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opposingtwilight -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:10:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Unfortunately, opposingtwilight, we seem to live in a world anymore where appearance is number one and the major thing people are judged on. I find it very sad, but at the same time it has become an excellent weeding out tool for me over the years as well.


I know I used "pretty girls" to mean "skinny girls" in my post but I wanted to say that I hate that we live in a society where skinny equals pretty and fat equals ugly. And that it seems that you're either one or the other. There is no average anymore. There is no medium ground. Either you're "skinny, pretty and perfect" or you're "fat, ugly and somehow lacking in every way".

I saw in a magazine where a celebrity had gone from 123 to 108 lbs and at 123 lbs she was described as being fat but at 108 she was sexy and hot. When 123 lbs on a 5'4" frame becomes fat, then I would say we have a serious perception problem.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:14:34 PM)

I think it is quite valid and acceptable to want to be attracted looks wise to your partner. Now it is a shame I will say when someone I could like rules me out based on looks, but then they were probably not someone I'd want to continue to know on a deeper personal level anyway. Since while I feel it's appropriate for people to feel that way, I am one of the ones who feel that looks are  not the total package. If they're not hideous and hard to look at or scares little kids and animals where ever they go, I am more attracted to their qualities than looks.

However I will freely admit there are some people whom I've found so repulsive in dress looks and mannerisims, they could be Mother Teressa incarnate herself, and I wouldn't date them. Just like I would not date an 800 pound person , cause I value being able to do  things together with out one of us being figuratively ready to dye after a few steps, and together more than I'd value a relationship.

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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Unfortunately, opposingtwilight, we seem to live in a world anymore where appearance is number one and the major thing people are judged on. I find it very sad, but at the same time it has become an excellent weeding out tool for me over the years as well.



sirsholly -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:16:26 PM)

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There is no medium ground. Either you're "skinny, pretty and perfect" or you're "fat, ugly and somehow lacking in every way".


Sorry...i am calling bullshit on this



SassySarijane -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:19:02 PM)

I agree so much with that. I never hear anyone described as average anymore. They are either pretty or ugly, fat or skinny/slender, no in betweens at all. It really is a very sad world anymore and is why I am as picky as I am when I get involved anymore you know? I'm not interested in being someone's side piece because they are horny and no one else they like better is available. I guess I have just regained too much self respect to go that route. I figure if I'm going to get involved then it should be with someone as into me as I am into him.



SassySarijane -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:28:26 PM)

Oh it is absolutely valid to want to be attracted lookswise to your partner and I never said it wasn't. I'm just saddened at how people are judged by society and peers on how they look. Either they are pretty and acceptable by society's standards or they are ugly and not accepted by them. No middle ground on it for the most part. Any middle ground acknowledged seems to be the exception rather than the rule so to speak.

What attracts me lookswise to someone is not the same as what attracts someone else lookswise to a person. Society doesn't seem to take the individual preferences thing into account when they set standards on things. I know their standards are not mine and certain ones I find completely invalid to myself and my life and so ignore them and go with what works for me.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:30:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
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There is no medium ground. Either you're "skinny, pretty and perfect" or you're "fat, ugly and somehow lacking in every way".


Sorry...i am calling bullshit on this
I Agree, on it being bullshit. M



manxcat -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:31:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I'm with MsLadySue.  I've been BBW.  I've been petite.  Now I'm somewhere inbetween.  I've always given great head, (simply because i enjoy it) no matter my size. 

*shrugs and wanders off*

ditto
manxcat
p.s.  i added the green bit



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:32:34 PM)

I am saddend by how there's no middle ground, because I've seen some very beautiful wmoen who were 300 or more pounds, but to society they have no worth.


But I've also seen some women so skinny a breeze would blow them over, and their bones stick out and their boney looking and people say their the epitomy of beauty.


