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WiseCracknSadist -> Tricky Business (1/7/2009 6:42:21 PM)

How does one meet the needs of a pain slut without leaving marks for her husband to find?




angelwithhonor -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 6:45:01 PM)

.....maybe have her husband put them there???




CatdeMedici -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 6:59:55 PM)

uh oh[8|]




DavanKael -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 7:07:30 PM)

Okay, so I am going to ask the profoundly obvious: why is her husband finding marks a problem?  And, why, oh, why, would you be doing something that her husband is not okay with/consenting to?  Husband trumps dominant, me thinks.
  Davan




WiseCracknSadist -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 7:30:18 PM)

I never said I was involved in anything. I have read profiles and forums and it prompted me to ask what I thought would be an interesting question.




sleeper798 -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 7:47:15 PM)

Has she considered a sport that regularly leaves marks? I considered taking up roller derby for this exact reason! LOL




nafakcha -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 7:49:39 PM)

It depends on how easy the submissive (regardless of gender) marks and what their definition of being a pain slut is. After a certain point there may not be any real way to hide the marks, especially if they mark easily. Common sense things like watching how many times the same area is hit, and the thinner the object (and the more force it is applied with) there is an increased likelihood of leaving marks. Playing lightly at first and slowly increasing intensity as you learn what their body's tolerances are. I don't think (practically speaking only) that its any different then a submissive having a job where some areas of the body are shown and marks would not appear professional. (Wearing a swimsuit or other athletic gear is an example that comes to mind.)




E2Sweet -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 7:51:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

How does one meet the needs of a pain slut without leaving marks for her husband to find?


Poke the husband's eyes out prior. Problem solved. [8|]




T1981 -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 8:00:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

Poke the husband's eyes out prior. Problem solved. [8|]



Devious..... I like it! (reminds self to keep sharp objects away from E2's reach in the future...)




BlackPhx -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 8:33:13 PM)

I am going to answer this from another aspect..Not that a husband might see them who is being cuckold but that marks would be detrimental to her job or familial relationships. Sports are one way to explain them, accidents do happen but the best way I have found is to forget about doing gross pain play (whips, cats, floggers, canes etc.) but to work on the micro scale. Needles, tens, violet wands, clamps w/weights, sectioned hair pulls and weight, contortion positioning with padded restraints, pressure points, Whartenberg wheels to labia and feet, and other such torments work on nerves without leaving marks and bruises if done carefully in small areas.

Everything is going to leave some trace behind even if you are ultra careful, but most often they will not be noticed, unless someone is searching for signs..

poenkitten




persephonee -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 8:37:45 PM)

did i mention that i think im going to have to work on February 6th???.....[sm=couch.gif]




DavanKael -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 9:02:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist
I never said I was involved in anything. I have read profiles and forums and it prompted me to ask what I thought would be an interesting question.


Uhhhhh, yeah [8|]  (See, you got my first smiley emoticon in nearly 1,000 CM posts, isn't that special?!).
Okay, so it's entirely hypothetical. [8|]  My questions still remain.  (See, one of the perils of entertaining vagaries is that people can walk them in any direction they wish as I did with my queries which you didn't really answer). 
Taking this hypothetical yarn a bit further, if we assume she's not cheating [8|] and that you just don't want to leave marks for some other reason, there have been some great suggestions made for ways to minimize marking and as a dominant, I suppose it would be a great opportunity to read up on things painful that mark minimally.  Perhaps your local bdsm group may have some seminars upcoming in which you may partake. 
The answers, too, would depend largely on how easily marked the subject is.  If someone does not mark easily, much greater a field of possibilities for causing them pain than someone who does mark very easily. 
And, while I'm a bit on the sleepy and mellow side to indulge my inner saidst at the moment, I'd say that a good bet would be those places that are most difficult to see/and or where the skin is a different color already (Inside the mouth, labial/vaginal areas, etc.). 
All hypothetically speaking, of course [8|]
  Davan






MsWolfPrincess -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 9:07:02 PM)

I like the roller derby answer[sm=hyper.gif]




E2Sweet -> RE: Tricky Business (1/7/2009 10:17:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: T1981

Devious..... I like it! (reminds self to keep sharp objects away from E2's reach in the future...)


I'm all about the quick thinking and fast action tonight...[;)] Perhaps its a full moon....




DesFIP -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 6:13:48 AM)

Let's assume he's okay with her getting some play but doesn't want to see bruises or have to tread lightly around them. Sensation play instead of s & m, bondage, violet wand (electricity play in general). Hand spankings aren't as likely to bruise her. Food irritants such as figging, capsaican, menthal, pure oils like mint - all applied to sensitive bits are likely to have no marks but a big sensation.

Additionally she should use arnica cream, avoid hot showers/baths, avoid aspirin.




BondageBarbieX -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 7:01:41 AM)

I don't think she should be doing anything that her husband dos not know about,I would avoid this situation.




Mercnbeth -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 7:54:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

How does one meet the needs of a pain slut without leaving marks for her husband to find?


A 'Dave's Hot Sauce' spiked enema plugged with a ginger root; retained though a good deep throated, face fucking, and a piss shampoo. Granted, the piss shampoo isn't painful, but after you've served her so well you should get something out of it.

Have fun - take pictures and threaten to publish and send them to her husband if she doesn't serve, and service, you and your buddies nude during your 'Super-Bowl' party; which, of course, she'll be paying for the food and beverages.




T1981 -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 7:57:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
A 'Dave's Hot Sauce' spiked enema plugged with a ginger root; retained though a good deep throated, face fucking, and a piss shampoo. Granted, the piss shampoo isn't painful, but after you've served her so well you should get something out of it.

Have fun - take pictures and threaten to publish and send them to her husband if she doesn't serve, and service, you and your buddies nude during your 'Super-Bowl' party; which, of course, she'll be paying for the food and beverages.


[sm=hewah.gif]

Wow.....*runs in absolute and sheer terror*




AquaticSub -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 8:56:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

How does one meet the needs of a pain slut without leaving marks for her husband to find?


Don't be involved with women who have to hide it from their husband.




colouredin -> RE: Tricky Business (1/8/2009 9:01:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

I never said I was involved in anything. I have read profiles and forums and it prompted me to ask what I thought would be an interesting question.


If true you could just have asked for ideas to cause pain without leaving marks. If you ask it that way it opens things up a bit. There are many types of pain sensation that dont require impact play etc. The violet wand which someone mentioned is a really good one.




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