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slavemick63 -> Instadommes (1/4/2009 11:40:55 PM)
Seriously,is this site full of instadommes.Almost every 'Domme' I have contacted as asked for a tribute,amazon vouchers etc .Please,are their any true Dominant Goddesses out there.As a submissive male slave I am willing to give all to A True Goddess,that includes everything I own and earn as well as my body and soul.But please,why should I give money to a total stranger after just one email.It gives Dommes a bad name.

MstresMagick -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 12:00:54 AM)
Just because someone asks for a tribute, that doesn't make them an Insta-Domme. I've been in the scene over a decade, but this is one of the few sites where you can post free ads and urls, which is the only reason that I posted here at all. By that same token, there are far too many spammers and wannabes here. There has to be a way to sort out the serious ones, and a Domme doesn't have time to carry on a meaningful conversation with each applicant when she receives emails from two dozen new applicants every day. I am very lucky to have a slave/assistant to help. As he said "there is a never-ending stream", but most never make it past answering a few screening questions. Blessings & Good luck! M. Magick

WyldHrt -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 12:15:51 AM)
Right on time, the weekly "first post, fake/ no real Dommes on CM" thread, complete with the word Twue.... [:D] OP- understand that this is a free site, which means that sorting the wheat from the chaff is up to you. To answer your question, I don't know about "Goddesses", but there are many very real people here on both sides of the kneel. I suspect that you will be hearing from many of them shortly. Let the games begin....

MsWolfPrincess -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 12:19:32 AM)
Maybe you should take a look at the ones you have messaged and see if there is a pattern. I've never asked for gifts, money or any sort of tribute, except maybe a written one, and that is after I have taken someone as my sub and have spent some time training him.

slavemick63 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 1:10:11 AM)
Please to all you Twue Dommes,I am a in total respect to you,and understand that tributes are all part of being submissive.It is a slaves duty to offer all he can to his Goddess/Mistress/Domme,and that includes tributes,infact everything a slave has to offer.But after one email.Its just not good.

PanthersMom -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 1:15:49 AM)
you have a weird idea of what submission is my friend, it's not about giving tribute. it's about being the submissive partner in a relationship, serving your dominant as the two of you have negotiated, doing whatever you've agreed to do. i've been a dominant for many years and never once asked for tribute. does that mean i'm not a Domme? did i violate the Domme Union? PM

slavemick63 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 1:19:26 AM)
Panthersmom,believe me.I agree with you 100%.It is all about being submissive to your partner.

JustDarkness -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 1:21:57 AM)
Could some one tell me what is meant with Insta please?

mc1234 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:06:26 AM)
Insta = short for instant.

JustDarkness -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:09:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mc1234 Insta = short for instant. ah ok..like the coffee :P

Aileen1968 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:14:00 AM)
But I like my InstaDom. I just got him in the mail yesterday and boy is he fun. Hint...if you sprinkle water on him he grows bigger and bigger...

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:33:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 that tributes are all part of being submissive. LMAO.........Not in my world!

JustDarkness -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:44:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 that tributes are all part of being submissive. LMAO.........Not in my world! it is the reason people go poly More subs...more money....lol

thishereboi -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:44:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 Please to all you Twue Dommes,I am a in total respect to you,and understand that tributes are all part of being submissive.It is a slaves duty to offer all he can to his Goddess/Mistress/Domme,and that includes tributes,infact everything a slave has to offer.But after one email.Its just not good. No actually in my world, tributes have absolutely nothing to do with being a submissive. There are some women on this site who will require a tribute but not all of them do. Some will not read your email unless you send money first. There are also Pro Dommes on this site who will set up a session with you in real life and require a tribute for that. Notice I said set up a session where you go to her and pay for a period of time. To me that is much different than one saying I will not talk to you online unless you send me something first. I have no problems with Pro Dommes, there are a lot of men who want to serve and play but can't for whatever reason. The Pro gives them an outlet for that. I do have problems with the "prove your real by sending money and maybe I will email you back. So my advice on those kinds is to move on to the next one. Depending on the area you live in, I would suggest going to local events and munches and meet women in real life. I have found volunteering at things allows me to serve and shows people that I am serious about serving. It also allows me to meet more people and raises the chance that I will find a parter compatable with me.

colouredin -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:46:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 Please to all you Twue Dommes,I am a in total respect to you,and understand that tributes are all part of being submissive.It is a slaves duty to offer all he can to his Goddess/Mistress/Domme,and that includes tributes,infact everything a slave has to offer.But after one email.Its just not good. Actually nope, I have never 'tributed' anyone so its not part of being a submissive. Differant strokes for differant folks and all that. You will get used to spotting the signs in profiles. Dont get upset about it just move on to something that you want.

OmegaG -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 5:55:39 AM)
ya know, I have a new gasp on this dead horse right now. M'Lord had an interest in me topping a male submissive, unfortunately he had is ideas on how I should achive this and I have my own preferences, so he declared that I was not Domme material. So, a this moment I am a bit sick and tired of the whiney assed people who want EVERYONE to fufill their own fantasy. If the woman expects tribure and it doesn't flip you skirt then move on, but don't expect her to change to fit into your mold. Unless we want to encourage these Dommes to start posting about all the fake submissives that they come accross that won't do as instructed.

DarkSteven -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 6:03:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 But I like my InstaDom. I just got him in the mail yesterday and boy is he fun. Hint...if you sprinkle water on him he grows bigger and bigger... And if you water him by putting him in your mouth it works even better. ------------------ OP, I get cmails all the time from incredibly beautiful women living in Ghana who want to be my forever slave. Block, delete, move on. I suggest you do the same with your InstDommes, and that will leave you more time for the Dommes you want to spend time on.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 6:09:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Actually nope, I have never 'tributed' anyone so its not part of being a submissive. I would be willing to dom you, colouredin, if you paid me a tribute. -- PracticingHisArroganceDom

colouredin -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 6:11:27 AM)
Awww Red my darling, it would have to be the other way round that is how amazing I am :P

RedMagic1 -> RE: Instadommes (1/5/2009 6:12:14 AM)
You dommed me after you paid me tribute?

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