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Strapon question - 1/6/2009 11:57:26 PM

ddogg2

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Why is it so many guys want to try a strap-on? I read so many guys are into it that I am curious as to why. Do you girls like doing it to a guy? If a girl F's a guy with a strapon does that mean that she is the dom and he is the sub now? I've seen photos and it looks hot but I am not sure. I know I am not a sub, but I doubt any sub woman would do this to her guy and enjoy it. Do you girls enjoy this activity?

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:05:24 AM

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if it makes him happy, why not?

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:12:26 AM

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It really amazes me that anyone should like getting fucked in the ass, but I am also equally amazed at the way mine react to pain. It is not, on the whole, how I would react, but I am very happy that there are people like that in the world just the same.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:15:10 AM

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It stimulates the prostate...
and no, that doesn't make you gay....
As for finding a sub woman to use a strapon? I cannot say

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:20:07 AM

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My Master loves what i can do to His prostate.....so yes, i have done this for Him, once. Yes, it was and still would be very hard for me to get my head round, but it is just another way of serving Him and giving Him the pleasure He wants. So, i guess the answer is.....i am not very comfortable with the psychology of it all, but it made Him happy so that is all that matters... i am His slave and therefore, pleasing Him is what i do...no matter how difficult i can find it sometimes.

a thoughtful gabrielle x

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 1:21:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GimpinDenial

It stimulates the prostate...
and no, that doesn't make you gay....
As for finding a sub woman to use a strapon? I cannot say

Doesn't help prevent prostate cancer? Could be a dumb answer, but that's what I have understood lol.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 2:42:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ddogg2

Why is it so many guys want to try a strap-on? I read so many guys are into it that I am curious as to why. Do you girls like doing it to a guy? If a girl F's a guy with a strapon does that mean that she is the dom and he is the sub now? I've seen photos and it looks hot but I am not sure. I know I am not a sub, but I doubt any sub woman would do this to her guy and enjoy it. Do you girls enjoy this activity?

For the guys ~

Many, many nerve endings in the first few inches of the anal passage = pleasure zone

prostate massage = beneficial to male health. Not only highly pleasurable for the male but also an excellent way to release the pent up anxiety, stress, etc that men tend to internalize in their daily lives. (Note: there are medical exceptions to this - Google for 'prostate massage')

Above and beyond the obvious stimulation (when done correctly) is the party going on in the male brain in reaction to the experience

For the girls ~

It's always hot to know that your partner is mentally thrilled by the combination of stimulation and the VERY high level of intimacy and trust. Its notched up a bit more (okay - a LOT more) by the exercise of power and the act of 'conquering' the male.

If you get the chance, watch 'Bend Over, Boyfriend'. A bit campy but explains a lot of things very well.

A guy doesnt HAVE to be a sub and a female doesn't HAVE to be a Domme. It's safe to say this takes place outside the BDSM community. The added dynamic of control and conquering just makes it a lot more fun ;)

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 3:01:35 AM

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I have done this once to a dominant male who I was interested in at the time. It was one of his biggest fantasies. For him it was confronting something that he had been taught his whole life was wrong but that he found immensely pleasurable and desired. It was partly about making the choice of what was acceptable for him. I have known many guys who wanted to try it and the one constant reason in their explanations was how pleasurable anal play could be for them. How far they wanted to go in terms of anal play and strap on use varied with how comfortable they were with the idea.

As a submissive, yes you can enjoy doing this. It is not about changing roles in your relationship with your Dom. It is about pleasing them and making them happy. While my Master has never made this particular request of me, if he were to I wouldn't think twice about it. Its something he wants, something he thinks he would enjoy and if its in my power for him to enjoy himself, give him what he wants and please him then I will do it.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 7:03:33 AM

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I have used dildos and my fingers on Daddy but not my strap on..I have only used that on other females.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 7:11:07 AM

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[quote]ORIGINAL: ddogg2
If a girl F's a guy with a strapon does that mean that she is the dom and he is the sub now? I've seen photos and it looks hot but I am not sure. I know I am not a sub, but I doubt any sub woman would do this to her guy and enjoy it. Do you girls enjoy this activity?[/quote]

It's not the activity that's dominant or submissive, it's the people in the relationship. If the power exchange remains unchanged, and the dom requests an activity of his submissive, then he is still dom, merely enjoying a physical activity.

Lots of doms enjoy anal play - more than you may think. Provided the power remains with the dom, I will provide this for him if requested. Is it my favorite thing to do? Nope ... but that's neither here nor there sometimes ...

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 9:36:38 AM

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Although I have never experienced a woman with a strap on ... I definatly have experienced anal pleasure. The reason is simple and the details would take forever to go into however.... the Orgasm experienced by the man is something compleatly and totaly different than any other type of orgasm he has had. It also truly empties a guy out in ways that normal masterbation dosnt. It resolves problems that can occur with a guys prostate from lots of quick sex. It makes a guy deal with a compleatly different perspective that in some ways reshapes the comprehention of the effect of sexual exchanges with woman that creates a greater degree of empathy and understanding of why some woman behave the way they do and makes it easier to get around some of there thought proccesses. Oh... and the orgasm... is compleatly fucking insane and actually has to be mentally dealt with ....lol.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 9:51:41 AM

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I have never been mistaken for a submissive when I wear my strap-on to clubs but I know plenty of dominant guys that show great interest in it.
I don't think you have to be submissive to want/desire to feel the strap-on, nor do I believe you need to be dominant to want to give it.
Personally I enjoy sometimes having a cock!!. Its just another way of exploring sex.

