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hopelesslyInvo -> RE: Forced bi? (1/7/2009 4:12:04 PM)
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forced bi is about as often mistaken in meaning as domme is in pronunciation.
no one is forcing you to act other than yourself, there is no rape. being asked to and agreeing to participate bisexually in activities is no different than any other engagement, be it a massage, washing the dishes, or just 'not moving'.
in many cases, you need no willpower; i'd jump at the chance to perform many things [as everyone would] because they're satisfying to us, in and of themselves. other things which we may just be abstain about or completely dislike require more than our self indulgent desires, and in the case of something like a straight person being asked to perform in a bisexual manner there's only one thing that comes into play by my opinion; the strength of your resolve.
pretty much anyone into 'forced bi', 'forced femme', or 'forced anything' are already bi, cross dress, or do whatever the interest happens to be, and what they're really looking for is someone with similar interests to feed their real fetish, which is 'being told what to do'. others of course are looking for a comfortable hand to help them into uncomfortable territory, someone to help them out of the closet, yet the fact remains that they were already in the closet.
if you were asked/told/whatever to eat cardboard, it would be along the same lines of 'forced bi'. remaining inside the bounds of consenual they aren't forcing you to do anything, you are the one forcing yourself to do everything, and to do it for someone else.
that's my appeal in 'forced' scenarios. while i can't say i would enjoy tolerating things outside of my comfort zone too often, i find the idea of both being pushed, and doing things i may downright dislike or even loathe for someone else's sake to be... defining. if there's one thing i could say about my ideal partner, it's that i wouldn't want to be with someone afraid to push or test my bounds. i'm not sure if it's some self righteous enjoyment of feeling like i've made sacrifice, or if i like feeling victimized, or feel like i deserve pity, or if it's simply what people call 'growing', but that's my attraction to 'forced' scenarios. however, there are many things that can be 'forced', and thankfully forcing myself to act as though i were bisexual is only one of them, so in all likelihood i can avoid it since i tend to linger more endearingly to monogamy.
anyone wanting 'forced bi' in my opinion is simply bisexual already, wants to be told what to do, to pretend/roleplay that it isn't what they want, and has interest in poly/swinging/whatever you want to call it.
so, i have no answer to your question of 'scenarios' really, but there's plenty of that 'perspective' you were looking for. the sticking point i expect you will encounter is even if you can get passed the 'body', the 'voice' will undoubtedly make a big impact and get under your skin; any moans or communication from the male will probably serve as a more prominent and unignorable reminder to exactly what you've gotten yourself into than a dick in the mouth even would. another sticking point is since you're giving this forethought, you probably have the 'ideal male' image in your mind, but who you end up with could look as 'cute' as brad pitt, be as hairy as burt reynolds, or look like michael moore. you can almost expect your 'vision' to clash in some degree with whatever woman you serve.
it's all about limits/resolve/willpower. what you are willing to do for 1000 dollars, and what you are willing to do in a matter of life and death, is seldom going to have the same answers. you can 'almost' completely rest assured that the biggest interest 'she' has in 'forced' scenarios outside of simple 'kink enjoyments', is in finding out "how far will you go, and what exactly will you do for her". if you're already bi, you're not going very far out of your way for her, and that's fine, but i personally dislike embellishing things.
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