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Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 2:03:50 PM

boundinside

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Recently i have been seeking out more and more information about becoming a sissy and having a Domme strip me of my manhood. But looking at this from a vanilla's perspective puts a new light on things. The Woman, my Princess, is new to the lifestyle and is still learning. I want to know what i myself could do to show her that i want to be more feminine and also what she could do to guide the process of becoming a sissy. I would apprecieta any advice there is to offer. Take care

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 2:07:05 PM

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wear a dress and some killer heels?

Or talk to her about what she wants. Id go for this one.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 2:32:05 PM

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It all starts with discussing it with her. Does she want a sissy? If so, you can explore together, get information through google and search here. There may be some who can give advice in this, but you really need to talk to your dominant.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 2:47:02 PM

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Probably out out of line... but personally I have never understood it. From my view it is a terrible waste of male existence.
But then that is just me.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 2:51:50 PM

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Well I for one say you can always start to wear pink undies under your trousers for starters.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 3:51:19 PM

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sorry honey, if I wanted a female, I'd have a female.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 4:05:56 PM

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 4:14:03 PM

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Oddly, I've always considered the pursuit of the cult of masculinity a tragic waste of the male existance, but then, that's me....;)

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 5:19:28 PM

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Oddly, I don't assign much meaning to the term "masculinity." Or "femininity." Or "male." Or ... well, you get the picture. What do these words mean?

And, MstrPBK--what do you mean when you use the term, "male existence?" What does it mean to "waste" it? I'm not really trying to give you a bad time, but I wonder where your ruminations on this topic have led you. Not to the same place my own ruminations on the topic have led me, I'll wager.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 6:46:26 PM

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Here we go again.. trotting out the old stereotypes time and time again.

You know it doesn't take much to type a five letter word 'sissy' into any Internet search engine to come up with a whole host of sites written in plain English for sissies.

I'm not a sissy and have no interest in it, but I know those men who are and for one thing it's a role play, and for second some of them are some of the most masculine guys I know. I don't see how being a sissy makes a guy any less masculine, or any more feminine come to think about it. You got a cock in a frock, that's what it's all about.

A sissy doesn't have to be a crossdresser, a transvestite, a panty wearer or anyone else who blurs the division between genders.

Still it's always interesting watching those on either side of the gender divide getting their knickers, erm sorry, frilly panties in a twist on such an issue.

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 7:50:41 PM

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hey Boundinside as a long panty wearing male i willsay mnay here have given you some realy great advice but i willsay communication is one of the biggest thigns youll need to have . how far do you wanna take your role paly ? is only wearing panties . make you you both get equal time as sub/Mistress or sub / master but most important is enjoy and share with each other

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RE: Sissification and taking one's manhood - 1/6/2009 9:09:09 PM

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You need to sit down and talk to her openly about what it is that you BOTH want. She may have no interest in this whatsoever. You cannot force such a thing on a Dominant woman she will show you the door most likely.

My male sub is a transvestite, he adores and respects women for the beautiful, intelligent people that we are. A part of him desires to share in this, so he wears our clothes, makeup and does his hair in the privacy of our home. He looks pretty and sexy. But he never refers to himself as a sissy or a slut because that is not how dressing fem makes him feel, it makes him feel complete and happy.

Do some soul searching and then speak with her.

Good luck,
~Lashra

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