Also more and more young girls are believing that the fashion magazine modles are the true beauties , so they'll never measure up, but yet none of them reallly realise glamour magaziens are so air brushed and messed with, that your average celiebrity wouldn't look so fabulouse if they didn't have that knock out team of hair and make up and lighting etc etc.

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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Oh it is absolutely valid to want to be attracted lookswise to your partner and I never said it wasn't. I'm just saddened at how people are judged by society and peers on how they look. Either they are pretty and acceptable by society's standards or they are ugly and not accepted by them. No middle ground on it for the most part. Any middle ground acknowledged seems to be the exception rather than the rule so to speak.

What attracts me lookswise to someone is not the same as what attracts someone else lookswise to a person. Society doesn't seem to take the individual preferences thing into account when they set standards on things. I know their standards are not mine and certain ones I find completely invalid to myself and my life and so ignore them and go with what works for me.



T1981 -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:34:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
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There is no medium ground. Either you're "skinny, pretty and perfect" or you're "fat, ugly and somehow lacking in every way".


Sorry...i am calling bullshit on this
I Agree, on it being bullshit. M


I think she was talking about frustrated she is with how society often percieves a person that way, not that THAT is the view she herself holds towards people (If you look in the post, it also says "I hate that...). I also feel that society has gotten to the point where if you're not skinny, you're fat, and if you're fat, you're ugly - even though we all KNOW this not to be true.





ResidentSadist -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:35:18 PM)

To the OP:
I believe the urban legend that “fat chicks suck dick” has some basis because they probably got better propaganda, not because there is a significant ratio difference.  I can see how locker room stories would bolster the BJ rep for fat chicks that get down, get messy and take care of business.  Those who are vain focused on physique will be boasting in the locker room about how pretty the girl was that daintily sucked his cock like the poor excuse for sex in the Paris Hilton video.  Then someone else speaks up about a fat chick that deep throated him.  He tells how she was breathing between strokes in a constant rhythm while holding his balls up so she could stick her tongue and lick them.  He describes how she also gave him a “reach around” with her other hand and kept all of this up until he had the biggest orgasm of his life and cum shot out her nose.  Afterwards, instead of daintily wiping him off with a napkin, she gobbled up his cum licking his cock, balls and ass clean which sent shivers through his body during the after-quakes.  I’d walk away from the locker room thinking fat chicks rule too!

When both the hunter and the hunted are less concerned with vainity, they are more inclined to focus on the business of dirty, sweaty monkey sex.  If neither of you are busy posing, you can get busy fucking or sucking instead of just laying there like a models making love to your egos while trying to avoid mussing your hair.

I believe it is the combined chemistry of the attitude in a man that finds passion in a woman beyond her superficial physique and the fact that she has that special charm, other than a particular physique stereotype, that triggers passion in people the first place.  They both start off with a bit of chemistry in their favor.  Physical talents aren’t to be negated but as others have said about your state of mind, it counts for an awful lot.

If you take the physical stereotype blinders off, you can plainly see which woman have internal passion no matter what their physique.  When you view women from that perspective, you will see that a portion of fat chicks, skinny chicks and medium sized chicks all contain passion potential.  There are also plenty of girls that are lame in sack no matter what size or shape they are.



sirsholly -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:35:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Oh it is absolutely valid to want to be attracted lookswise to your partner and I never said it wasn't. I'm just saddened at how people are judged by society and peers on how they look. Either they are pretty and acceptable by society's standards or they are ugly and not accepted by them. No middle ground on it for the most part. Any middle ground acknowledged seems to be the exception rather than the rule so to speak.

What attracts me lookswise to someone is not the same as what attracts someone else lookswise to a person. Society doesn't seem to take the individual preferences thing into account when they set standards on things. I know their standards are not mine and certain ones I find completely invalid to myself and my life and so ignore them and go with what works for me.