My man has worn a strap-on to give me double penetration and that worked!

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 9:57:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ddogg2

Why is it so many guys want to try a strap-on? I read so many guys are into it that I am curious as to why. Do you girls like doing it to a guy? If a girl F's a guy with a strapon does that mean that she is the dom and he is the sub now? I've seen photos and it looks hot but I am not sure. I know I am not a sub, but I doubt any sub woman would do this to her guy and enjoy it. Do you girls enjoy this activity?

It's safe to say that in this case: she is Topping and he is bottoming. This does not mean the dom/sub roles have switched as topping and bottom refer to who is the doer and who is do-ee.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 10:04:56 AM

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I will say as a male submissive that first, it does feel great. It has to be just right, but when it is there is nothing else quite like it. Being straight, a strap-on or self stimulation is the only way to get that feeling, and why do something alone when your partner can share in it with you~
At the same time, it does create a strong feeling of submissiveness for me as well. I suppose I still hold a little of the idea that it is somehow 'wrong' and so being told to do something like take a strap-on is humiliating. I am not quite sure how I feel about this, but being submissive gives me an excuse to feel like I am forced to do all of the things I am too embarrassed to admit that I want or enjoy; and this fits into that category as well. I am still dealing with the feelings that much of what I want is somehow wrong to enjoy, and strap-ons are just one of those things. But I am digressing: it just feels really good and brings in a little humiliation element.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 10:07:29 AM

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As a Dom, my initial reason for wanting to explore strapon play was to experience something of what my sub or, indeed, any woman, experiences from penetration. I sensed that being penetrated for pleasure, as opposed to domination, created emotions that I could never completely understand from "top" experiences. Aside from curiosity, the goal was to be a better and more creative Dom.

I was concerned that being fucked would undermine the power dynamic with my sub. But, after thought, it occurred to me that even while "face down and ass up", I would still be "in charge" and "in control." She would do only what I commanded her to do and only because I commanded her to do it. Moreover, she would do it out of her need to please and obey. I came so far as to believe that it could actually strengthen the power exchange because it would push her limits, demonstrate my willingness to push my boundaries (i.e., if he is willing to do this to himself, what would he do to me?) and, not least of all, because of the new intimacy it would create.

As things turned out, being fucked was a huge success for both of us. The physical and emotional sensations were a revelation. I don't claim to now be able to completely relate to the "bottom" experience but I'm much closer to that understanding than I was before. And, the orgasm is the most powerful I have felt.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:21:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ddogg2
Why is it so many guys want to try a strap-on? I read so many guys are into it that I am curious as to why. Do you girls like doing it to a guy? If a girl F's a guy with a strapon does that mean that she is the dom and he is the sub now? I've seen photos and it looks hot but I am not sure. I know I am not a sub, but I doubt any sub woman would do this to her guy and enjoy it. Do you girls enjoy this activity?

Hi, I'm going to cut and paste your questions and then answer below them:

Why is it so many guys want to try a strap-on?
**Because it feels good to be penetrated, because it is a different headspace than being the penetrator, because they are utilizing another physical aspect of themselves to interact sexually with their partner, etc.

Do you girls like doing it to a guy?
**Oh, yeah! :>

< Paraphrasing > If a girl 'does' a guy with a strap-on, does that make him the s-type and her the D-type?
**Depends on the dynamic and intent but no, not inherently. I've done this with someone who was wholly submissive to me and have also shared the activity where the other was definitely in charge. Totally diffferent experiences.

Do you girls enjoy this activity?
**Indeed, I do. A LOT!

You said it looks hot. Why would you not choose to give it a whirl? (Suggesting you try it with the willing lady of your choosing).
Davan

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:30:49 PM

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love strapon play

geez how many times have i said that before ? ..my lady my mistress started playing with my ass first with her fingers ..first one then 2 and then 3 ...gosh that felt good i told her ..from there we went to butt plugs ..dildos and vibrators

after i was not that tight anymore she introduced me to her 6 in strapon ...gawd she looked great wearing it was my first thought

having that cock dangling inbetween her sexy legs i just loved the view she loves the control aspect of it with the power exchange and i love the submissiveness of it too

boy when that lady started playing with my ass she sure did hit a gold mine with me anyways

now its the 10 in strapon at least ...and the biggest one i had in me is the 14 bam all the way in

and yes she fists me on a weekly basis now ...if your into strapon play try having her fist you ..that first time she slides in is amazing indeed

she loves it too because its actually a part of her thats in me ..so far i can take up to her elbow ..she has trained me well i must say

and yes she knows my prostate well and yes that does feel amazing once she starts massaging it and getting me to cum like she does

gladly bendover for her anytime she wants to take my ass ..have fun mal

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 12:35:51 PM

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Was wondering where you were mal....

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 2:29:19 PM

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I used to divid things into submissive and dominant acts, and then the boundries became blurred and I realized that no one act is inately submissive. It's amazing how much guys can take. Impressive even. Strap-ons I've done, but fisting a guy is something I haven't gotten to...yet.

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RE: Strapon question - 1/7/2009 2:43:19 PM

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hi Ms Lynnxz

and yes i love ass play ..being fisted anally by a woman is awesome indeed ...if your really into strapon play like i am ..try having her fist you next

amazing feeling it is i must say

mal

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