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Aszhrae -> How much.... (1/10/2009 4:44:39 PM)

How much of the D/s or M/s relationship do you believe or think should be based upon the physical, spiritual or psyche?
What is more important or less important or should it be in equal amounts?




beargonewild -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 4:57:54 PM)

I believe there should be a balance between all three. I see this being subjective in that I can't determine a numerical value, just that having a balance between all and not having each be in conflict.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 7:16:38 PM)

It's tough to put it all into numbers.  Also, it depends on the kind of relationship.  For a life partner, I need the physical attraction and the sexual compatibility.  But, that kind of thing doesn't last forever, so the mental connection is more important for a permanent relationship.




mc1234 -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 7:38:18 PM)

I need all three in fairly equal amounts - obviously, varying depending on what's going on in our lives.  Sometimes the emotional will be more needed than physical, etc.  Balance - which is very hard to achieve sometimes.




VampiresLair -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 7:57:20 PM)

I dont see much of the spiritual in my relationship with Fox. We are emotional, physical and definitely psychological, but what I consider spiritual does not enter into the equation at all.

DV




littlewonder -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 8:01:54 PM)

For me it's a balance of all of the above. I need all of them present just as equally.





YourhandMyAss -> RE: How much.... (1/10/2009 8:26:33 PM)

Since I don't engage in either D/s Nor M/s none of the above.

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ORIGINAL: Aszhrae

How much of the D/s or M/s relationship do you believe or think should be based upon the physical, spiritual or psyche?
What is more important or less important or should it be in equal amounts?





rubberpet -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 2:57:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aszhrae

How much of the D/s or M/s relationship do you believe or think should be based upon the physical, spiritual or psyche?
What is more important or less important or should it be in equal amounts?



I think it should be in equal amounts...
 
Physical............50%
Spiritual............50%
Psychological....50%
 
Since my relationship with Mistress is so precious to me, I give 150% to make sure I'm doing my part. [:)]




sirsholly -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 4:10:44 AM)

will me, each one is 100%, at different times.




Sundowner -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 4:40:39 AM)




Depends as always on how one interprets the different aspects - I'm with DV in that I don't see what I think of as spiritual relating to D/s.

I wouldn't feel comfortable playing physically (as dom with a sub) if I weren't feeling that it was a totally dom/sub psychological relationship too. So I'm with holly in that both aspects get 100%.






sirsholly -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 5:04:55 AM)

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So I'm with holly in that both aspects get 100%.

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!

The awesome Sundowner agrees with me!!

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!

*does Happy Snoopy Dance.....trips*
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KMsAngel -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 5:11:16 AM)

personally, holly, i figure the physical aspect comes in slightly higher than the others

just sayin' [8|]




sirsholly -> RE: How much.... (1/11/2009 6:03:45 AM)

*snort*




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