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Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/6/2009 9:26:37 AM

greenohiosub

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First I wanted to start off by saying I am very bi curisos, so i wouldnt consider it forced feminization. I am wondering if any sub that explored feminization and bi acts for the first time can share their experiences. I am wondering if it lived up to what they expected. Did any of you back out? Were you turned off and never tried it again? Did you love it? Thanks for everyones time. I am having a tough time making a decision regarding this.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/19/2009 11:58:55 AM

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As a sub who has experienced Forced BI for my Mistress, I have to say go for it! It's not as bad as you think it is. I too was very hesitant to do this for my Mistress. But I finally decided that if I was truly submissive then I had to do what pleases the Mistress. For my first experience I was made to kneel before another sub and take his cock into my mouth, I was surprised at how smooth the head felt on my tongue. Obviously I've felt my own cock with my hands,but never with my tongue. I then sucked until he came in my mouth and then swallowed his load. Since then I've had them cum on my face and in my ass. These experiences haven't turned me into a raging homo, but I do enjoy doing it, especially knowing that it please the Mistress.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/19/2009 12:34:03 PM

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She has taken away your manhood. No one should force you to do anything. I am a subbie and I will be dam if I will allow my dom to force me to do something that i will not d. he knows that i will leave him in a heart beat, I come first then my doms need come second. would your mistress eat pussy for you??? i bet not

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/19/2009 12:37:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: greenohiosub

First I wanted to start off by saying I am very bi curisos, so i wouldnt consider it forced feminization. I am wondering if any sub that explored feminization and bi acts for the first time can share their experiences.

You might also want to check and see what it is you are asking about. Femenization and bi acts are not necessarily linked. One is femenizing someone to make a male look, act and behave like a female. The other is a male being with another male. Not linked.

I have femenized boys before, I enjoy doing it. Fox considers himself gender-fluid, so for him he moves between the stereotypically accepted roles pretty easily. Bisexuality has never been discussed, partly becasue I do not share and partly becasue he is not interested in it.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/22/2009 7:03:07 PM

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I am not into feminisation, and as VampiresLair already mentioned it is does not imply "forced" bi.

I have done it many times and find it very humiliating and putting deeply into submission. I am hetero (at least in vanilla), so when "forced" to serve male dominant or play with other male sub, I feel like genderless thing used for dominants pleasure and amusement.

I must admit I like it. Anal is no problem whatsoever, I had been well trained with strap-on before, but giving oral is not so easy, as it seems to be... Still need lot of practise, LOL

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/22/2009 7:34:31 PM

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I feel that Forced Bi and Forced Fem, are way 2 different things, altogether. I love to be Dressed, so I am not sure if it would be considered forced, though I would love to do it, if it PLEASES a Female.

I also done the Bi thing too, for a Mistress. I only done the anal thing once (with protection) , and it didn't doa thing for me.I would much rather have a Butt Plug in me than a male. With the Oral thing though, that was different. I didn't mind once I seen it wasn't as bad as I thought, as long as a Condom was used. (I prepfer the un-lubricated ones though). HA HA HA
I would do it again if it PLEASES a female, but not for myself. I would rather make the ladies happy.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/22/2009 7:34:40 PM

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Haha... probably not your target audience...

I haven't ever been 'forced' bi by anyone. I do not consider myself bisexual... mainly because I find men sexually attractive and I do not find women sexually attractive (which, I believe is the main criteria

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That said I *have* given a woman oral before. It was my first sexual experience, I was a kid, and I kinda detested it. She certainly seemed to enjoy herself

(and by kid I mean I wasn't even in my teens yet ;) That's what happens when you go to Jewish Summer Camp). It smelled weird, tasted so-so, at best, and was very non stimulating for myself. Sucking a cock, of course, feels much different and ellicits different reactions from myself (excitment and enthusiasm being two)

Since I can only go to hypothetical situations, I guess I would have to say that if my dominant was 'forcing' me to do something like this with a woman I probably would, provided that she was well known to me beforehand and there was an understanding that my main hard-limit (that I do NOT insert on others) would be honored, and likely that she would not touch my own genitals (though, of course that would be dependent on how well I knew the girl and was comfortable with her). Otherwise I would not do it, and especially not for a man that I didn't already have a very serious relationship with already.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/22/2009 8:32:41 PM

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You said you're very bi curious. As long as you're honest and whomever you're being sexual with is consenting, explore away. Have fun! :>
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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/23/2009 1:31:39 PM

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I am in the same boat, I am curous about Bi sex and would love to do it for my Mistress

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/24/2009 2:36:08 PM

anyoldname

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She has taken away your manhood

Gay sex is done by men. They don't both instantly turn into women when they have sex. I am grateful that the wide variety of opinions expressed online is ever a source of amazement and amusement.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/25/2009 4:40:05 AM

iwearpanties

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as a sub male ive done my fun share and play but i have too ask and i sure its been said or asked is if forced if you may hinted at some point you are open too try it or have wanted too ? is it in your limits of thigns your willing too try?

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 1/28/2009 8:58:10 AM

servant4superior

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I had the odd experience of serving an escort for a while. I wasn't paying to serve her and she never did anything kinky with me except for "forced bi". Mainly I cleaned her apartment and ran her errands. She was a vanilla escort for the most part, and did very little pro-domination but she had the occasional client who wanted to either have a guy watch him have sex with her or to humiliate a guy while she watched and she ordered me to fulfill their fantasies so she could make extra money.

