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orgasms - 1/4/2009 12:52:25 PM   
lynn1947


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Status: offline 		After haven given up your right to orgasm without permission, how are you doing with this.Do you want to be denied permission more often?Is this making your orgasms more intense? 
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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 1:25:30 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I can't without Master's permission and I'm on orgasm restriction for one month which will be up on the 23rd. I can't say it makes my orgasms more intense..sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't and sometimes I can't orgasm at all. My orgasms all depend on my mood at the time, his mood at the time, if I'm enjoying what's happening to me during, etc...

It's all simply about the fact that he owns all of me...orgasms and all and that they are his to control in whatever way he wishes.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 1:56:46 PM   
wildster


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Status: offline 		Andyoumustenjoy master xxx    lovely princesss

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 3:12:54 PM   
CookieSlave


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Status: offline 		Sure this is neat and all... but bear in mind that if you do this and the relationship terminates for any reason, it can be REALLY HARD to get that back. It's not exactly like getting back on your horse.

So ya wanna know how I'm doing? it sucks, thanks for asking.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:02:53 PM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		Since Master took control of my orgasms, i have found that they are generally very intense when i am with Him. Occasionally He will give me permission to have a couple on my own, but they are never as intense and sometimes don't happen at all.

i am not worried about whether i will have difficulty if we separate because it is the idea of them being owned that gets me off. He allowed me to play with another Dominant at an event and that Man was able to make me orgasm with the same restrictions.

Even before i met him, the idea of not being allowed to come was very hot.




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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:03:03 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		For me it just makes me turn them off.  Can't orgasm because someone says so for a predetermined time?  Depends on how long.  Longer than a month I would probably decide it is too much bother to reclaim.
Went for 12 yrs without one.
Kyst

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:05:25 PM   
Trampledblue


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Status: offline 		lol 12 hours?  Is that a record for you?  

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:10:01 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		How did you get hours from yrs (years)?
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lol 12 hours?  Is that a record for you?  

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:10:44 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Speaking from a male POV, been there, done that and never again! Found when my orgasms were under another's control was an issue that is now off limits. Having them delayed for 1, 2 or 3 hours during play is fine and it just makes them more intense. Having them denied for days or weeks on end just results in a sharp decrease in drive and desire that only frustrates my dom and myself.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:11:45 PM   
Celene


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Status: offline 		It says 12 yrs. Not a record I'd like to hold.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 4:13:33 PM   
Trampledblue


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

How did you get hours from yrs (years)?
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: Trampledblue

lol 12 hours?  Is that a record for you?  



Huge brain fart, my bad, focused on football.  Eagles and Vikes!  Go Vikings!  :)

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 5:02:10 PM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		Different strokes (ha!) for different folks and all, but for me this would not be pretty.  Now, there have been times when I am on some sort of self-imposed orgasm denial, but mostly due to mundane influences such as extra long hours at work, illness, or other external drain on my time and energy.  Then my subconcious takes over and I get to come in my sleep. 

Which poses an interesting side question.  For those that have some sort of orgasm control/restriction imposed by Master, Dom, whatever, say this goes on for a while and you actually have one of those nocturnal orgasms, is that a problem?  Just curious...

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 5:02:56 PM   
mc1234


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Status: offline 		Having them controlled during play - fantastic.  Perhaps for a week if I'm not seeing him, ok ... it's what he wants.  But it won't make me cum more intensely when I am permitted to orgasm again. It just kinda puts me in a pissy mood and I can't sleep well ('cause I use them rather than ambien some nights).  

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 5:04:21 PM   
mc1234


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ORIGINAL: Trampledblue
Huge brain fart, my bad, focused on football.  Eagles and Vikes!  Go Vikings!  :)



Yea, sorry about that, trampled! 

(Eagles fan here)


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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 5:53:51 PM   
Sandyshores29718


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Status: offline 		I like having to ask to orgasm.  Makes them stronger oh..90% of the time. Right now I'm not allowed to masturbate without permission, so thats a light form of orgasm control.  For some people orgasm control is killer.  Now, do I want him to tell me no when Im begging for a release? Nooooooooooooooo! For me its hard enough to beg and if I'm doing so its cause I can no longer hold back.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 5:54:17 PM   
littlewonder


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quote:

or those that have some sort of orgasm control/restriction imposed by Master, Dom, whatever, say this goes on for a while and you actually have one of those nocturnal orgasms, is that a problem?  Just curious...


I've never had nocturnal orgasms so no. I always thought those were a male thing. I dunno.


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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 6:01:12 PM   
CatdeMedici


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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

Speaking from a male POV, been there, done that and never again! Found when my orgasms were under another's control was an issue that is now off limits. Having them delayed for 1, 2 or 3 hours during play is fine and it just makes them more intense. Having them denied for days or weeks on end just results in a sharp decrease in drive and desire that only frustrates my dom and myself.


I agree completely, why do I want to control a man's orgasms, for what? What I choose to have is so much more than an ejaculation, to focus on that IMHO demeans what I want to build.
 
If a sub is so focused on his erection that he can't get his "head" straight--he is not right for Me.

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 6:12:37 PM   
VampiresLair


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ORIGINAL: lynn1947

After haven given up your right to orgasm without permission, how are you doing with this.Do you want to be denied permission more often?Is this making your orgasms more intense? 


Fox asks for permission even during sex. He has to ask for permission to masturbate and then write a letter of thanks afterwards. Even though it isnt something that is constantly on his mind, that added control is something that reminds him who is in charge no matter when and where. As far as I know, he has not been having any trouble with this, but he isnt exactly being made to wait weeks or months at a time. Days, sometimes.

DV


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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 6:13:46 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		I don't know... but it seems like we are really talking about 2 different things here... denial and control. IMHO, control is the few hours during play and denial is the weeks and months and maybe days... I think the longer is hard... for me maybe impossible. But the hours,, OH MY the joy i find... AND it's not me controling them. So I don't get "in trouble" for cumming or not cuming... he allows it when he wants.. stops it before i get into 'trouble"

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RE: orgasms - 1/4/2009 6:24:34 PM   
herpreciouspet


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Status: offline 		i am presently in a chastity device with Mistress having a key, but she does not have the only key. It is a thrill for me to obey her, eventhough i have a key, i would not use it without her permission. The control that she has over me makes me feel so safe and cared for. 

my orgasms are far more intense in her presence.

< Message edited by herpreciouspet -- 1/4/2009 6:43:40 PM >

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