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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 5:48:46 PM   
Sandyshores29718


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Status: offline 		I perfer to be blindfolded most of the time to be honest.  It helps me relax and just let go.  Not having one on is also pretty nice at times....mmm nothing better than looking into his eyes while he holds my breath and takes from my body what he wants.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 5:57:19 PM   
nhite


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Status: offline 		so many refer to them as 'sensory deprivation' and i dont find they deprive you of senses at all.  yes they remove your sight and yes for some that HEIGHTENS the other senses

for me i also find they add the sensation of somethign being on my head where i dont usually wear anything so it keeps me VERY much more present to the fact i'm in a room and being annoyed by something....

want me to drop into subspace?  NO blindfold

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:18:18 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		Ok, I self impose closed eyes. Anyone else not need a blindfold to stay in the "dark"...

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:25:35 PM   
SirJohnMandevill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterLark

blindfold or not? why?


Yes or no, depending on whether I want her to know what's coming.

Last time we were together: Yes. I was whipping her from the rear, and for each stroke, she had to ask for the implement in either my "left" or "right" hand. What she didn't realize --  because she was blindfolded -- was that I used whichever toy I wanted, regardless of which hand she asked for...
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She has also told me being blindfolded heightens her sense of helplessness, so I plan to use it more in the future.

 Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:30:49 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Not hard really, just different strokes for different folks.. Some sub/slaves love to be vision restricted and some do not. Some Dominants insist on the use of a blindfold to help build a mental picture in the minds of their sub/save and to aid in increasing the feeling of helplesness and not knowing what and where will be done to them. Experiment and see what works best for you and yours.. 

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:36:10 PM   
redmeggyforhire


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Status: offline 		I love to blindfolded ... makes me so very apprehensive and horny


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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:41:57 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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Status: offline 		Blindfold, or more preferably a hood. I have a hard time relaxing and getting my mind to stop running at MACH 14, so removing external stimuli via a blindfold, gag, or whatever else inhibits my senses makes it more enjoyable for me.

When wearing a blindfold or hood, my mind slows down a great deal and also focuses on the sounds around me, trying to figure out my fate.


< Message edited by SlaveBlutarsky -- 1/4/2009 6:50:47 PM >

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:45:01 PM   
redmeggyforhire


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Status: offline 		the unknown ... what will happen next ... what is he doing ... what are those noises I can hear ....


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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:53:18 PM   
silkncarol


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Status: offline 		Depends on the mood.  If i'm playing in a public space it helps me to wear one so that i can focus on the sensations.....plus i like surprises!  
BUT....
Alot can be said for that eye contact.....having your hair grabbed and your head pulled back...looking into your Dominants eyes while they describe what they have planned for you......<shiver>

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 6:58:11 PM   
redmeggyforhire


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Status: offline 		For me a good Dom is one I can-t predict ,,, full of surprises ... blindfolded or not ... the blindfold is as much an accessory or tool as the whip or cane. The Dom is what matters really

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 7:57:09 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Blinfolds, hoods, masks, ......love them all. To have one sense taken away hightens the other senses. Very stimulating!

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 8:49:51 PM   
utopicus


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Status: offline 		Blindfold whenever I feel safe and protected.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/4/2009 9:07:29 PM   
DelilahDeb


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Status: offline 		Working with my subs, I like to use a blindfold for multiple reasons:

  • surprise factor
  • lighting in my play spaces/my need for enough light
  • oddly, as I thought about it, performance anxiety of a sort. When he's blindfolded, I'm not concerned about how I look when I'm working on him, and I can focus completely on exactly what he's feeling. If he's not blindfolded, I'm also thinking about what he's seeing, how my hair is getting into my eyes, etc.


On the occasions when I bottom, I want a blindfold! I adore to focus on the skin sensory input—my dentist long ago agreed with me that I stood in line twice when it came to nervous systems.

Lady Delilah Deb


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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 12:28:35 AM   
DomDG


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Status: offline 		Sometimes I love a blindfold to keep her guessing. But sometimes I want to see the passion, the lust the pain and submission as I play. So it depends on the scene.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 5:15:52 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Hate em.  I like watching what he's doing.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 5:47:31 AM   
kristileigh


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Status: offline 		Love them.  Unfortunately Master doesn't use them that much.

Oh well He is the boss.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 6:14:24 AM   
BondageBarbieX


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Status: offline 		I love blindfolds 

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 8:07:36 AM   
marie2


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Status: offline 		I don't like them.  The one time someone blindfolded me, I went into a severe panic.  It's still something I'd like to try again with someone who is aware of my issue with it, and who might take me there more carefully.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 8:09:25 AM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		I can't get to subspace without a blindfold. it helps me focus and eliminates sensory overload.

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RE: blindfold or not - 1/5/2009 8:29:27 AM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		I like blindfolds, and they aren't implemented nearly enough around here!  However, my whole house is pretty cavey to begin with when there aren't rugmonkeys about, I keep it pretty dark.  I shall leave some of my bandanas and scarves about and see what happens...(but I'm betting that Evil Fucker will just wet one end and smack me with it )

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