then cum the usual way.
Thirdly, the forced part might be if the Dominant maintains the stimulation beyond where it is pure pleasure to where it becomes both pain and pleasure. I tend to think that once it becomes all pain and pleasure is totally absent, the body won't actually yield a real orgasm (but she may choose to fake one if she thinks that will make the Dominant stop!).
Fourthly, I don't think the "6 hours straight" referred to continuous spasming orgasm. I just don't think that is physically possible. I agree with the poster who said they'd be in cardiac arrest by then! However, it could be possible to orgasm several times over a period of 6 hours, though after say the first 2 or 3, a bit of recovery time would probably be needed before notching the level up again. The Dominant would have to be very sensitive to the reactions to stimulation and increase and decrease the intensity to avoid numbness and to ramp up or down as appropriate. Master can happily "play me" for an hour when He wants to without any difficulty! However, as both of Us have back problems etc it gets too uncomfortable for either of Us to stay in position for much longer than that. The young and physically fit could probably hang in there for 6 hours, especially with the use of lube if things get dry. I have a vague feeling that Masters and Johnson did some initial research into continuous female orgasm years ago ...

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 6:19:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Master likes to force orgasms. This typically is after I've had 1-3 and I've become hyper-sensitive. He keeps up the stimulus, eventhough at this point I'm usually asking him to stop. Somewhere around 7, I start feeling like I can't breathe and I'm begging him to stop, screaming that I'm going to die. Master loves those scenes.

6 hours of that really would kill me.

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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 6:29:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou
As for unsafe. From personal experience I can say that pushing too far for me tends to lead to inflamation of the urethra often followed by a UTI. Definately not worth the pleasure to have to deal with that.



Ditto here - I experienced an absolutely awful UTI from repeated Hitachi use.  Never again!


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RE: Forced Orgasms - 1/1/2009 6:30:53 PM   
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As far as it being "forced", it's about as "forced" as anything else in BDSM: yes, there is some element of force, but it's all consented to, really hot force. However, at some point, it's going to get way too intense, and she'll want it to stop, and if the stimulation is still working, then she'll keep coming, even if she doesn't want to.


I just have to interject here. There is a point at which I personally can not cum anymore, Mr Hitachi or no Mr Hitachi. It just becomes over sensitive and painful and my body shuts off. However, this is only in relation to having a partner involved. When I was about 14, I was able to cum for hours on end by contracting my inner muscles. I went about my afternoon and evening, went to dinner with my Mom, and only stopped out of sheer exhaustion. I have often wondered if this was because it was an inner muscle contraction and not clitoral.

As a side note, the most times I ever came in one session was somewhere in the 60's. It was with a man who's penis head was pierced on the underside, and over the space of one hour or so. It must have rubbed in just the right place because it was a common occurrence for me to cum upwards of 30 times each time we had sex. It's never been repeated since... boo-hoo.

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