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COFitSlave -> Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 1:25:20 PM)

I mean this question in the literal sense (and not the x-rated, more the r-rated way)  how do some of you Mistresses feel about having a sub/slave kiss your ass?  I know it is one of my favorite rewards, but in the course of chatting over the years I know some Dominant females detest it.

Do you like it?  Why or why not?

Thank you for taking the time to consider my question...




tornaway -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 1:33:37 PM)

   Ok ,  I'll bite .    As an act unto itself , it's not particularly compelling to me .  But within the framework of whole body lovemaking , when all is a-tingle ,   it can be quite delicious .  As with kissing anywhere however ,  it's the fervor and passion of the kisser that can make the event so much more than simply a kiss or mouth contact .




COFitSlave -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 1:39:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tornaway

  Ok ,  I'll bite .   


Pun Intended?  (Sorry, I am a perpetual smart ass)




Reigna -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 1:56:19 PM)

Are you referring to analingus, or to the lips-on-the-buttocks thing? 




COFitSlave -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 2:05:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Reigna

Are you referring to analingus, or to the lips-on-the-buttocks thing? 


Lips on the buttocks (like I said, not the x-rated version)




BondageBarbieX -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 2:47:09 PM)

I love it and I love the x rated version too!




PeonForHer -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 2:53:12 PM)

I love analingus but would refuse to kiss buttocks.  This I feel to be a disgusting habit and shouldn't be allowed.




malloves69 -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 3:00:01 PM)

love licking my mistresses ass [:)] isnt that what its there for ? smile ...also her pussy too ...very yummy indeed when she gets all wet [:)] mal




Voodali -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 3:07:48 PM)

I enjoy ass cheek kissing as I enjoy any act of grovelling, but my anus is an exit only, and that goes for tongues too !  *shudders with Victorian prudery* 




MsStarlett -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 3:15:49 PM)

Peon, it's nice to have your Sass Monkey self back on the boards. 

I like it... as mentioned though, it's a REWARD not a right.  I detest subs whose only desire is to 'worship' my body.  I'm actually starting to think that's kind of creepy.  I don't want a session that is nothing but some strange man licking all over me like I'm a giant lollipop. 




MsFlutter -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 3:18:59 PM)

I think it's sweet. It's also always been a part of both vanilla and BDSM dynamics (at least in my world anyway).
 
I've lost count of all the males that have sworn to me that they consider it a perfect way to honor the Holder of the Paddle (their words not mine.)
 
Like anything else, its all about personal preference.





PeonForHer -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 4:12:57 PM)

I like it... as mentioned though, it's a REWARD not a right
 
Oh really?  That vies somewhat with your trying to convince Sodsta recently that he should get over his inhibitions regarding analingus.

I detest subs whose only desire is to 'worship' my body.  I'm actually starting to think that's kind of creepy.  I don't want a session that is nothing but some strange man licking all over me like I'm a giant lollipop. 
 
Ms S, I have a very strong feeling that a man's sub nature can be adapted and modified by his dominant.  My own has been, numerous times, and I don't think I'm that unusual.  I remember back in my early twenties that all I was into was body-worship.  Some key things happened that changed my mind later, but I can't, right now, pin down what those things were.  I know that they weren't particularly big or heavy psychological things, though.

There's an art to such modification of subs' desires, no doubt.  I'll let you know as soon as I can even begin to articulate it. 






LadyHibiscus -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 4:21:27 PM)

I agree, the ones who have never even MET me, but want to cover me in spit...  not appealing! 




RichieB -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 4:30:52 PM)

I like the X rated version better.


Diane




SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 4:58:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I agree, the ones who have never even MET me, but want to cover me in spit...  not appealing! 


When you describe it that way, yeah, not so appealing :)

My version of body worship doesn't involve spit, it's more of a lying in bed in the morning and sneaking under the covers to kiss, tickle and massage every inch of her body. More playful than ritualistic, but still worship nonetheless.

Editted to add:  And yes, that involves kissing the ass in an R rated way.




MsStarlett -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 5:01:51 PM)

Peon, you and I have spoken enough that I would greatly enjoy having you do as described in private.  However, as Lady H just mentioned, I don't want an opening email from an unknown sub begging to 'worship' me in this manner.  Intimate contact of any kind needs to be earned lest it cheapen the entire encounter.




OneMoreWaste -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 5:46:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett
I detest subs whose only desire is to 'worship' my body.  I'm actually starting to think that's kind of creepy.  I don't want a session that is nothing but some strange man licking all over me like I'm a giant lollipop. 


It's your own fault for looking so tasty! [8D]




MsStarlett -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 5:50:46 PM)

Thanks OMW.  I've got a photo shoot scheduled for tomorrow.  *eye roll*  After skipping the gym for two weeks and indulging in WAY to many holiday treats... I guess we'll see just how kissable my rear still looks tomorrow.  *sigh*




Vendaval -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 6:12:41 PM)

It is not high on my list of activities.  A better experience for me is a nice ass and lower back massage for the hard to reach places that get a workout at the gym.




beeble -> RE: Having your ass kissed? (1/3/2009 6:21:51 PM)

quote:

MsStarlett wrote:
I don't want a session that is nothing but some strange man licking all over me like I'm a giant lollipop.

Oh, please, Ms Starlett, come with me to the `What names do you use?' thread and be my Giant Lollipop!

Your little penny chew,

beeble.




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