There is a middle ground Sari...a place where fat, thin, pretty, ugly is not a factor in the least. That middle ground is the presentation of self, and the confidence one has in themselves and shows to others.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:40:56 PM)

Society in general does not see people that way. I agree that a great many people do, but not most. Plenty of people in the US and outside see curvy women as among the most beautiful/feminine in the world. So her perception is a little skewed, maybe by the magazines. M



Lucylastic -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:40:56 PM)

Im fat , always have been, I also have a very healthy libido, and one thing I have never been is "grateful"  or "had to be better at it"  to get nookie or a relationship
Sexuality isnt dependent on size, once you hit a size 14, your sexual emotions dont disapear, you still have the feelings the desires, the talents you learned dont die, your needs dont shrink as you increase in size.
Atho self esteem can affect it...and certainly people saying stuff like *grateful* *mercy fuck* *Have to be good or you wouldnt get any* can hurt, but it  is something men use to justify their *mistakes* to their buddies, especially if they enjoyed it/her/whatever.
Lucy





ElectraGlide -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:43:55 PM)

Wow look at the huge list of people viewing this thread. Any blow job is a great blow job, as long as she dont have snaggle teeth scraping your cock.



SassySarijane -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:45:44 PM)

Oh you won't get any arguement from me on that specific point, Holly, but my middle ground reference was strictly to society's "standards" as a whole and not smaller, individual groups. I have absolutely no problem in my local community as far as being judged on my looks either way. I am very much accepted and have a lot of self esteem and self worth these days. I was as I said commenting on society as a whole and what I see all too often.



MZEllen -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:47:10 PM)

could be oral fixation that I know that I have, doesn't matter if your a bbw, which I am...being Dominant, My fetish is biting.  I find an erotic sensation about sinking my teeth into human flesh.  The sound coming from the sub, the skins reactions beneath my lips, the feeling of the teeth on the flesh..its all a turn on to Me.

Being BBW, yes I know how society looked at Me, with discus and pity.  Oh why doesn't she do something about that????  Well I have done something about it and have lost 145lbs, but I am still a BBW and have a sub in My life now that adores My size, the fullness of My thighs and even My fat juicy honey pot!  He would stay between my legs for hours if I could handle that much stimulation......his thoughts are this....BBW's are much more woman than a skinny girl, but also some men think that BBW's are easy prey.........well I wasn't easy to get, he had to show Me that he was sencere in his endevors to get Me to look at him a second time. Once I did its been a very satisfying experience for us both. 

Do we give better head?  HELL YES!!!!!



RCdc -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:47:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
There is a middle ground Sari...a place where fat, thin, pretty, ugly is not a factor in the least. That middle ground is the presentation of self, and the confidence one has in themselves and shows to others.



I am calling yay on that and bullshit on the whole - 'its magazines, media' ect excuses you get over and over.
This guy asked a pretty standard question.  Mostly, he got the whole chicks together/not another fat thread tirade.
Thing is he hit a nerve.
 
I don't think fat.  Or ugly.  Or short.  So I present someone attractive because I believe I rock.  And to be honest, I wouldn't choose a fat or overweight partner who felt that they were any of these 'negative' perceptions of said weight because they aren't necessarily negative.
 
the.dark.



SilverMark -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:48:47 PM)

I think there needs to be a scientific study on this subject....
so, all the big girls over here--------->
<-----thin girls......medium girls----------->
<------tall girls      short girls-------------->
I volunteer to try them each out, and I'll get back to you with the statistics!



colouredin -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:50:26 PM)

I disagree that there isnt a middle, even in terms of appearance, im not fat im not thin, im not ugly im not stunning, im the middle groud, most people are.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Do BBW give better head? (1/6/2009 12:51:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark
So I present someone attractive because I believe I rock.  And to be honest, I wouldn't choose a fat or overweight partner who felt that they were any of these 'negative' perceptions of said weight because they aren't necessarily negative.
 
the.dark.
I agree that the reason some people are seen as unattractive is largely related to how they see/feel themselves. I don't focus on shallow, though have my own preferences, but no one is allowed to come near me if he doesn't also believe I rock. M



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