For some reason she wouldn't allow me to physically stimulate them except for hand jobs, which I became pretty good at. One guy liked me to beg to eat his cum while he would rub it on my face and make me lick it up after. I'm actually turned off by the male body in general but I found myself actually liking the way a penis looked and felt in my hand more a vagina, although I don't like male public hair. It was a really odd experience.

I did try to back out but she was really good at ignoring that and pushing me through things to her satisfaction. I ended up being very turned on by it.

My first time I heard her talking on the phone, telling a client that she timed his visit for when her bitch was over, which would be me, but she didn't warn me or prepare me. I was doing dishes when he came over and she had me wait out of site while she teased him and then she introduced him to me. She gave him a lap dance and told him he was to small to please her and only I was low enough to touch his little dick. When he got really turned on she snapped her fingers and I started rubbing his dick. I remember I was mostly worried she would make me suck him but I just gave him a hand job until he came. I think she did it the best possible way by not warning me. When she had threatened me with it before this I always tried to get out of it so it was easier the way she did it.

I don't think sexuality is static and I've never fully bought into the lines between straight and gay. I've always excepted what turns me on so I didn't have any conflicting emotions. I think for anyone who is worried it will confuse their sexuality should tread lightly and with someone they trust. For me I think it just felt good to make him cum and live some what vicariously through it since she never let me cum in front of her.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/12/2009 8:51:19 PM

wanabesissysub

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I too am very interested in both topics, feminization and bi acts. I wouldl to hear about first time exp. that others have had. Did it live up to what you expected? Please share...

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/13/2009 4:32:59 AM

yours2command

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I did have my first experience with a guy as a result of a mistress who was into dressing me up as a sissy and making me go to see a male dom. really wasnt my thing. mainly because i am not into the sissy thing in the slightest.

i then went onto discover that i am a pan-sexual and adore doing what is required because of the situation being so arousing. i am not attracted to guys at all but do adore being used as a whore whilst in my collar and bondage gear. i lived for three years as a 24/7 live in slave to a prodomme and really loved being brought in on my lead and required to pleasure them with my mouth or let them suck me whilst mistress was spit roasting the other end. however cos i am not into guys i could only cum if she was fisting me from behind to help me. none of this was forced as i had let my self go to enjoy the whole thing and wow what a fulfillment.

having now come away from being a live in slave and now am seeing life better balanced emotionally as a sub i have to admit it is not as rewarding to be sucking some tiny cock or being shagged by it as i have been double fisted and shagged by huge dildos as a reward during stage performances.

the feorced fem was always threatened if puppy was naughty

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/13/2009 9:44:50 AM

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thanks for your post yours2command. i dont find myself physically attracted to other men. However, i am very attracted to performind the phyical acts associated to bi scenes. Well, at least i think i am as i havnt found anytone to introduce these things to me as of yet. i am wondering what it is like for a bi curious sub to try these acts for the first time. what giving oral a good exp? was it what you thought it would be like? Was receiving anal any different that taking a strapon? Better, worse, etc.. Any feedback would be wonderful.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/13/2009 5:31:01 PM

yours2command

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as i think i had spent so much time dreaming of being required/forced to give oral for a Mistress to enjoy me complying giving oral was very easy as i had no hang ups on why i was doing it. i just did it and tried to give a great blow job. the reality is that the first guy i was required to suck wasn't bi either so the mistress indicated that i should have a wan race over her feet with the guy also competing and then whoever came last had to eat it all. this was also very reassuringly feeding my submissiveness.

as for the first anal i had it was most definitely disappointing as the guy doing me was so inexperienced and small, how can he compete witha big dildo on an experienced Mistress. i did enjoy the mental side of it and wished that the re was also a guy the otehr end.

to be truthful there was a couple of years when i was an owned slave belonging to a self proclaimed goddess. she had problems but i tried to please her by generating clients on yahoo messenger and had them in online slave training, i was actually the goddess on line and they paid money directly into her account and from time to time they eventually booked a session. many of them wanted to do the forced bi scene and so i was very happy as this meant that i got to be in the scene as well. after they did the session they soon came back online to me as the goddess questionning their sexuality as they really enjoyed it. i always tried to help them understand that they were not bi or gay they were just being a good slave/sub.

social conditionning was my biggest problem growing up in a homofobic area in south east london and supposed to be such a man. now that i am just who i am and not what i am supposed to be i can really enjoy the bi side as part of something fulfilling and not have to dress up in tights or similar.
i am very happy withh my sexuality but also i am aware that it changes dependent on mood, situation and circumstances. dont expect mind shattering orgasms everytime though. but it always gives good wank material afterwards even if the real thing falls well short of what you thought it would.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/13/2009 10:27:38 PM

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No one should force you to do anything. I am a subbie and I will be dam if I will allow my dom to force me to do something that i will not d. he knows that i will leave him in a heart beat, I come first then my doms need come second.

Uh.... yeah. The word for the second highlighted part would be "dominance"

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/14/2009 6:31:44 AM

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Thanks yours2command. Your insight is great!

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/18/2009 6:32:34 AM

wanabesissysub

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anyone else lived out this type of scene? i am looking for as much info as possible before i make my decision.

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RE: Questions for male subs that explored forced bi acts - 2/19/2009 2:51:42 AM

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im am sue many sub ahev done this type of scene but they mnay be scared to admnitt they have done it ?

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