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Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:31:28 AM   
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I have come to the realisation that I have a hair fetish, not body hair, that's best not there, but head hair, I just love messing with it, having it at times is a complete p.i.t.a, especially as it does it's own thing most of the time, something which I dread, but when sorting it out, I love it, the messing with it, oiling it, washing it etc. I have even taken an interest in finding decent wooden combs for it and love detangling it and smoothing it through, it is like a private momment, I find it very relaxing combing the mop. As to anyone else fingering my hair, I love it, hands in head hair, like wow, even the pulling of it, be my guest.

Is anyone else like this, does it take on any better dimension than what I do, ideas, experiences would be nice to read.


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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:33:55 AM   
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I love having my hair played with, i dont really do much to it myself so i cant realte on that side but there is something deeply comforting about having someone softly and gently play with your hair, makes me feel safe and very pet like. But it really has to be soft, ie known people to rub their hands over the top trying to be romantic but really just tangling it and making me want to scream.

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:44:35 AM   
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I found out recently, that I'm loving the sensation of having my hair pulled.

A vanilla "friend" of mine, being over a foot taller than me, has this adorable habit of stroking my hair when we're cuddling or hugging.  Gives me a very pet-like feeling too...why can't he be kinky too?!?! 


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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:47:01 AM   
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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 8:19:42 AM   
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I found out recently, that I'm loving the sensation of having my hair pulled.


There's nothing better than to be kissing a woman, her lips, the nape of her neck, her tits, and, well, one hand on her tits or clit and the other firmly entrenched grasping fully a healthy mane of long flowing hair, thereby twisting her head back, exposing more and more of the sensitive chin and upper neck and making her tits stand out, all to be kissed as she is so held!

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 10:26:53 AM   
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Sir enjoys long hair so i have grown it out. Since I have had short hair for a long time i am amazed by it's length as well. My hair gets caught in my mouth when i am serving Sir with a blow job. Something about that is a turn on for me. Sir pulls my hair a lot and it is very enjoyable to me, even when dragging me by my hair. He is always touching or messing around with my hair, which at this time is in the middle of my back.

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 10:46:53 AM   
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Hair fetish is more common than you think.I had one Dom that I had online that used to watch me on cam just to see me play with my hair,eat my hair,suck on it,brush it ,wrap it around my tongue and anything else you can do with your hair..
I will not allow my hair to be pulled ...that is a hard limit.

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 10:52:41 AM   
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i absolutely looove my hair being played with, stroked and brushed while i am being held. and i also loooove it pulled huge turn on.

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 10:55:34 AM   
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A.. I love hair too... which is one of the reasons that I am (happily) surprised by my adoration of the Pirate...

ok, I admit.. I'm still a sucker for the 80s hair band thing...

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 10:59:11 AM   
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Jeez Aneirin, you sure do love your own hair! You must have gorgeous hair!!   Had to say that since you never said "her" hair.                          I was on The Iron Gate and found this video on Hair Corsets.http://www.the-iron-gate.com/videos/40I am home all weekend if you'd like to show me how much you love midback length hair!! 

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 11:06:54 AM   
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I love hair. I've been doing loose curls for about a month now, and I can't keep my hands out of it.

If only the boy could have a mohawk at work... I'd shave the sides of his head myself!

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 11:09:38 AM   
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oooohhhh, yes, I completely relate to this!  I love my hair pulled, stroked, held, yanked, petted, brushed ... so sensuous!

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 11:15:55 AM   
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~FR~ I'm not allowed to put my hair up unless I'm cooking or we're doing a scene which just makes it safer.. but every once in a while, he'll have me braid my hair, get the braid wet then flog me with it. yum!

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 11:19:46 AM   
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My hair is straight, long and I just cut off ten inches for locks of love and its above my waist now. Drives me crazy during the day, but, having it washed with firm fingers massaging my scalp, tugging and brushing it out, especially over the scalp. playing with it, stroking it, fingers running thru it, tugging it, even hard is a pleasure that has me relax yet intense tooo
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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 5:47:33 PM   
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I love washing his hair in the tub.  it's a special treat for me, even tho he keeps his hair ultra-short.  I love the shape of his skull and massaging his head too while I lather him up...

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 5:58:29 PM   
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Jeez Aneirin, you sure do love your own hair! You must have gorgeous hair!!   Had to say that since you never said "her" hair.                          I was on The Iron Gate and found this video on Hair Corsets.http://www.the-iron-gate.com/videos/40I am home all weekend if you'd like to show me how much you love midback length hair!! 



Hahahaha, and when the scissors came out, I half expected for his hair to be cut at the top of the 'corset', and him flogged with what would be an interesting flogger.

My hair, well, it needs really to be twice the length it is now for anything useful, wet, it is a few inches below shoulder, dry, it is shoulder height. I did have just above waist length before, but it was not in as good condition as it is now. I cut it all off to a number four to please an ex, how stupid of me, she dumped me six months later.

But corsets, and the wearing of, yum yum, I am saving for a nice leather UB tight lacing corset.


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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 6:03:21 PM   
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I have mid-shoulder red-blonde THICK hair (usually blonde) and I love having it brushed, washed and tugged on while playing.

Now if my partners tug on my hair and nip me on the throat while having sex, I will explode!

Afterwards, I hate the tangles but someone brushing out my hair afterwards makes me feel better.

Hmmm...perhaps I need a cool shower now...lol!

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 6:20:41 PM   
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quote:

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Jeez Aneirin, you sure do love your own hair! You must have gorgeous hair!!   Had to say that since you never said "her" hair.                          I was on The Iron Gate and found this video on Hair Corsets.http://www.the-iron-gate.com/videos/40I am home all weekend if you'd like to show me how much you love midback length hair!! 



Hahahaha, and when the scissors came out, I half expected for his hair to be cut at the top of the 'corset', and him flogged with what would be an interesting flogger.

My hair, well, it needs really to be twice the length it is now for anything useful, wet, it is a few inches below shoulder, dry, it is shoulder height. I did have just above waist length before, but it was not in as good condition as it is now. I cut it all off to a number four to please an ex, how stupid of me, she dumped me six months later.

But corsets, and the wearing of, yum yum, I am saving for a nice leather UB tight lacing corset.



My reaction was a bit different.. it was " um bud... what are you doing with those siccsors?"

I have done the hair corset before on a sub, but left the long ends as an anchor to tie her hands. You can damn well bet they are not going to pull too hard on it.

As far as hair whips..... go to a beauty supply store and buy some hair. I like the black, with red streaks in it. Also buy some of the thin black elastics.

You can braid the whole length for a handle about 6 inches or so down, tie it off with leather thoing, and then braid bits of the length, or have the whole thing as just un braided hair whip. Be sure to also pick up spray in leave in conditioner.. and brush it out often.

Keep it in a zip loc bag to prevent tangles.

I love mine.

Gwyn

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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:12:00 PM   
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Though it seems most of us love our hair to be messed with, pulled etc, the feelings it creates, is it a fetish ? Does anyone get sexually aroused by it, men get hard women get wet etc ?



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RE: Hair fetish - 1/9/2009 7:21:07 PM   
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I've grown my hair out quite long and I enjoy it. Usually I wear it in a high ponytail when I'm working, but "taking my hair down" is literally a gesture that brings me into a realm of relaxation and sensuality. I love having my hair brushed as a form of service and I've found that the bristles over my skin are also super-relaxing and pleasurable.

Due to the silky texture of my hair, I use a brush with a wooden handle and boar's hair bristles for both personal grooming and play. The brush is not only fun for me, but makes a fine spanking or CBT device when I need a weapon of convenience.

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