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Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 4:00:26 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		Is there really a Sub~Space, or is it a trick,
by Our Masters or Mistresses?

I've been in what I've felt was Sub~Space,
but was not sure how or why I was there
if I was really there?

Maybe it is Sub~consious?
Our minds playing tricks on us
because of what our Domms are saying to us
during play?

How or what do You feel about Sub~space?

What does it do for You?

quote:

"You can see, yet still be Blind."


Sincerely, Ant
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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 4:40:53 PM   
arson982


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Status: offline 		Last week end I had my first flogging and it did not take me long to enter sub space I rember someone asking for a number and 1 or 2 min before I answer.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 4:40:59 PM   
Lenina


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Status: offline 		I've never been in sub space. Though I would like to at some point. I think you need to be very comfortable in a situation to acheive it.
My dom was telling me one day that he had a sub once who got really deep into sub space and then when she finally came back out, cried uncontrollably, but didn't know why.
I guess it's different for different people.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 4:44:21 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		no, it is not a trick. just thinking of being on my knees...gets me there.The One who holds the power of me,keeps me there,the yearning in my belly, the thought of the fire being filled..........by Master,it is lived 24/7. Masters hand making my ass sting....as i count and thank...the need and desire.....

< Message edited by fyreredsub -- 1/5/2006 4:45:45 PM >

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 5:40:25 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Subspace

Subspace can you control it?

Subspace?

Not talking subspace or subdrop, what is it?

SUbspace or just fantasyland?

Subspace safe?

Subspace or subdrop anyone?

Subspace? (2)

A thing called subspace

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 5:42:37 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Is there really a Sub~Space, or is it a trick,
by Our Masters or Mistresses?

I've been in what I've felt was Sub~Space,
but was not sure how or why I was there
if I was really there?

Maybe it is Sub~consious?
Our minds playing tricks on us
because of what our Domms are saying to us
during play?

How or what do You feel about Sub~space?

What does it do for You?

quote:

"You can see, yet still be Blind."


Sincerely, Ant


Nope, not a trick. For me it's like taking a drug and feeling that high that comes with it. The more pain, the higher I go .


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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/5/2006 6:01:20 PM   
Sensualips


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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/6/2006 8:04:57 PM   
classykindasassy


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Status: offline 		It is for real. The body is designed to offer us some protection from acute stress and pain. There are numerous good articles on lifestyle websites.

All my dom has to do is start taking hanks of rope out of the duffle and start arranging them, or start arranging the tack. I get quiet and my mind goes into the zone. Another 10 minutes (the ropes are going on, or my backside getting lit up with sailing leather) and I am in la-la land. I have to work to stay present.

I am really glad that my present dom forbids me to be under the influence of alcohol or anything else while playing. He gets me to subspace so easy it'd be a challenge to let him know important things if I was way out there.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/9/2006 4:08:39 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		If you're not sure you were in subspace, then you weren't. It's something once experienced there is no mistake about.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/9/2006 7:21:52 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: MasterRobert1

If you're not sure you were in subspace, then you weren't. It's something once experienced there is no mistake about.

Which sadly is extremely frustrating for those who haven't experienced it, like an orgasm.

It's often discussed in these hushed awed tones like the mecca of submission or something. It's cool, it's nifty, but it's not the be all and end all of submissive experiences. It's not even a submissive experience, it's a bottom experience.

So, to those who get frustrated or feel diminished because you haven't reached that pinnacle- don't worry about it.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/12/2006 4:13:38 AM   
sassysilk


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A lot of online subs talk about sub space like it's a fairytale experience. And with all due respect to posters.. cried for hours after? Not "because" of sub space, but maybe release attained. Sometimes people tell stories and those who haven't experienced those things that way feel short changed or like they've done something wrong.

My own experience with sub space has been different depending on many factors... How much I have truely submitted to someone/my comfort level, how much is on my mind vs the ability for the dom to truely take the power being given, and the way I feel towards my dom.

With my Master, he's been able to put me in space while simply on the phone having regular conversations, yet there are times we are physically together and I don't achieve any level. I noticed sometimes things need to be more intense depending on my mood, or more emotional to truely trigger it. The neat thing is, now that I'm having His baby, I'm on cloud 9 most of the time anyway :)

Don't sell yourself short if you feel you haven't gotten there. Just keep exploring and keep yourself open.

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/12/2006 6:50:51 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		First congrats sassy on the baby.

As for subspace it is an experience i am alway eager to experience but since my Master died not that easy to find play partners who can take me there. i figure once i find a new master i will hopefully go into subspace again that totally blissed out feeling.

littleone

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/12/2006 9:47:10 AM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		subspace is very very real to me. The moment the blindfold goes on, I drift, then once the gag is in place, I float. Once my Master binds me and ties me tight, that is it.........sub space....................................

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/12/2006 11:33:16 AM   
nonuts4thshoney


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From: Southern California
Status: offline 		i go into subspace from several different things, and the feeling is a little different too. For example, Master bought some clamps from Home Depot (lol) and made me wear them the whole way home which was about a 20 min. ride. Master kept making me tighten them more and more as we drove. Right before we got home we stopped at our mailbox and Master made me get out to pick up the mail. Well, i almost fell over because i had felt like i was sooooooo drunk and could barely hold my balance. Another time, i was being single tailed by Master and was kneeling. Well, once into subspace i lost my balance and fell to the side. Kind of a drunkenness. The only difference with this time was that i cried so hysterically, like i had lost a loved one. And last, usually with flogging i always cry when i've reached my peak and have a slight drunkenness feeling. i dunno if everyone else gets that sort of drunkenness feeling, but i sure do. It's soooo great!

i have a friend who is learning to flog and single tail and every time Master and i play with Her She stops in the middle of it because She says She feels weird. Everytime i would ask Her how She was feeling She would say She didn't know how to describe it but it scared Her. Well, i found out not to long ago [when She was a little drunk..lmao] that She said She feels like She's on a combination of all different types of drugs. But then She described it as sort of being drunk. She figured this out becuase She followed through with the flogging. Now She just wants to get high from flogging all the time..LMAO!!


Supspace/Domspace ..... definitely not a trick. But i beleive it is mental and has alot to do with how much you desire a particular activity. my friend , i swear, has a flogging fetish and thats probably why She went into Domspace. She lovesssss to flog. And i love pain. So thats why i probably go into subspace.

Just my opinions on Dom/subpace

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RE: Sub~Space. Is it a trick? - 1/12/2006 1:22:28 PM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		"I",,,,,,, am TOLD,,,,,,,,,,,it is a...hormone thing.
with MY meds....and MY childhood abuse..."I" will NEVER know....but then again,....
"I" don't WANT TO..."I" am NOT into s/m.

it has-to-be...an acquired taste. either ya like pain or ya don't.

and "I" don't.
pain is pain is pain and "I" resent it..

take care
good luck


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