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Roselaure -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 8:32:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane
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ORIGINAL: beargonewild
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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane
Can I ask a stupid question? {Ok, Ima ask it anyway lol} Does it really bother people so much that the OP doesn't like bbws? If so, I guess I just don't get it. I mean what's the big deal about him preferring those on the skinny side? His preferences don't bother me a bit. The only thing that bugged me at all was how he stated his preference by saying essentially that those not in his preferences were less than he, that he was above them and better than them. I do not believe that I am better than someone just because they are not within my preferences, nor do I believe I am less than someone just because I am not in their preferences. Honestly, what difference does it make what types he prefers, or what type anyone prefers so long as they don't try to make you feel less for not being within their preference parameters?
Sari, the issue is more along the lines that the OP expressed his view which was condescending to BBW. Yes a change of the wording in the OP would make a world of difference and the meaning would not have illicit the responses given. To ask if a bbw is better at oral sex is just as derogatory as a man saying women are second class citizens, which is entirely false.
See, Bear, that's what I'm sayin'. I don't care if he likes fat girls, skinny girls, or purple boa constrictors, or what have you. The only issue I had was his attitude expressed toward those who didn't fit in his preferences which, as you said, was condescending and derogatory. The reason I asked the question I did was because of all the posts I read where people seemed to be defending themselves over what he said and I couldn't really understand why. I don't feel I have to defend myself because I'm not within his preferences. I mean maybe I read some of those posts wrong or differently than the posters intended them to be, but that's just what came across and I was like WTF? Who needs to defend themselves or their size to someone who doesn't like those that size? I had no problem calling him bluntly on his attitude and the way he worded things, but I didn't feel I had to defend myself for not being within his preference quidelines either. Am I making better sense? Is it clearer now?
Yes, this is what was bothering me about it. If you're not attracted to fat women, you're not, no shame there. But the way he put it like he was soooo amazed at how good she was and jumping to the conclusion that therefore all BBWs must be good at it too, as well as making himself out to be the Dalai freaking Lama because he threw her a mercy fuck. I get the impression he was way out of her league too, but not in the way he thought.
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